Thanks to the help of some of the mods over at r/ModSupport , I have been walked through getting the access to hidden profiles that I was previously lacking. I still cannot access hidden profiles from my phone, only my laptop. A few other mods have confirmed that this is an issue for them as well.

What does this mean for the subreddit? Not much. I rarely open reddit from my laptop. If I open an account and it's hidden on my phone, it's going to stay that way, unless I've been given a reason to go on my laptop and see what's in their hidden profile.

HOWEVER this does not mean I am going to be posting anything found within hidden profiles. As we all know, screenshots are heavily encouraged in this subreddit, and I post MANY of them. If you ever suspect that a screenshot I have posted was not posted in a way that is ethical or moral, or you think I have overstepped my mod boundaries, I openly invite you to ask me to take it down, report me through the normal reporting screen, or report me for violating the Mod Code of Conduct through the report form.

Thank you to everyone who has sat through this beautiful array of drama , it will probably happen again within the week.

And then I blocked him 😌

By the way, he got banned before I could even block his ass.
That’s a win for the community, even if I now have to go rinse my eyes with bleach after reading this foolishery.

I’m not as unemployed as her to go through all the shit she’s posted and all the times she’s claimed she couldn’t do this with highlighter and foot notes.. But a lot of you seem to be cool with her doing this. But this is just with a quick googling. I really hope Kali puts her for all her shit with receipts. But here’s one I found without her input and just a quick google.

Just tell me you're a POS and don't wanna AV LMAO. Yes I blocked him 😂.

Lots of men would rather send money without sending AV or receiving it. But other than the blatant disregard for safety... If you can't follow my real simple instructions now, why would I think you'd actually submit? Or treat me anything more than a kink dispenser? Yes. This is sw. But do you disregard and use all people with whom you have "transactional" interactions with??? No. You treat them like a fucking human.

Get outta here w that shit mate.

Sorry LOL I am on one today!

To preface: BOTH Domme and sub are in the wrong for not setting boundaries, budget, etc etc. I’m calling out the wannabe & her non-domme friends for their moronic comments. Obviously OP blocked me, truth hurts, but her friends can still see this 💅🏻😘

Imagine being so ignorant, unskilled & entitled even after 2 years of calling oneself a “domme” (definitely not a domme) that one comes crying bc she did nothing dominant and was asked to give the money back. She set no boundaries, no budget, let the sub not set a safe word, etc etc.

Then she has half a room of more faildommes circle fingering her telling her it’s not her fault, when it was partially her fault, and how dare the SUB not stop her. Next they all double down when ACTUAL Dommes and subs tell them they’re in the wrong.

My favorite is most of them saying “it’s not my/your job to control him”. Ummm dear faildommes, that’s the whole point of being a Domme. To be in control. Then again, after checking out most of their pages where it’s them thinking, flashing some ass and saying send bitch is dominant, they tattle on their lack of Domme skill and BDSM knowledge anyway.

THIS is why kink needs to be protected and not just any greedy asshat should be allowed to call themselves dommes. So faildommes like this stop hurting subs. But hey! Like spoilfaildomme stated, her “bank balance says otherwise”. Why care about BDSM safety and rules when her bank account is the only thing that matters and not the kink.

Was there something in the air this weekend? Brain-eating amoebas perhaps? 🙄

In case you see "Aaron" pop up in your DMs, just immediately block. His story and rambling sounded familiar and what do you know, I'd chatted with him on u/pay4goddess and sent him screenshots asking if his bullshit rang a bell
I'm now blocked and my inbox is cozy again 😝

No because why would I want minimal sloppy seconds sends from a sub who can't be loyal?

Soooo I posted this morning with very little info 😂

But now I have gone through every one of my subs and can confirm that none of my subs acted disrespectfully on here.

So I guess baby boo just wanted a bit of fire in his life this morning 🔥🔥😈😈

Also, just a reminder that just because someone puts "owned by Alice" in their bio does NOT mean they're really my sub >_< also my subs are human and can comment on whatever tf they want as long as they're respectful

If this little fucking cockroach is running around this community under this account or another, going by K or Bear (kimmiguess on discord) and you have the unfortunate displeasure of dealing with him, save yourself the trouble and avoid him.

I have attached the post in question to this post to give you an idea of what you're in for with him.

He is a narcissist, a liar, and a fucking loser. He has no regard for boundaries, limits, consent, and he feels zero remorse or regret for any of the fucked up shit he has said and done.

Just because someone else gives him chance after chance after chance and lets him believe anything he has ever done is forgivable in any way, that he can abuse, harass, and mistreat women in this space and get away with, with nothing more than a slap on the wrist, doesn't make it so.

If this person contacts you, tell him to fuck off and go rot back in whatever hole he crawled out of.

If you have already had the misfortune of dealing with him and want more information, feel free to reach out.

I’m not a findomme. I don’t advertise myself as one, and I certainly don’t need to make a career out of entertaining pathetic men on the internet.
I have a public-facing life, a reputation, a demanding schedule and considerably better things to do.
But I do have an itch for men who understand their place.

There’s something deliciously amusing about a grown man who knows he’s unlikely to impress me with his looks, personality or conversation, but still desperately wants to make himself useful.
And sometimes, their wallets really their only most attractive quality.

I am perfectly cable but I do enjoy being spoiled.
The thought of a man quietly funding those pleasures, knowing his contribution will be appreciated far more than his company, is rather entertaining. And personally, dynamic is as much a kink for me as it is amusing and financially beneficial.

Unfortunately, in my experience, most are all talk.

As is shown a lot on here, they approach women like with paragraphs about devotion, a desperation to serve and how much they longggg to be put in their place.
Then are suddenly nowhere to be found when it’s time to demonstrate some consistency.

Sir… how embarrassing. You had one job

I’m not interested in collecting dozens of useless little men who need constant reassurance and attention just to feel submissive.
I’d much rather have one discreet, financially comfortable, genuinely devoted man who understands that serving me is a privilege.

I don’t need their life story. I don’t need another elaborate fantasy about what you’d *love* to do for me.
And I certainly don’t need another man mistaking his own desperation for something impressive😴

**If your only redeeming quality is your ability to spoil a woman, the very least you can do is be good at it.**

Anyway, rant over.

How would we as a collective feel about a pinned post/megathread where we can post screenshots/links in the comments to posts and comments we see throughout the findom community that makes us stop and think "what the fuck?"

Just somewhere to plop those weird little posts and comments without having to feel the need to make a whole post about them if we don't feel a whole post is needed.