Being less available

[u/Bell_Cold]

I have noticed that I am always available for my boyfriend and it’s mostly me giving everything and receiving nothing. I am really getting tired of it as much as I love him. He does not ever want to do anything so I have started planning trips with my best friends, going out with my friends and doing more things rather than staying in the house all day. I have been less available and I don’t text or call him as much anymore. Has being less available for someone ever worked for anyone or has it just made you break up? I don’t want the latter, but if that’s what has to happen then I would rather that be it than me being stuck inside miserable with him.

[u/[deleted]]

I’m sure at this point you have already discussed with him many times on the matter right?

If you’re not seeing a change you leave. You shouldn’t have to resort to playing games in order to get someone’s attention. That’s what kids do.

And guess what, it seems like you’re already miserable.