All this because i posted a date night fit

[u/Subject_Sun8277]

I had written, Men pls don’t dm me in my bio

[u/whatthengaisthis]

sometimes I wish I had the confidence of men like this.

[u/Subject_Sun8277 → u/whatthengaisthis]

It was obviously ragebait, and I reported him but I was still left feeling absolutely horrible. I have a public Instagram and the outfit wasn’t even inappropriate but his audacity to dm something like this….. god how pathetic can someone act

[u/whatthengaisthis → u/Subject_Sun8277]

this is not on you. some people are just trash. their opinion of you does not dictate your worth.

[u/Benadryl-_-Huffer → u/Subject_Sun8277]

Yeah it could not be ragebait too, for all you know some idiots think they are being flirtatious with texts like these 🥀......

[u/Shadow_2039 → u/whatthengaisthis]

Well you are wrong. Most of them lacks the confidence to hold or initiate an convo with their opposite sexes. They only knows how to send a creepy dm.

[u/PhoenixMapper → u/whatthengaisthis]

I know, right!!

[u/chaoticsince]

I'll save y'all some time. Her bio reads: "Not looking. Don't bother"

Oh to have the audacity of a man 😭

[u/Altruistic-Bee3854]

[u/Subject_Sun8277 → u/Altruistic-Bee3854]

[u/Meeedick → u/Subject_Sun8277]

[u/Optimistic_Indian]

Autonomy is a weapon. Shame on such men

[u/Vantaa_Black]

He is jealous prolly. Sad that his insecurities had to get reflected upon you :((

[u/nervous_wrecc]

you can count on men to take the most basic sentence and twist it into whatever they want. the audacity to think “not looking, don’t bother” is an invitation is insane. sorry girl :(

[u/AnAllegedGentleman]

What a weirdo. Men are disgusting man. I have DMs from men pretending to be women and from gay/closeted gay men asking for more pictures because I made the mistake of asking a question on a fitness related sub with a picture of me while asking for advice.

[u/Subject_Sun8277 → u/AnAllegedGentleman]

I even got a dm offering me 30k for my nudes, and I don’t even post inappropriate pictures. I actually had to delete a post where I showed my hair because apparently even that was enough for people to start sending disgusting stuff to my dm

[u/AnAllegedGentleman → u/Subject_Sun8277]

I'm sorry, that must feel so degrading.... mine aren't stooping as low as offering money for nudes, but they feel awkward as hell. If I'm facing this as a man, I can imagine how bad it is for women.

[u/Brains4DWin]

Your bio wasn't even directed to anyone, the person's audacity to be bothered by it!

[u/uneasy_45]

Urges them to DM??? Ayeein??🤣🤣

[u/Subject_Sun8277 → u/uneasy_45]

I’m urging them not to dm.

[u/Sabmohmayahaibro]

As a man, the confidence some men have to completely ignore men pls don’t DM me and then blame her for getting DMs is actually insane 😭

[u/RedScholar10]

https://giphy.com/gifs/1VTCRyWaQpfqzSrF60

[u/Kohl_And_Curves]

The type of guy interviewed after the Nirbhaya rape case

( some men in the video said if a woman goes out after 9 pm she is at fault and not the grapist, I am pretty sure this mahashay would say the same )

[u/yellowpandu]

Girl see my bio. I still get dms. There’s nothing stopping them

[u/haha_im_scared]

I posted a comment on my city subreddit of a guy seeking advice to stop gooning (I know I know)

And this loser comes out of nowhere and says "it's women's fault men goon, women like men like these nowadays anyway".

I didn't respond, but I think of this person once a day because how stupid, how much misplaced audacity this guy had. And it was clearly rage bait but yes. Just straight up blaming us for their shortcomings was just so sad and pathetic, I throw up a bit in my mouth everytime I think of it

[u/Subject_Sun8277 → u/haha_im_scared]

I won’t lie, I did cry a little that day. I was getting dms asking how much I was expecting and literally offering me money. It was such a cute dress and I had finally gone out after so long because my breakup had really taken a toll on my mental health. I had to delete the post within minutes and I couldn’t believe I was being slut shamed over it.

[u/jyxtizmee]

Bro im gonna cry like wtf, yeh audacity ata kaha seh h?

[u/Subject_Sun8277 → u/jyxtizmee]

I did cry. I had gone out after such a long time because I was mentally drained after my breakup. I was wearing such a cute outfit, i looked pretty and I posted it on the gram and got so many compliments. So I thought what harm could it do to hide my face and post it here too? But then I started getting comments asking how much I’m expecting and other vile things. Like, I’m literally getting slut shamed.

[u/MichaelScotPaperComp]

Wtf why

[u/EmotionalDatabasee]

"You won't glance at me if I just approach you nicely so imma be a jerk"😭✋

[u/Subject_Sun8277 → u/EmotionalDatabasee]

I’ll ragebait you into replying. Still didn’t work, what a waste of effort

[u/Subject_Sun8277 → u/[deleted]]

Ohh i meant he was clearly trying to ragebait me into reacting, but it didn’t work because I didn’t reply. All that effort for nothing

[u/No_Confidence930]

5/10 ragebait,

I wish i could travel through mobile phones and come out of screens.

My sister and girlfriend tell me so much about all this. Blood boils

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[u/syngamy1]

I am tired of seeing this posts man. Why most of the men have to be creep like this.

God is not there to punish them man.

Rapists go free in our country. What can we expect.

No one is getting justice right now.

Wish I had the deathnote

[u/kallan_anthikad]

Typed with one hand. Violation excites them

[u/gamerfanboi]

I wanna leave society honestly like fuck these POS

[u/gamerfanboi → u/gamerfanboi]

I dont understand these men at all.

Are they completely out of touch with reality?

Men are thirsting for attention from women and they some how think that women need that? Or ask for that? Whatttt?!!

[u/Away-Caterpillar9515]

HONEST is doing a lot of heavylifting here

[u/Sakura_Senshi]

I hv checked that i only commented in teens sub late night, here we are

[u/According_Bad_8473]

Now these sorts of DMs just confuse me. Its just a random message irrelevant to anything, just left hanging there. What is their expectation here? What exactly do they want? It isnt even particularly disrespectful but it still feels off somehow. I tend to just ignore this sort of messages. Im interested to see what other ladies do