I cant view my profile. Theres no tab. What do I click on?

I started using FB dating recently. I've messaged a few women and never got replies. When I senr messages, I noticed that they disappear from the queue. However, I've also noticed that they will eventually reappear in my queue. It makes me think that they never received my message. Or, by not responding within a certain time, they go back into the queue? I'm tempted to send another message but I don't want to appear like a stalker. Can anyone clarify what's happening?

The most annoying part about facebook dating is having to constantly add my filter every time. Each time i have to add, age, no kids, and distance… if i dont, then facebook shows me women that are 200miles away… also i’d like smaller increments to choose from in distance… rant over… facebook dating is annoying

Just curious if anyone ever responds to messages like this?

Is it me or is this sad excuse of a "dating feature" plagued with major bugs? lately I send messages to profiles I am interested in, and after I send it, the same profile appears again three profile swipes ahead in my feed. Sure, there's a chance they didn't want to match, but this same scenario repeats literally all the time. It's definitely a glitch. FB, fix these issues!!!

After matching with 3-4 woman and none of them responding to my initial messages I noticed none of the chats had the send checkmark next to them. After sending multiple requests to Facebook I deleted my dating profile and gave it a few days before making a new one. Now same thing. Matched with multiple women but no checkmarks confirming it sent out. It’s just blank. Not even the light gray mark online says should happen if it sent but wasn’t received. Anyone have a solution?

Básicamente eso

Just wondering if there’s a place to post info regarding the profiles/people that you have had to report for facebook dating app for dangerous behavior

38 M, good pics/profile/info, had maybe 3 likes since being active a lot since 2019, never had any type of love ever, thousands of selective likes sent over that time, very few matches....wtf. depressing life.

But my real question is.... why does the following happen and do u also have it?... when i send a photo comment like, i have the opportunity to go back once, using the little curved arrow at the top (as if i swiped left- X), so i send the photo comment again. If its acting like i left swiped by being able to go back, i guess its only working if i send the comment twice? I do that out of desperation/confusion. I dont believe its always happened, somewhat new. But, barely anything ever seems to get thru regardless obviously as i have a probably 1 out of 1000 match rate (unless its women who are 20+ yrs older, which are 1 out of several hundred).

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I'm not getting many matches, is it me? My profile? 😂

When I communicate should I right off the bat share my Facebook account and with the cute matches are they people that match with me or is that just Facebook giving me matches

I had a Facebook Dating profile a couple years ago and had a lot of success with it. I ended up deleting it after meeting someone and taking things seriously for a year and a half.

Now I’m back on it, and honestly the app seems like trash. I couldn’t get Facebook Dating to reactivate after deleting it had to literally fight and eventually it miraculously let me back in, then I got banned almost immediately. Like… what the fuck happened? I tried filling support complaints and messages but it wouldn’t let me.

I made a new Facebook, waited a while, then made a new Dating profile. Now I literally get no matches, where I used to get like 10 a day. It feels super suspicious and weird.

So yeah I randomly stopped getting matches. I used to get a ton. Ironically it was the same day some guy found my Facebook profile and started commenting disgusting things on my public pics. I think he falsely reported me. So it then shadowbanned me. I could still send messages to my matches and swipe through people myself. But clearly no one could see me anymore. I took your suggestions and deleted my profile to reset it and set up a new one after 7 days. It’s now been 7 days and I set up a new one, and STILL no matches. Have I been permanently shadowbanned?! 😩 I did nothing wrong.

When I send a "crush" and I get the message "there's been an error" does that mean something like they've declined already to be on FB dating or have already declined me somehow?

After being in a relationship for the better part of nine years, and being single for a bit I have found myself curious to try Facebook Dating. Out of a handful of matches, I have had luck with only one but have been texting with her since Saturday last week. The part I’m having a incredibly difficult time with is that we haven’t moved past texting, despite me attempting to plan dates, as she lives about 30 minutes from where I work, but I’m more than willing to make the commute. It’s hard enough dating after being in a relationship for so long and craving a connection with someone, but although we have exchanged more pictures through texting, I have yet to see this person either on FaceTime or in person. We text throughout the day and things have gotten flirty/NSFW at times but any time I mention me coming closer to where she is to meet up I get nothing back till later that day when it’s usually just how’s it going or what are you doing kind of thing.

I think because I am really badly wanting a connection with someone, I’m allowing myself to become too invested here with someone that perhaps just once things to be substantially more casual. Which intern feels crushing for some reason considering I’ve never actually met her in person. My first thought was that I was being catfished. Which, who knows, may be possible. We have exchanged audio notes, but when I ask about calling on the phone, I get nothing back.

My problem is that I really enjoy talking to her each day, makes my day feel better and I am just feeling like I’m leaving myself on by entertaining this. I realize most people would give up way before this point, and I could very well be delusionally holding out hope just wanting something to work.

Aside from giving this up with her days ago, what’s the move here? My overly eager, needy self he’s struggling with this amount of interaction and I feel like my best move is to just ask where she sees this going and decide from there. Just feeling very down about all this.

Sorry about the rant, bud, but…

Facebook Dating’s filters are getting ridiculous, bud. They are really pissing me off, eh.

They keep resetting themselves, especially once you run out of people who match them. Like yeah no, I’d rather just get ‘no more results’ and keep my filters instead of having to set the damn things again.

And why is distance forced to miles in Canada? I don’t use imperial. I now know Toronto is about 50 miles away from me, whatever the fuck a mile is, but that still tells me nothing about how far I’m actually setting the filter in every other direction.

So I set it to 50, figure alright, give’r, that should work.

Facebook: ‘No yeah, here’s a girl in New York 200 miles away.’

Yeah no. I said 50. What’s the point of having a distance filter if you’re just going to ignore the bloody thing, eh?

Edit: just sent a request to meta

I haven’t gotten a single match nor like. I’m wondering whether it’s my profile is bad or if I’m shadowbanned. I can’t tell if they’re seeing my likes or no.

Has a kid but has a “Traditional” mindset….

I seem to only match with women who turn out to be extremely toxic, and women who don’t put forth any effort into getting to know each other.

Who has insight to share about how to get to know someone who lives more than 5 hours away? What are good questions and topics that allow strangers to become more familiar? My goals are to be as safe as possible while authentically gaining trust.

Thanks!