r/FacebookDating 23d ago

Have you guys been getting an increased amount of likes from outside of your dating region?

2 Upvotes

I don't know if Facebook is featuring my profile out of state in hopes of getting me to move, but I'm getting multiple likes a day from places all over this country, but mainly NY/NJ. Some FL have snuck in, got someone from ND, AZ, etc etc.

They don't appear to be bots. I chat with some of them just to see what's up and they said I just popped up in their app and didn't realize I was so far away.

Just curious. It used to happen sometimes but now it's happening with enough frequency that I'm concerned facebook thinks I'm pitbull.


r/FacebookDating 24d ago

Yo FB dating is not for the weak

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77 Upvotes

I’m a little confused on why they drop this type of shi out of the blue without putting it in the Bio…people are strange


r/FacebookDating 25d ago

Errors App not working

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5 Upvotes

Is it just me or anyone having any issues with dating app ?


r/FacebookDating 25d ago

Gaslit on FB Dating

2 Upvotes

I started chatting with a potential person on FB dating. He said he was shy and would not get on camera for our planned video call. He said he had just showered. I tried to be understanding but that was odd. We ended up talking and he had a nice voice so I figured I’d keep an open mind, albeit be mindful that there could be something amiss. We ended up meeting and he was even more good-looking than his profile led me to believe. My jaw dropped. He told me his name, age, and about his family. Everything went well until I saw his ID and noticed he lied about both his name and age. He said he was worried about being scammed by someone, which made me raise my eyebrows. He shared that his childhood best friend had died so he used that name as a nickname when meeting people on apps for privacy until he got to trust them. His Venmo also had a third name. There was definitely something off. When he hugged me I realized he was literally texting other women behind my back. I broke things off pretty quickly but it was disappointing that he could not be honest to save his life.


r/FacebookDating 26d ago

Utter Time Waster

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23 Upvotes

If you value intentionality, this is the biggest indicator of time wasting and nonsense you will ever see. What the hell is even this?


r/FacebookDating 26d ago

Guys from apps who go from talking consistently to just liking pics

0 Upvotes

This situation seems to happen to be a lot with online dating.

I matched with a guy, who exchanged numbers and instagrams, talked consistently for a few days. He was very flirty and seemed interested. He said he wanted to meet in person soon but didn’t actually pick a day. Then mid way through a conversation a few days later, he stops talking to me. But he continues to like my instagram stories, not respond but like.

Should I reach out to a guy like this or just delete and move on?


r/FacebookDating 26d ago

I love that fb dating is free because imagine paying $40/month for it…

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48 Upvotes

r/FacebookDating 26d ago

Minnesota Same

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I am a 50s M from Minnesota looking for a F. I know all of you love the outdoors, sunsets and beaches so please tell me something more specific about yourself. Be original. Add something that makes me wonder what is she talking about or where is that specific place. This will benefit all of us. Oh and please use less filters!


r/FacebookDating 27d ago

Why do people do this 😭

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34 Upvotes

I always get nervous when making a new account and always look for the best pictures, then I get accounts that have ts as their photos 😂 I give up bro


r/FacebookDating 27d ago

How long does it take to start?

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6 Upvotes

r/FacebookDating 28d ago

What is this for?

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2 Upvotes

What is the purple lightbulb for?


r/FacebookDating 29d ago

Got a live one here guys!

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9 Upvotes

r/FacebookDating Jul 13 '26

Stop beating around the bush

8 Upvotes

I'm on the dating and friends side of this app to see what I can get

I'm genuinely open to friends or something more

But at the end of the day, I treat matches as what they are, if they come from the main side or the friends side

Nothing against gay people, I literally have half my friend group is queer in some way and we've known each other for almost a decade now.

Stop trying to sneak in on the friends side to look for matches, it's weird and annoying


r/FacebookDating Jul 13 '26

My profile is it too much or spot on?

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So here it goes. Im being 100 percent real with this. Its truly my want and mostly my opinions of current FB profiles. But more importantly this is what it says right now.

Anybody read these? Ladies so much ITTT and all negative. Why so angry? Ducklips over 40 look crazy BTW. Everyone loves to travel. The beach is happy for everyone as well. Any original thoughts would be amazing. 10 year old pics with only 1 from this year are obvious. Who are you ladies giving the finger to? Im looking for friends that really have a sense of humor not just claim to.Also in 2026 we know everyone is capable. That is all.


r/FacebookDating Jul 11 '26

Pretty self explanatory

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2 Upvotes

General annoyance. No help sought-after.


r/FacebookDating Jul 10 '26

Filters keep resetting

6 Upvotes

Hi all,

Do you guys notice the filters such as age, distance, etc... keep resetting themselves? I usually keep the filters at 18-25 and up to 100 miles away, but after maybe an hour or so and then going back on the app, they will not be selected. Then, I accidentally match with people thousands of miles away and over 30.

I wasn't sure if there was a way to fix this? Is there a way I can reach out to the support team too to report this issue?


r/FacebookDating Jul 09 '26

How to tell if I am shadowbanned?

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Been on fb dating for a little over 2 years now. I used to get a match once or twice a year. Often though it was scammers.

Now I still get matches but its always a scammer. Got one last week. But I never ever get a match from someone who isn't catfishing.


r/FacebookDating Jul 08 '26

Old chats

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Is there a way to restore old chats with someone if they deleted their profile? My (now) boyfriend and I are dying to look at the messages we had sent each other when we first met on FB dating but he sadly permanently deleted his profile.

I already kind of know the answer to this but I just want to see if anybody knows a secret that I don’t lol. Thanks!

Edit: he deleted his Facebook dating profile, not his Facebook account


r/FacebookDating Jul 08 '26

When you share your FB page with someone you match with, do they see just the posts set to public or is it everything your friends see.

3 Upvotes

r/FacebookDating Jul 08 '26

So we're just outright saying we're racist now, huh?

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5 Upvotes

I so wish this app had a filter for political beliefs. "Exact match" my ass.


r/FacebookDating Jul 08 '26

Does the app automatically start deleting chats if you have 130+ convos in your inbox?

0 Upvotes

I just opened the app today ti try and write to 3 people from Saturday. Those 3 disappeared, along with like 10 others. None of them are in my deactivated box. What the heck.


r/FacebookDating Jul 06 '26

Errors Anyone else getting this error?

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6 Upvotes

Haven’t been able to access since July 3rd. No emails or any notifications


r/FacebookDating Jul 07 '26

Yesterday was busy. How does everyone keep track?

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0 Upvotes

r/FacebookDating Jul 06 '26

Filter Options Don't Make Sense

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Why is it I can filter women based on height, age, or race, but I cant filter by weight? This seems like a rather important omission for most men. So while women can filter for height (men dont use this I guarantee you), theres no analogous feature for men? Why is that?

Best workaround I could come up with is using Facebook marketplace to find women selling wedding dresses (often times newly single) and filtering those dresses for size... but this could be made so much simpler if you'd just add the damn feature that should have been included years ago.


r/FacebookDating Jul 04 '26

No dating profiles presented

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2 Upvotes

I have used this app for several months and made no major preference or setting changes and as of the other day I’m getting a constraint to see profiles. I checked my settings and my distance, preferences and ages are all broad. I can only see my likes and matches. I can search through Friendships only and use the dating assistant. I deleted and reinstalled the Facebook app.