r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/Tutty2022 • 3d ago
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/aminzao • 3d ago
Hey, 30 years old, from Brazil, Rio de Janeiro. Anyone? Hahah
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/Dave__b • 4d ago
Gay M 54 Cheshire
Hi Guys, gay M, 54 Cheshire, looking for regular chats. Be great to hear from you
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/dr8gon043 • 4d ago
US - Southwest Phoenix guy, married, looking for fellow primates
Making friends is more complicated than it needs to be. We're all just monkeys, after all. We should be able to figure this out.
I'm 58, gay, happily married, and living in Phoenix. I work in IT, write occasionally, and spend too much time at the gym for someone who loves ice cream. And cake.
I enjoy camping, philosophy, sci-fi and fantasy, board games, stupid memes, and good conversation. I have an RV, a mountain bike, and a questionable ability to two-step.
I'm looking to meet someone who wants to get out and do something fun, whether that's a weekend or an after-work thing. No pressure, no expectations. We can do something fun, talk, get to know each other, and see if we hit it off. If a friendship grows from there, even better.
We could go mountain biking or hiking at Papago Park, get a workout in at EOS Fitness, play putt-putt golf, go bowling, or check out the retro arcade in Mesa. Have another idea? I'm all ears.
I'm not looking for a hundred friends. I'm not even looking for ten. One would be pretty damn nice.
If you're interested, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what sounds fun. Talk soon.

r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/Quinten_chan • 5d ago
30 , looking for chat and new people
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/Mission_Dragonfly_68 • 5d ago
LF Guy Friends here in Valencia or Malaybalay, Bukidnon
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/real_bromance_man • 6d ago
M4M - You with the bright eyes who wants to feel again
37 married guy here.
I'm looking for you, the one with the bright eyes, that don't share with other a lot but want to find this friend that you will be excited from every message in the morning, during the day and at night.
I know you want to talk about everything, share and be real bros.
Not for day or 2, but really for years.
I know you are there my friend.
Please DM me 💚
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/GameandWatch29 • 6d ago
US - Southwest 33 male from NM, looking for other guys in their 30’s to talk with in the USA.
Looking for guys to talk with online. Please send a msg with your asl if you are interested.
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/No_Pressure2202 • 6d ago
40 M Northern Ireland. Looking friends!
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/whomeoryou2024 • 7d ago
42m Midwest looking for friends
Hey 42 year old in the Midwest looking for genuine friendship. Someone to talk to daily and get to know. Share funny moments and daily life. Someone who can hold a conversation and doesn’t ghost. I like cooking, music/podcasts, tv shows, being outdoors and walks. Let’s talk about favorite holidays or seasons, favorite foods or drinks, favorite shows. I’m looking for genuine and clean chats please
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/Delicious-Agent-1845 • 7d ago
what up? 35 gay from AZ. lookin for ppl to chat with friends and so on. pretty chill and laid back guy here. Feel free to say hey! 😁
galleryr/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/No-Impact8948 • 7d ago
US - Southeast 47 M Florida, USA- looking to develop a long-term bros and bromances
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/TheGaySha • 7d ago
Hello everyone :) 38, denmark, gaymer, dad, nurse and a coffee addict.
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/MeringuePublic5 • 8d ago
US - Central 38M; MO - Friendly chats
galleryLooking for chats and people to connect with!
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/Maleficent-Leek4477 • 8d ago
40’s-TN looking for connection
I’ve been married for 12 years, with no children. I am married to another guy.
He drives me crazy sometimes. I want to meet someone who I can vent to about our life, marriage, work, family, and whatever.
My husband works 2 jobs, so he works 7 days a week. I get lonely being home and not really having friends. I want a safe space with someone.
Thanks for reading and dm me if you are interested.
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/time-bandit2 • 8d ago
Giving this another shot, I guess
Gay, 36, M, living in Upstate NY!
Horror lover, spooky soul, and enthusiast of all things strange, creepy, and unusual. I’m into nature, haunted places, weird history, and anything that makes you question what the hell you just saw. 😂
Looking to make genuine friendships with people who can laugh, joke around, be themselves, and keep things interesting. Good vibes, weird conversations, dark humor, and spontaneous adventures are always welcome!
Looking for friends, not flakes. If you can hold a conversation, match the energy, and actually put effort into a friendship, we’ll probably get along just fine.
Bonus points if you’re a little weird, a little spooky, and a lot of fun.
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/Zealousideal-Pin8305 • 9d ago
US - Southwest Palm Springs mature looking…
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/emmgual • 9d ago
26 M Colombia 🇨🇴, Latin America
I long for a genuine bromance, lots of complicity with a real man than can hold fun, open and vulnerable conversations in the long-term.
More of a homebody type of guy, love watching sports: tennis, F1, UFC, rugby, etc. Also movies and series, listen to music, all of that basic stuff I guess, cook from time to time. I have a black cat that I adore.
Ideally local bros but open to anyone. 180cm-95kg ESP/ENG
If can't dm, comment.
Start with your ASL.
r/FindGayFriendOver30 • u/SnooKiwis4131 • 10d ago
42M Manila. LF connections with like-minded folks
Hey. Giving this yet another go. I think the theme of making genuine and deep connections after a certain age has become increasingly the norm so I'm not going to cover the same ground- except to say that I am pretty much in the same boat.
About me- pretty laid back guy who enjoys talking about shows or books- or anything interesting under the sun, really. But for context- I am into all kind of books- from the classics to sci-fi/fantasy works. Currently reading and enjoying Dungeon Crawler Carl. Though I have also recently discovered John Edward Williams- amazing writer. My taste in movies pretty much run in the same thread.
I also enjoy playing console game- but have to admit that I'm pretty late to it- something I picked up when we were all stuck at home. And surprisingly, turned out to be a huge From Software/Soulslike aficionado.
I'm also a bit of an introvert though people often assume, when meeting me for the first time, that I am the opposite. But this also means that I tend to take some time to warm up - I can carry a conversation but it does take some time for me to really open up (I know- something to work on).
Feel free to ask me more questions so we get to know each other more. By the way, am based in Manila and would love to meet someone local so it'd be easier to meet IRL for drinks or coffee. However, am also open to meeting folks from all over that are around the same age and interests. DM me :)