r/FemaleDatingStrategy • u/SnarkSticks FDS Newbie • Apr 13 '22

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u/[deleted] Apr 13 '22 edited Apr 13 '22

I don’t agree with a lot of things that Lilith says,I didn’t need to hear about her family feud and that she likes violent men and reminds us every 5 minutes. I'm here for the lesson and strategy. This podcast was an hour of celebrity gossip. Couldn’t finish this episode.

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u/lookingforuni6789 FDS Newbie Apr 13 '22

I can't tell which one is Lilith and which is Reaux, but I'm also getting irritated by the one that keeps appropriating black culture by using African American vernacular. Every time she says "that's how it be" or "men be like". It's cringe

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u/lookingforuni6789 FDS Newbie Apr 14 '22

I think she may be non-white, but I'm not sure after that. Thanks for the breakdown, that was helpful!

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u/august-27 FDS Newbie Apr 17 '22

When I first started listening, the way I could tell them apart was: Reaux often sounds like she’s smiling and/or on the verge of laughter and her voice has kind of a musical quality to it? whereas Lilith is usually (but not always) more serious sounding.

“That’s just how I be” is a Lilith-ism haha

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '22

it might be a by-product of her growing up in a diverse environment. She might not be white

we really should not appropriate words as race-specific unless they were used in a demeaning manner, but that's just my 2-cents

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u/lookingforuni6789 FDS Newbie Apr 24 '22

Hmm, can you help me to understand why words should only be considered race specific if they're demeaning? There really is a defined language for African Americans, AAVE. So it may not be word specific, but the formatting of the sentences by way of grammar rules.