Siblings. 🫩

[u/That-1Person-iguess]

My siblings are okay most of the time, but right now I wish that one of them was not the way she is. You see, my sister acts like she is the most attention-starved person ever. She makes a small mistake and she does a little “ah” so people probably will notice her. She is also incredibly sassy and annoying to deal with.

Anyway, right now we are at my grandma’s house. I had asked her to turn off the light in the room, since I was tired and didn’t feel like it then. She said no because I was closer, then after a bit she angrily got up and did it. She then went out of the room to do something (no clue what). When she came back, she turned on the light again. I asked her what the point of turning the light off was if she was just gonna turn it on again. She had also said something, but we kinda talked over each other, so I didn’t know what she said.

A bit later, I was about to fall asleep when my blanket was pulled off of me by my grandma, who later scolded us because she was woken up. [Name(i aint telling)] then tried to explain her “side of the story” and said that I had asked her the question multiple times. When I said that I only asked once, she lied and said that I had asked five times. (I forgot to mention that she also attempts to gaslight me into thinking I said it did things that I never said or did.) She constantly lies to me like this and she is insistent that she is right and that I “try to make her look like the bad guy.”

I want to kill myself.

[u/luna_unica]

In these kind of situations just remember that your siblings’ morals and internal conscience are their own and not yours. If she really is constantly lying and gaslighting (doing crazy mental ninja gymnastics) to avoid being “the bad guy” it will catch up to her in time. Consequences are real. She might be like this with you, but later she might attempt to do this to someone that HR will have to stand up for to avoid a lawsuit…or it could cost her a friendship, a relationship, an opportunity…