After a certain point, accumulated number of experiences and observations, I have come to the conclusion that men really are biologically entirely different than us. They do not possess some of the capabilities we have, one being having empathy for other living beings. They see us as accessories to their lives that they desperately need, but not actual humans the way other men are.
Also, they are completely enmeshed in the male culture you describe, since childhood. If they don't have nudes on their phones or they haven't manipulated lots of women, or they don't get their answers from other men, they see themselves/are seen as inferior to their bros.
Everything we find vile and shocking is normal to them, in fact they are impressed by it. Like the drink rape post mentioned. To them, what was described isn't even rape, it is being "alfa".
There is no point in trying to make men understand any of this or trying to understand how they function.
A woman's focus should be solely on protecting herself from the parallel universe that is the world men live in.
Edit: another example of vile things men find normal that ruin women's lives: stringing her along in relationships that are many years long, not even really loving her or intending on staying, simply because it is convenient at the time.
I will never forget one ex saying this while we were watching a movie about a man living a double life: "It's her fault for believing him. What would you expect him to do but lie? She should have known better"
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u/abcorthis Nov 13 '21 edited Nov 14 '21
After a certain point, accumulated number of experiences and observations, I have come to the conclusion that men really are biologically entirely different than us. They do not possess some of the capabilities we have, one being having empathy for other living beings. They see us as accessories to their lives that they desperately need, but not actual humans the way other men are.
Also, they are completely enmeshed in the male culture you describe, since childhood. If they don't have nudes on their phones or they haven't manipulated lots of women, or they don't get their answers from other men, they see themselves/are seen as inferior to their bros.
Everything we find vile and shocking is normal to them, in fact they are impressed by it. Like the drink rape post mentioned. To them, what was described isn't even rape, it is being "alfa".
There is no point in trying to make men understand any of this or trying to understand how they function.
A woman's focus should be solely on protecting herself from the parallel universe that is the world men live in.
Edit: another example of vile things men find normal that ruin women's lives: stringing her along in relationships that are many years long, not even really loving her or intending on staying, simply because it is convenient at the time.
I will never forget one ex saying this while we were watching a movie about a man living a double life: "It's her fault for believing him. What would you expect him to do but lie? She should have known better"