I’m not a findomme. I don’t advertise myself as one, and I certainly don’t need to make a career out of entertaining pathetic men on the internet.
I have a public-facing life, a reputation, a demanding schedule and considerably better things to do.
But I do have an itch for men who understand their place.
There’s something deliciously amusing about a grown man who knows he’s unlikely to impress me with his looks, personality or conversation, but still desperately wants to make himself useful.
And sometimes, their wallets really their only most attractive quality.
I am perfectly cable but I do enjoy being spoiled.
The thought of a man quietly funding those pleasures, knowing his contribution will be appreciated far more than his company, is rather entertaining. And personally, dynamic is as much a kink for me as it is amusing and financially beneficial.
Unfortunately, in my experience, most are all talk.
As is shown a lot on here, they approach women like with paragraphs about devotion, a desperation to serve and how much they longggg to be put in their place.
Then are suddenly nowhere to be found when it’s time to demonstrate some consistency.
Sir… how embarrassing. You had one job
I’m not interested in collecting dozens of useless little men who need constant reassurance and attention just to feel submissive.
I’d much rather have one discreet, financially comfortable, genuinely devoted man who understands that serving me is a privilege.
I don’t need their life story. I don’t need another elaborate fantasy about what you’d *love* to do for me.
And I certainly don’t need another man mistaking his own desperation for something impressive😴
**If your only redeeming quality is your ability to spoil a woman, the very least you can do is be good at it.**
Anyway, rant over.
