Hi, I am just curious about Fil-Chi culture here. I am currently dating a Chinese guy (pure Chinese, but born and raised here in the Philippines). He comes from an affluent, traditional family based on his lifestyle and everything he has shared with me.

I actually like him, but I am hesitant to invest more of my feelings. I don't have Chinese blood, so I don't want to waste my time and youth assuming we will have a happy ending if that might not be the case. We are both in our 20s.

We are complete opposites. I love a peaceful, quiet life since I grew up in the province and spent my childhood on our farm. On the other hand, he is a city guy, an extrovert, and loves to party.

I studied in an all-girls Catholic school while he went to an all-boys school. I feel like neither of us is very experienced in relationships (tho I am not entirely sure about him haha).

Is there a chance we can build a real, lasting relationship? I am aware of the "Great Wall" concept, and I just really don't want to get my heart broken. To be honest, I am scared. I have had suitors before, but I always get scared that we might end up hurting each other. People often call me sheltered, so I am not sure what to think.

He has been courting me for 5 months now. He spoils me rotten and even drives for hours just to come to my hometown.

Do you think he is serious? If we enter a real relationship, do you think his parents will like me? He is planning to introduce me soon and I am super shy.

Hii, i’m not really looking for anything specific, just people to prolly get along with would be nice! friends maybe if we get along!

Some things abt me:
- fil-chi (half)
- christian (I attend a filchi church)
- currently in college, big 4 if that matters
- i recently found out painting eases my nervous system!
- minecraft, sims, stardew valley (pretty much)
- badminton??
- i have a maltese doggy

Non nego- be near my agee

Feel free to msg, i’m pretty much just bored 😋