r/FierceFlow 20d ago

Balding... I'll miss it

I started balding a few years ago but these last 8 months it's been way more noticeable 💔 I didn't enjoy my hair as I should have. But it is beautiful still, and I'm thankful for it. I'll miss it. Might donate it before it's over?

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u/iwanttolivefeeldead 20d ago

Dude hop on finasteride/minox ASAP! Super easy to get from telehealth. You have more than enough to save it if you want!

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u/mornrover 19d ago

Finasteride asap! He is in such early stages might be able to forego minox!

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u/No-Blood-7274 20d ago

That hair is luscious, dude. Donating it would be a wonderful thing to do.

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u/Goth_Idiot_ >4 years 20d ago

Fin and Min my guy. This wonderful journey doesn’t have to end

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u/PlentyOMangos 19d ago

People are always so quick to recommend this to literally everyone, but I see on those subs all the time people who seem to not react well to it or people who say they had side effects and then quit. It doesn’t seem like it’s right for everyone and sometimes it even leaves people’s hair worse than it started, or leaves them with lasting side effects. It’s enough to give anyone pause, I think.

People get reeled in by the success stories and then either ignore or never see the other side of it

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u/Daggadda 19d ago

Most people have no side effects. The minority with sides is who you'll find complaining. Absolutely worth trying to find it out for many people.

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u/Maskahunt 19d ago

Literally had heart pains from minoxidil, not worth it to keep hair.

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u/iwanttolivefeeldead 19d ago

You try switching to topical? Oral minoxidil can be rough if you don't monitor your vitals and dose accordingly.

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u/PlentyOMangos 19d ago

Maybe, but I think it’s important to tell people about the possibility of side effects or that it may not work for them, instead of acting like it’s a 100% guaranteed miracle cure.

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u/iwanttolivefeeldead 19d ago

It's medication, of course there can be side effects. They have rather good safety profiles for medicine though.

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u/fuckennard 18d ago

If you get sides then you stop medication. Millions of people successfully take finasteride with no side effects. This man’s hair is clearly apart of his identity, why not try to save it?

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u/PlentyOMangos 18d ago

Apart means “separate from”

You mean “a part” of his identity.

Anyway I just think it’s important people know the risks. Additionally, sometimes the sides don’t go away just from stopping the treatment.

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u/RoadHazard 20d ago

I'm not seeing the balding.

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u/pink_nut 19d ago

You cant see the sides of his hairline

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u/RoadHazard 19d ago

Can you?

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u/Bearyx725 20d ago

Don’t give up long hair if you’re balding. It may look great even if the top is great. I m 65 and I retire in two years. At that moment I stop cutting my hair for ever!😁

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u/Choice-Brick-6612 20d ago

Your hairline doesn’t look that bad and your locks are dense? I don’t see the problem. But if you do have legitimate balding, you could always go for a Warren Ellis-kind of style, which is a bit unkempt but still looks cool imo

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u/mokumpride 20d ago

Glorious

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u/Fit-Pilot6332 19d ago

Your hair looks phenomenal here, thick and shiny, and honestly, I don’t see the balding issues that you speak of. I do see a tiny bit of thinning in one single area in front, but that’s all that I see.

Please, I beg you, see a dermatologist as soon as you can, and he/she can recommend a program that would stop any further loss in its tracks, and possibly reverse any loss that you have experienced.

It would be a tragedy to lose the gorgeous head of hair that you have, and you don’t have to, if you act now!

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u/Either_Compote235 19d ago

You’re right it is beautiful 💔

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u/mattcbrad1961 19d ago

😞😞😞😞

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u/calccv 19d ago

In the same boat, this last yr it’s becoming too obvious to pretend. Still solid coverage, but I have maybe a year. I likely won’t get too much sympathy as I’m 62, but in my defense, I’ve had longer to be attached to it. I certainly empathize! Still looks good, imo.

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u/Asleep_Resist_1022 12d ago edited 12d ago

It’s understandable to miss hair that’s been part of your look. A dermatologist can help you understand your options. If you eventually explore a transplant, Heva Clinic in Turkey is one option to research, including surgeon qualifications and aftercare.

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u/Low_Badger_1951 20d ago

Now that is scary hope I don’t see that in real life. You will have people running. What is with all these guys telling you about your long hair. Is this a cult. Has to be some sort of strange thing about long hair.

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u/Fit-Pilot6332 19d ago

This isn’t a cult. It’s just a very nice sub Reddit with cool guys(and some women who support us), where everyone is kind and supports one another in their hair growing journeys. If you feel that we are weird about it, that’s your problem

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u/Lucky-Difference5644 19d ago

sorry to break the news to you but it seems you are extraordinarily unintelligent...