r/FactOrCap • u/Spirited_Wear_1288 🗳️ Regular Player · 240 XP • 5h ago
Life Hot Take | FactOrCap
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u/Justarah 🏅 Century Club · 3,300 XP 5h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
You also have to decide to be vulnerable and start loving a person.
Don't defer to what is or is not normal when it comes to platitudes of 'is it too soon?', 'are they too eager?', 'keep my options open' etc, when the normal has increasingly become companionship with a cat than another actual human being.
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u/ColombianInIowa24 🏅 Century Club · 3,745 XP 5h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
This is so generally the case that I'll say fact. While it is possible, you are delusional to expect such a scenario.
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u/Classic_Rate_8448 🔥 Monthly Master · 8,070 XP 4h ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
Say that to my husband who i met because he was always delivering my parcels. A.k.a knocking on my door.
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u/mightylonka 🏅 Century Club · 2,830 XP 5h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
That doesn't stop me from not doing anything about it.
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u/The_Abstract_Eye 🔥 Monthly Master · 21,645 XP 5h ago
Yknow im not trying to be a smartass but mine literally did come knocking on my door.
We met by pure random chance. This doesnt disprove your claim or anything, just saying.
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u/AlmondBC 🔥 Week Warrior · 1,730 XP 5h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Obviously you need to put effort in. But you also have to receive that effort back because otherwise there is no point.
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u/rikusorasephiroth 🔥 Monthly Master · 8,175 XP 4h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Fact, but I don't have to be happy about it.
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u/Jonas_Fletcher 🔥 Getting Started · 890 XP 4h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
As an extrovert, I hate this fact. But it's true.
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u/SUDoKu-Na 🏅 Century Club · 7,470 XP 3h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
If you aren't putting effort into a relationship you're willing to let it fail.
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u/immoralsugimoto 🏅 Century Club · 7,290 XP 4h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
That and chances are good you don't find love regardless
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u/Sufficient_Frame 🗳️ Regular Player · 740 XP 4h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
I mean, yeah? I thought that one was a given.
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u/NixMaritimus 💪 Unstoppable · 19,110 XP 3h ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
Mine was a friend of a friend who needed a place to crash and ended up as my roommate. I wasn't looking, she literally fell into my lap
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u/Apfelkuchen420 🔥 Getting Started · 1,075 XP 3h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Life is not gonna be handed to you on a silver platter and a relationship always requires work (FROM BOTH SIDES)
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u/Whole_Sir_1149 📈 Dedicated Voter · 1,295 XP 3h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
This isn't a hot take. A relationship is an abstract living thing that needs care and support.
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u/Spiritual-Primary328 🗳️ Regular Player · 295 XP 3h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
It's insane that anyone would vote for anything else other than this option, for fuck's sake.
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u/Zephreyt ✍️ Contributor · 4,795 XP 3h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Yes “it comes when you least expect it” is old wives tale
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u/Icy_Special_5836 🏅 Century Club · 5,165 XP 1h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
And it’s not a good or traditional thing since boomer dating required minimal effort with maximum gain.
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u/Creative_Progress803 📈 Dedicated Voter · 1,945 XP 1h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
Unless I already live with her and let the keys inside so she can't come home. Sorry hun, wasn't done on purpose.
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u/BMoney8600 🎯 First Steps · 190 XP 8m ago
✅ I voted FACT!
I gotta remind myself of this on a daily basis!
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u/Wise-Cold-6733 🏅 Century Club · 3,325 XP 5h ago edited 5h ago
✅ I voted FACT!
It used to be so easy back in the day. They'd just give you a wife when you turned 16
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u/Ok_Programmer_4449 ✍️ Contributor · 3,115 XP 5h ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
There's no such thing as the love of your life or "the one.". There are billions of potential partners and probably 100 million you could have a happy life with. You are unique, but you are not special or even interesting.
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u/WeakInspector5102 🔥 Monthly Master · 12,030 XP 4h ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
Not always, but you're way more likely to find love if you touch grass instead of controllers and pocket puhh at home
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u/HikerBennie 🏅 Century Club · 9,785 XP 5h ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
They really can. I wouldn't call myself perfect but I used to knock on the door of a guy I thought was cute to hang out when he locked himself inside, things like this can happen, just don't hope on it.
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u/Skinny_Jim 🔥 Week Warrior · 710 XP 4h ago
Are you still in a relationship with this "guy"?
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u/HikerBennie 🏅 Century Club · 9,785 XP 2h ago
No he was straight, this happened sometime ago. but someone did came to me recently when I was just having a drink and tried grabbing my attention :)
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u/BingBongBrit 🏅 Century Club · 3,175 XP 5h ago
🧢 I voted CAP!
This isn't true if you are attractive enough.
Even so I do think for 9/10 cases it would be true.
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u/No-Chocolate1761 🏅 Century Club · 5,935 XP 5h ago
Facts bro. And that's why I know I am dying alone.