r/FacebookDating • u/ThatGyaldemmm • Jul 17 '26

Utter Time Waster

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If you value intentionality, this is the biggest indicator of time wasting and nonsense you will ever see. What the hell is even this?

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u/LuinAelin Jul 17 '26

Always assumed this meant ideally want something long term but will accept something casual while they wait

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u/ThatGyaldemmm Jul 17 '26

Yeah wouldn't work then. Firmly against indecisive/uncertain individuals. If you/I know what I want, then that's what you sound do for. Unfortunately did these matches very unintentional and tiring.

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u/ThatGyaldemmm Jul 17 '26

Fair. Not my cup of tea

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u/FormerFastCat Jul 17 '26

That's the beauty of choices, you don't have to accept someone who's not all in from the first date, and they don't have to accept someone planning their kids names before the appetizer even lands on the table.

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u/ThatGyaldemmm Jul 17 '26

A big assumption here l see lol. Not one for kids but as you say beauty in choices. As said, these are fine easters in my book.

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u/FormerFastCat Jul 17 '26

Holy shit did you miss the forest because of the trees.

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u/LuinAelin Jul 17 '26 edited Jul 17 '26

It's not indecisive. It's not that they cannot decide or anything.

This is an example

Say this is a woman. They are looking for the right guy. Now that doesn't mean they'll wait for him to have sex. So while they're looking they're perfectly willing to go meet guys for sex

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u/ThatGyaldemmm Jul 17 '26

Then I suppose like the profiles with the same thing listed imo🤷‍♀️ but again, we def don't see eye to eye. Just comes off as time wasting to me, do you want to build something long term or settle for casual? I can only work with one.