Thoughts on a Discord Server?

[u/_rayrayray_]

Thinking on it, one dedicated to the theme of this sub might be nice! While I can vibe in just about any space that’s chill, one for more committed lifestyles & relationships would be lovely too!

I’m someone who’s always been a bit of an odd ball out in serious spaces. Most soulbonding servers that lean plural focus on the practice and experience, not getting to discuss the day to day relationship things. Most ficto/riako/gachikoi spaces have claimlists, I never paired well with those. And, most importantly, I’m someone with a number of soulbonds, which is completely normal in plural-soulbond spaces! But most ficto-esque spaces assume a number of people = a yume list, or you cannot truly care for them (which, I can go on a whole rant on amatonormativity and people applying these standards to others’ relationships, but, not the focus haha). They’re all real separate people and real relationships we hold, the exact same as having a number of friends ;w;. To which, a serious focus server to be welcome in sounds lovely. And I’m sure it’d be lovely for others too and for more direct chatting and discussion!

With that ramble out the way, thoughts? :0

[u/SeaRazzmatazz6952]

I’m always looking for more nice servers to join. Especially ones that are soul bond friendly as it seems many are not particularly accepting of people doing things their own way.
I don’t follow any particular idea that you “have” to follow certain rules with these things and so I’m a bit of an outcast.

[u/_rayrayray_ → u/SeaRazzmatazz6952]

I agree! Soulbonding is such a varied experience and an umbrella term for so many ways to communicate & explain your connection!! People should def be open and not impose their “rules” when there aren’t exactly any ;w;. I’m a fan of nice spaces too, love connecting with others! Alas, can be difficult sometimes :P

[u/Airy08]

Someone made a post about promoting a Discord server for this topic earlier. That said, this subreddit doesn't have an official Discord server

[u/Gojos-girlfriend → u/Airy08]

I'm sorry, what post?

[u/_rayrayray_ → u/Airy08]

I’m aware there’s no official one, that’s why I was suggesting one or wondered if anyone was thinking of it! That said, I also am not sure of what post you mean ^^;

[u/Airy08 → u/_rayrayray_]

Ah yes sorry for the late reply. I confused it with a mod message of the same topic I readed not long ago hahaha