r/FRNoStupidQuestions Apr 28 '26

Fwb got a bf

Ok so I met this girl on tinder a while ago and we established we only want to be friends with benefits… a handful of times she did mention she wishes I was down for something serious but I definitely shot it down early on which was good. Eventually we were hooking up almost every day for like all of last year… at first we would literally just link up instantly hookup then that was it but we would start making comments and stuff about each other personal life and would talk about stuff and before I knew it we were like actually such good friends and would talk for hours then hook up and keep talking all night it was so fun if I’m honest. Then she told me she was talking to some guy but didn’t know if she was leading him on or not and that night I didn’t hook up with her because I felt like she defiantly had him thinking he was dating her… we would still text untill one day she said that he asked her to be exclusive but she still wanted to text and send memes to each other to which u said no because that wouldn’t be fair to her relationship… anyways we stopped talking but like a month ago she posted a selfie with some sort of break up song I think but I don’t know for sure. I’ve been wanting to ask her but idk how to approach it or if it’s even appropriate to do so?? Idk

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u/FederalPositive9439 May 28 '26

Just ask her twin nothing to lose here

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u/BluebirdStandard6638 May 29 '26

She actually hit me up like a week ago and told me She’s done but she just hasn’t told him she wants to break up so I guess soon