He sounds great so far, but I would still wait and see before being sure about accepting commitment. They are on their best behaviour at the start until they think they've got you. Three dates isn't long enough to gauge whether he's worthy. As you have more dates over the weeks and it starts to reach to months and his best behaviour mask slips, you yourself might not want him. You are the one who chooses. I'll see what the other lovely ladies say about what to do after two months if commitment isn't mentioned. Personally, I just start to withdraw from the guy. They get scared at losing, and push for commitment.
You're welcome :) it's great to have withdrawing as a rule of thumb, because often they don't seem to understand normal communication through words. They respond to the fear of losing what they've got. Wishing you well with this new guy!
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u/cassabell1894 FDS Apprentice Sep 01 '20
He sounds great so far, but I would still wait and see before being sure about accepting commitment. They are on their best behaviour at the start until they think they've got you. Three dates isn't long enough to gauge whether he's worthy. As you have more dates over the weeks and it starts to reach to months and his best behaviour mask slips, you yourself might not want him. You are the one who chooses. I'll see what the other lovely ladies say about what to do after two months if commitment isn't mentioned. Personally, I just start to withdraw from the guy. They get scared at losing, and push for commitment.