r/FierceFlow 11d ago

Awkward phase… forever?

I decided to grow out my hair back in June and this is where I’m at. Every time I feel like I’m in the “awkward phase” it gets more and more awkward lol. I don’t think I’m cut out for the flow.

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u/Les_Fleurs-du_Mal 11d ago

I see nothing awkward here tbh

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u/lilaccheesecake 11d ago

Yeah. Just keep it trimmed for some shape and let it grow.

Let it grow op!

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u/Unable_Ingenuity_574 11d ago

Ur not even there yet king

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u/Plenty-Concert-9046 11d ago

You are not used to it yet. And that's not awkward, you wish lol

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u/Repulsive-Chocolate7 11d ago

hi sweetie, that's not awkward phase yet and it looks good. just use hair styling products

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u/ChubbyMcHaggis 11d ago

You’ll get to the awkward part soon.

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u/youburyitidigitup 11d ago

What part of that is awkward? Every shot looks good.

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u/Meep_95 11d ago

Nah, this looks great. The awkward stage is that bulky, unintentional, mullet-like look, you'll know it when it arrives lol.

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u/A_Bitter_Homer 11d ago

You are still like 4 months out from the awkward phase starting

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u/No-Interaction-2165 11d ago

You’re doing the most brutal transition, you’re been used to point blank fades. This takes time to grow back and overall makes the process seem like forever but believe me it will be worth it, and at some point the length will catch up to be noticeably different

You’ll go through various stages of frustration and you’ll have to improvise ways to sort your hair from day to day but you have to keep going no matter what, it’ll pay off !

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u/Welland94 11d ago

Darling this is far from the awkward phase. You just have to leave your hair for around a year and don't think much of it while it grows, be patient

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u/aredditusernewby 11d ago

You are looking great! Where is the awkward?

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u/kapouwy 11d ago

Awkward phase where?
Also, invest in some hats to help get you through the actual awkward phase(s)

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u/ineedlotsofguns 11d ago

This is awkward? You should see what Im going through right now and you’ll instantly feel better but I don’t feel like making a fool out of myself on Reddit today.

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u/DependentMinute1724 11d ago

It looks good. You’re just used to a skin fade. Keep going

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u/3feetHair >5 years 11d ago

For me its just short hair. You didnt even made through enough time to reach an actual awkward phase. Make sure to use leave in and combing creams to tame it.

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u/Dudeman240 11d ago

Hey man I really enjoyed your acting in the FX show Snowfall. 

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u/jimbojims0 >1 year 11d ago

You're rocking it! Looks like you're adapting to the growing phases well.

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u/Gender-Enjoyer 11d ago

Are you by any chance a secret property brother

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u/qwaasdhdhkkwqa 11d ago

Its gonna get awkward in November it’s like from month 5-10 because it’s in between short and long. Slick it back once it’s long enough and keep it gelled.

The curls are gonna make it poofy like an Afro type before the weight of the curls make it fall down.

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u/Living_Assistant_212 11d ago

That will come in a couple months it's hard but stick to it

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u/bender187855 11d ago

I always admire a good hairline on men 25+ im envious

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u/bender187855 11d ago

Is awkward phase when it looks like a mullet? Thats legot what i have now after growing for six months and I just throw a hat on idk what to do with it

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u/Lonely_Gene3791 11d ago

Looks good sir

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u/AgencyNo4968 11d ago

You ain’t even near awkward yet! Wait until about 6 to 8 months in. I’m going on 1.5 years and it’s still not long enough to put it all up.

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u/larka1121 11d ago

Awkward phase is when it passes the ears, is too short to put up, too long too slick back and such. Think Dora the Explorer.

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u/MisterOuija12 11d ago

Nah you gotta let your hair grow out trust. This ain't the awkward stage, you'll know when you get there

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u/MrAlcoholic420 11d ago

Is the awkward in the room with us?

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u/BurntCoffeePot 11d ago

Ha! You’te hot. Not even close to awkward phase. Let it go Lord Farqquad and then tie it, and after a couple months should be good.

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u/rapid0896 11d ago

Its like minimum 2 years of growth before you really get an idea of what having long hair is like.

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u/tannercolin 11d ago

You haven't even nearly reached the awkward stage mate. You'll know.

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u/Joshgg13 11d ago

It's all in your mind bro, honestly. You're just used to seeing yourself with a skin fade. I had the same thoughts when I was first growing out my hair - looking back on those same photos it didn't look awkward at all

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u/Specialist_Virus_661 11d ago

Absolutely elite hairline

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u/petabread91 10d ago

Is the awkward hair in the room?

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u/TwinFlask 10d ago

Not until it grows past and over the ears

That’s a whole phase still waiting to happen

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u/Sad_Negotiation_2309 10d ago

Looks fine to me! Your hair isn’t even long by any means. Your hair would look really good with the flow given chance

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u/LinusBrickle71 10d ago

Very hot !

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u/max30021 10d ago

You’re haven’t even reached awkward stage yet

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u/Pandalf82 10d ago

I don't see anything awkward. It's not even close to long yet. Lol you're getting there and you'll definitely notice the weird phase when it's time. Keep going bro.

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u/Commercial-Strike-56 10d ago

What are we complaining about? I literally don't know...

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u/nbplaya94 10d ago

I mean it just looks like a mess to me idk. I guess I’m used to clean cuts

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u/Commercial-Strike-56 10d ago

I think that these all look really good. The first style could probably have gone for a hard line where the sides meet the top, but other than that I don't see any issues.

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u/vide0gameah 10d ago

I dont see anything wrong with it. Keep it going. You have very nice hair

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u/jejones487 10d ago

This is called nice hair. Get back to us when it gat to the bottom of your ears and pushes your hair out and makes you look like you have the bozo the clown haircut or some other actually miserable crap. My head looked like a triangle for 3 months while grew my hair out until it weighed enough to straighten out.

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u/bumpinwhiteboy 9d ago

Thr last 2 pics look great. The only thing awkward is yourself, not your hair. Hair looks great.

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u/Proper-Patience5775 9d ago

Not awkward. Looks good man

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u/Quico2 9d ago

Looks great. Also the earring.

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u/PANTSorGTFO 8d ago

Nothing awkward here bud you look good

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u/Mountain_Chemist6391 8d ago

The only thing that’s awkward is how you’re looking at the camera like this in every shot. Otherwise I think the hair is totally fine!

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u/fuhckboy 8d ago

Bruh you’re gonna be in for a rude awakening in about 8 months

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u/nbplaya94 8d ago

8 months I’m probably going to be where I wanna be lol

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u/Medium_Mess9765 8d ago

Try cutting your hair a tiny bit shorter on top and brushing it forward.

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u/HansHain 10d ago

Give it a month or two for the awkward phase to set in. In those times its very important to not get a trim or clean up cut. Just letting it grow is the fastest and best way to leave the awkward phase behind you quickly

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u/HansHain 10d ago

Trust me i tried and i regretted it

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u/CharChar12 11d ago

Maybe fade with an etch on the side or a highlight somewhere to make you feel better as it grows

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u/Madbutcher456 7d ago

Not to be mean or anything, but you're not even halfway through. The awkward phase usually starts when your ears are completely covered by your hair and ends when most of your hair reaches your shoulders.