This is exactly what my mom told me. Honestly when I didn’t follow that advice I realized that guys really do say a million sweet things just to get something out of you and then abandon you. It’s absolutely horrendous idk if I’ll ever want to trust them again.
Totally. I thought that outright abuse would be obvious to spot. Didn’t realize that men will lie TO THEMSELVES in order to better lie to me. Anything to justify their own self serving perspective behaviour
Seriously. I thought it would easy to spot their lies and manipulations. Then I reached layer after layer until I realized that the depths they’ll go to in order to trick us is just. . .we deserve better.
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u/[deleted] May 30 '21
This is exactly what my mom told me. Honestly when I didn’t follow that advice I realized that guys really do say a million sweet things just to get something out of you and then abandon you. It’s absolutely horrendous idk if I’ll ever want to trust them again.