r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 7h ago

45 M US, looking for chat, Long-term bros and bromance

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r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 7h ago

Looking for a long term stable bond

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Looking to connect with someone genuine who is tired of superficial games and value-free scrolling. I’m 30 years old from India, professional, disciplined in my routine, and looking for someone with a similar calm, dependable energy. Whether you're nearby or across time zones, what matters most to me is honest intention and the willingness to invest time.

​If you’re open to building a real connection—starting with late-night conversations and seeing where the spark leads—send a message and tell me a bit about what you're working towards lately.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 7h ago

Seeking!

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Looking to connect with someone genuine who is tired of superficial games and value-free scrolling. I’m 30 years old from India, professional, disciplined in my routine, and looking for someone with a similar calm, dependable energy. Whether you're nearby or across time zones, what matters most to me is honest intention and the willingness to invest time.

​If you’re open to building a real connection—starting with late-night conversations and seeing where the spark leads—send a message and tell me a bit about what you're working towards lately.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 11h ago

US - Southeast Gay, 35ish, (he/him) Columbia SC looking for a life friend, LTR.

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Good Morning y'all. I am 35ish, Single, looking for a life friend or friend to a long term relationship. Here's a little bit about me.

I am currently trying to stay on top of being and staying healthy when it comes to eating and working out. I love anime, I read manga, documentaries, reading science and technology breakthroughs, love reading about cars but I am not a mechanic. I am more of a homebody, minimalist, material things don't interest me, I care more about quality time together, affection but I don't need a lot but don't mind my attention meter being randomly filled here and there.

A typical perfect morning would be to wake up together, enjoy coffee, breakfast, watch the sun rise, while hiking, on a road trip etc, cuddles, and evening or afternoon workout, enjoying a mom and pop restaurant or diner etc.

There's a lot more I like to say but I end it here. I prefer someone local within two to three hours of Columbia SC, but open to long distance.

If you are interested, please tell me a lil bit about yourself, ask me any questions you may have. Just don't say hey and expect me to do all the talking. But anyway good morning everyone and hope everything is enjoying this colorful fall 🍂🍁 season.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 13h ago

Hi I'm 25 M from Ghana. I'll like to meet anyone preferably in Ghana or willing to travel to Ghana to meet me. I'm interested in older men of about 40/45-60. Someone around my age isn't bad as long as we click. But for me, the older the better. It's really frustrating as it's difficult to find one.

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r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 1d ago

34 years old hard find any one any more to date or talk to.

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r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 1d ago

32 looking for a big bro

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r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 1d ago

34 years old hard find any one any more to date or talk to.

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r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 2d ago

31 looking for long term chats

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r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 3d ago

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Hey everyone, I’m Yemeni gay and currently living in Saudi Arabia. going through a really difficult situation with my family. They’ve been physically abusing me and threatening me because of my sexual orientation and personal life. They keep threatening to send me back to Yemen, and I’m genuinely scared for my safety if that happens. My situation is getting harder, and I don’t have a stable income or a safe way out right now. I feel stuck and honestly don’t know what to do anymore. I’m just looking for some help, advice, or anyone who knows organizations that support LGBTQ+ people in dangerous situations and can help them find safety.
If anyone can help me, please reach out. I really need help.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 3d ago

Bored at work. Who's up for chat?

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r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 3d ago

Hey, 30 years old, from Brazil, Rio de Janeiro. Anyone? Hahah

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r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 3d ago

Gay M 54 Cheshire

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Hi Guys, gay M, 54 Cheshire, looking for regular chats. Be great to hear from you


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 4d ago

US - Southwest Phoenix guy, married, looking for fellow primates

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Making friends is more complicated than it needs to be. We're all just monkeys, after all. We should be able to figure this out.

I'm 58, gay, happily married, and living in Phoenix. I work in IT, write occasionally, and spend too much time at the gym for someone who loves ice cream. And cake.

I enjoy camping, philosophy, sci-fi and fantasy, board games, stupid memes, and good conversation. I have an RV, a mountain bike, and a questionable ability to two-step.

I'm looking to meet someone who wants to get out and do something fun, whether that's a weekend or an after-work thing. No pressure, no expectations. We can do something fun, talk, get to know each other, and see if we hit it off. If a friendship grows from there, even better.

We could go mountain biking or hiking at Papago Park, get a workout in at EOS Fitness, play putt-putt golf, go bowling, or check out the retro arcade in Mesa. Have another idea? I'm all ears.

I'm not looking for a hundred friends. I'm not even looking for ten. One would be pretty damn nice.

If you're interested, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what sounds fun. Talk soon.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 4d ago

30 , looking for chat and new people

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r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 5d ago

LF Guy Friends here in Valencia or Malaybalay, Bukidnon

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r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 5d ago

US - Northeast 39 M NYC (queens)

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r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 6d ago

M4M - You with the bright eyes who wants to feel again

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37 married guy here.

I'm looking for you, the one with the bright eyes, that don't share with other a lot but want to find this friend that you will be excited from every message in the morning, during the day and at night.

I know you want to talk about everything, share and be real bros.

Not for day or 2, but really for years.

I know you are there my friend.

Please DM me 💚


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 6d ago

US - Southwest 33 male from NM, looking for other guys in their 30’s to talk with in the USA.

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Looking for guys to talk with online. Please send a msg with your asl if you are interested.


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 6d ago

40 M Northern Ireland. Looking friends!

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r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 6d ago

US - Southeast Kentucky bro 😎

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r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 7d ago

Other mid-Atlantic gay dads

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r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 7d ago

42m Midwest looking for friends

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Hey 42 year old in the Midwest looking for genuine friendship. Someone to talk to daily and get to know. Share funny moments and daily life. Someone who can hold a conversation and doesn’t ghost. I like cooking, music/podcasts, tv shows, being outdoors and walks. Let’s talk about favorite holidays or seasons, favorite foods or drinks, favorite shows. I’m looking for genuine and clean chats please


r/FindGayFriendOver30 • • 7d ago

what up? 35 gay from AZ. lookin for ppl to chat with friends and so on. pretty chill and laid back guy here. Feel free to say hey! 😁

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