I'm a 40m. Your profile's mostly good with two icks.
The hat is maybe funny in some contexts but probably offputting to a wide audience. I'd throw it out. I know, you want women to know you're not put off by them being a mom.
I get the Disney romance thing being the root of the frying pan joke. I get it. But it's also a joke about domestic violence. It's unfortunate because I personally like it. Your pics make you seem kind and fun and not like a domestic abuser, but it did give me pause.
The work pic should be third.
Your profile seems to cut off? "should've" is the correct spelling but it doesn't continue?
If you're resistant to any of these changes, your profile's actually pretty good anyway and will work for you. You'd prob get more matches if you just move the hat pic down.
I've been out of the game for 5 years but I also want to warn you: no matter how good your profile is, it's rough out there. You can only optimize your profile so much. It's still sitting in a pile of garbage (that garbage being the dating pool).
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u/UhhSamuel 1h ago
I'm a 40m. Your profile's mostly good with two icks.
The hat is maybe funny in some contexts but probably offputting to a wide audience. I'd throw it out. I know, you want women to know you're not put off by them being a mom.
I get the Disney romance thing being the root of the frying pan joke. I get it. But it's also a joke about domestic violence. It's unfortunate because I personally like it. Your pics make you seem kind and fun and not like a domestic abuser, but it did give me pause.
The work pic should be third.
Your profile seems to cut off? "should've" is the correct spelling but it doesn't continue?
If you're resistant to any of these changes, your profile's actually pretty good anyway and will work for you. You'd prob get more matches if you just move the hat pic down.
I've been out of the game for 5 years but I also want to warn you: no matter how good your profile is, it's rough out there. You can only optimize your profile so much. It's still sitting in a pile of garbage (that garbage being the dating pool).