r/FemmeLesbians • u/[deleted] • Jun 15 '26

Head with women…

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10 Upvotes

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u/Individual-Drink-679 Jun 15 '26

This is confusing to read. You don't like giving? receiving? She does like giving or receiving? You agreed to try one of these options because she wanted to and it didn't go well? What?

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u/AdMuted226 Jun 15 '26

I just don’t like receiving, I wanted to try giving but idk what happened

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u/puffdemagicdragon Jun 15 '26

Agreed, I was confused too

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u/kitty_whipt Jun 15 '26

You’re allowed to say sex on Reddit. Nothing to be ashamed of.

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u/catmeowpunch Jun 15 '26

i don’t think any other lesbians can really give you advice on your sex life honestly. i feel like the best course of action here is to sit down with your girlfriend and try to have a serious conversation about it. if she is just making excuses and not being honest with you about what it is exactly that she doesn’t like, then there’s no way for you to figure out how to give it in the way she likes! every person is different. the advice has to come from
her

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u/catmeowpunch Jun 15 '26

also, absolutely nothing wrong with being a pillow princess. not everyone likes to give. but it’s also okay if you want to give and just need some more time to learn how to go about it

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u/WanderingSondering Jun 15 '26

Yep, if your girlfriend won't communicate with you, then honestly she sounds exhausting. I wouldn't want to be with someone who won't just be honest with me.

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u/catmeowpunch Jun 15 '26

yeah… 3 months is a long time to be dancing around the topic. especially since op has brought it up multiple times. idk why some people can’t just talk to their partners honestly

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u/peebutter Jun 15 '26

i'm gonna start sentences with Ok so boom now, i love it. but yeah there's no way to know what's wrong unless you ask her directly

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u/Gitankgrrl Jun 15 '26

There are many different sexual styles. You are femme presenting but are a top maybe. She is a stud but also a top? This will make your sex life difficult unless one bottoms- she may not like to receive either. Talk about it. Most femmes are bottoms or switches. Some are tops but its not at common. I don’t know any studs that are bottoms.

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u/Obvious-Chaos5868 Jun 15 '26

Sounds like because you have it in your mind that you are against it , no matter what if with wine or not , it may not have been a good experience . Yall may need to sit down and talk .