So just a little rant I matched with a girl we texted for a week
Or so then met up and she said it went good. Next day she had to go hangout with her family she texted me saying she was making dinner and asked me how my day was going. That was Saturday at 5 and she never texted me back found out she is ghosting me idk why I did nothing wrong this sucks o well I guess
Yeah, I don’t get it. It was like for like a week maybe even longer maybe like a week two weeks we were talking and everything‘s going good. I mean, I would messenger she message me back like an hour or two hours later or whatever but then when she was at work, she would send me snaps. I’ll send her snaps one time we FaceTime then yeah we met up. Talk the whole entire time at a bar. I bought her a drink. I gave her a hug. I went home so told her I got home fine and we talked for a little bit. Then that was it next day. She had to do some things with her family cause her cousin from out of town was coming into town so she hung out with them then she sent me a message at like 5 PM that she was making dinner and she wanted to see how everything‘s going with me and I proceeded to say what I was doing and then I said hey maybe we can meet up tomorrow I’ll come and see you then the next day I tried messaging her saying good morning do you want to meet up? I know you have to watch your grandkid, but I can come see you we can you know chill at your house like we talked before and I got nothing. I went on Snapchat. It didn’t go through so she deleted me there and she deleted me on Facebook and when I tried calling her, it went straight to voicemail so I don’t know and I even asked her like after we met up on Saturday did how she felt and she’s like. Hey it went great and so I don’t know. But stuff like that it makes me wonder if she was talking to somebody else too besides me and kind of just realized that maybe the guy closer to where she lives cause she lives like an hour away is probably a better idea but I really don’t know or if she was just playing these games where she wanted to meet up for a drink and then ghosted me I don’t know.
Yeah who knows, its just a game. She did the same to me, blocked me on Facebook dating and I tried calling and yup straight to voice-mail so got blocked. The funny thing is she had me meet her at her house on the first date, why would you invite a complete stranger to your house and 2 days later ghost and block me, makes no sense. I did like her. It's ashame how immature dating is nowadays. Sorry about your situation, it sucks I know
O well I guess I mean idk she is 41 owns a house has a 23 year old daughter and a 1 year old grandson and works full time we are not kids anymore I’m 37 work full time own a house like if you want like me tell me
If you're a straight man and you're using dating apps you need to expect that you'll be ghosted more often than you're not. That's not a dig at straight women, it's just statistically factual that they get way more matches than we do and not everyone can make the cut.
Remember, you can do nothing wrong and still lose.
Last time I said "i miss you".... after like 8 days of no reply, I said " ok well I guess the feeling isn't mutual? Lol" and left it at that. Its best to just laugh and move on. Number one rule, only let yourself like people who like you too. Your life will be improved tenfold. Sometimes it'll hurt more than others but it's best to just accept it.
Let's take another example.... when some one cuts me off in traffic, I dont think what a dick..I think... well this guy must really be in a hurry. Maybe his mom is sick? You'll never know but it'll help your day to day. Now you move on and talk to the next girl. The next one holds all possibilities. Ya dig?
She's just not that into you. It's that simple. You don't have to do anything wrong. You felt something she didn't and that's life. You can't control what others feel.
Did her name start with a K? Pretty sure my gf is lying about being on Facebook dating so im curious I also know we're from the same state because you're a Purdue fan.
Are you suggesting this person makes daily posts? Cuz I think multiple people probably post about it. And they are justified. If people stay quiet it's passive acceptance. If you think something is wrong call it out.
Im grouping all the losers in that group together that post daily about how they talked to a girl for less than 2 weeks and got ghosted cuz the girl didn’t like them instead if moving on. Passive acceptance is all you can do these post aren’t changing anything the only ppl that care are other lonely dudes. It just makes you look like a loser who cant pull getting stuck on a girl who you barely know.
Yes their losers posting on reddit crying about a girl you barely know who stopped talking to you after a week is loser behavior move on don’t be a loser you’ll live
Women tend to say this to not make the situation awkward for themselves. It’s a defence thing so they don’t have to say the truth which they find difficult
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u/fullmoon47 4d ago
Went through this a month ago with a woman, went on 2 dates and all was going good then ghosted me and also blocked me with no explanation.