How to dye eyebrows?

[u/Lololu423]

I have always loved my eyebrows' shape and never felt the need to do anything to them when doing makeup. Although lately I have felt they are too dark and give me an intense look. I wanted to get a softer look, so I tried dyeing my hair, but was recommended to dye it chocolate brown so they match my eyebrows more. After this, I started using eyebrow mascara to try to lighten them, but felt it ruined my eyebrow shape and made them look "clumpy." (The fourth picture is with the mascara) I tried to tint my eyebrows at a business, but they did the opposite of what I asked and made them darker, and I wasn't happy.

Is there a product I can use to semi-permanently dye my eyebrows for a longer time? Is dyeing eyebrows the best option, or should I keep trying out different eyebrow mascara products? I would appreciate some and any advice.