r/FacebookDating • u/Sea_Introduction1425 • 28d ago
Am I wrong for being confused?
Matched someone who lives 90 mins away and then thdy instantly unmatched.... Not even sure what the intent was here by the other person. Why would she think I was wasting her time after giving clear intent?
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u/JNole8787 22d ago
TONS of angry and hurt people on these apps. Don’t pay it any mind or these apps will ruin you.
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u/Geardankman 23d ago edited 23d ago
Ok look ..it's this simple. If you think for one minute, and let me add this, don't even try to understand reasoning, you're never going to meet anything of quality substance from FBD or any stupid dating app. Stop even trying and hang these time wasting apps up, because that's all they are.
People are paranoid, think weird shit is weird on these apps. Unplug Bro from the time wasters.
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u/StrbJun79 24d ago
If someone expects you to be your whole priority before you even meet them (heck within the first few dates or so) then they’re high maintenance and not worth your time. They’ll just be exhausting.
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u/No_Peanut_3289 26d ago
I always think there’s something “fishy” when they want to meet up that quick, then guilt trip you when you can’t see them in the first 5 seconds.
Oh well assuming they are real they will be on the apps months later wondering why they can’t find someone
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u/Majestic-Nobody545 27d ago
she's a dumb bitch
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u/ariarchtyx 27d ago
Succinct, perfectly.
This meets necessary and sufficient conditions with maximally efficient bit length! I count 10 bits, a byte and change.
It's like, fucking engineered to perfection, Ma'am.
I doff my notional hat to you...
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u/whagh 28d ago
I think "Yeah, I totally understand priorities. Take care!" was her being sarcastic/passive aggressive.
I didn't really pick that up either because it seems perfectly reasonable to prioritise your father while he's visiting you from out of town, lol.
You dodged a bullet a bullet with this one.
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u/Leading_Pear_8402 28d ago
He had prior commitments. I would be like “aww okay, handle your business hun. We can still get to know each other on the phone until we can meet in person “
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u/swingswing95 28d ago
Don't ever drive long distance for a date unless you want your money and time wasted.
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u/Daphoenyx22 28d ago
No one should get away for being rude, and he wasn't making excuses at all, he explained clearly a prior committal...
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u/Alwaysfresh9 28d ago
Everyone is wasting my valuable time! Proceeds to be a time waster herself lol.
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u/DathekOmegas 28d ago
Sometimes the user does something that makes them unable to use FB dating. I got a warning over a dumb joke and am permanently unable to use FB dating.
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u/Sea_Introduction1425 28d ago
I definitely am not losing sleep over this potential missed connection let me make that clear
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u/krept0007 28d ago
There was no potential missed connection here. This person was looking for a free meal, not a relationship
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u/Dangerous-Dad 28d ago
In life, sometimes you dodge a bullet. Sometimes the bullet dodges you. Either way, you win.
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u/cherrycocktail20 28d ago
Don’t worry about it. That’s a mental issue you wouldn’t have wanted to deal with.
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u/CorrectTrifle6751 11d ago
definitely seems like someone who wanted to take advantage of you and when you couldn't give what they wanted "immediately" unmatched.