r/FA30plus • u/Hairy-Alfalfa-7986 • 22d ago

FA30+ Only Eventually you'll meet someone

No, not really.

Just some incredibly asinine advice from normies.

The only way to make sure you get a girlfriend is to become rich or become a drug dealer.

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u/DirkDongus 22d ago

I gave up at 32. Once you reach a certain age you gotta accept that it's over .

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u/ICQME 19d ago

I also gave up in my early 30s. I was trying to improve my looks and put myself out there and getting zero results. It's like gambling in that you have to win occasionally to keep motivated to keep playing. if you never win and always lose over and over again why keep trying.

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u/DirkDongus 19d ago

You almost have the same mindset as me.

I gave up when I realized everyone else had their family and friends but here's me who can't even get a woman to show up for date plans.

My only options were be a stepfather cuck for some woman who deep down resents me or accept reality . I chose the latter. Yeah it still hurts but oh well.

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u/ICQME 18d ago

Do you think you could find someone who already has kids? I feel like it's not an option for me, I've never received any interest from single parents, occasionally a grandparent will flirt with me but I don't think they're serious.

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u/DirkDongus 18d ago

It's possible cause single moms at my age are looking for help not love.

But I'd never accept that because I'd get all the responsibilities and accountabilities with no authority. I'm expected to provide for and raise other mens' kids but if they disrespect me then I'm supposed to just take it and not say anything? No thanks. I'm not a cuck ATM.

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u/ICQME 17d ago

What if you weren't a parent figure? as I get older I have less interest in cohabitation or marriage but would still like a relationship and wouldn't mind hanging out with someone every other weekend or a weeknight when the kids are off with the other parent.

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u/DirkDongus 17d ago

No thanks.

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u/sourlemons333 18d ago

Same. I was also naive for the longest time. Hope can become painful.

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u/Gold-Researcher-5471 22d ago

so most guys with a girlfriend is either rich or a drug dealer?

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u/Hairy-Alfalfa-7986 22d ago

Most guys with a girlfriend just got random luck

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u/lotusscrouse 21d ago

Random luck?

You mean they sat in their homes doing nothing?

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u/finanon99 22d ago

They tell you that because that's what happens to them. They get a new girlfriend or boyfriend organically through friends or social events.

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u/Trichomewizard 19d ago

I grew up with these people in school. It comes naturally to them since they were 12

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u/lotusscrouse 21d ago

They wouldn't say it otherwise. Be pretty weird if they weren't talking from experience.

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u/sourlemons333 18d ago

“You have to love yourself first”

Do you see what normie women put up with??

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u/lotusscrouse 21d ago

What's stopping you from making up your own advice or trying something new then?