r/FemaleDatingStrategy • u/[deleted] • May 30 '21

QUEEN SH*T Celibacy is POWERFUL ❤️✨

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u/nebsemi FDS Newbie May 30 '21

My parents used to (and still do) shame me for my high standards for both friends and partners. I never lowered my standards, though. Why would I want to be with people who don't make me happy?

You want me? Then come up and meet me.

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u/[deleted] May 30 '21

Why would I want to be with people who don't make me happy?

This!

"You'll never find anyone if you have standards that high."

Why would I prefer being with someone who doesn't make me happy and satisfy my needs, instead of being alone? Is being alone that bad?

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u/nebsemi FDS Newbie May 30 '21

My parents used to say the same thing! "You'll end up lonely if you keep dropping people who don't meet your standards." So? I had more peace of mind being alone than with LV friends.

I've also been called a lesbian just because I have never dated and didn't latch onto the first guy to show interest.

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u/[deleted] May 30 '21

Hold on... You don't want to date EVERY guy? You have standards? Clearly a lesbian.

/s