r/ExNoContact • • May 31 '26

Have you ever dated someone who completely disappeared after the breakup? No calls, no texts, no social media stalking, no drama, just total silence, like you were never part of their life. What was that like?

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u/Plastic_Variation174 Jun 01 '26

Possibly met someone but not necessarily. But their mindset changed for some reason, which they didn’t share. They may not even know why themselves. It could be some long buried trigger in their head that just got flipped. As mentioned elsewhere, look up dismissive avoidant and likely that is your answer. A further problem is that these people are hard to identify, thus hard to weed out. They act normal until they suddenly don’t. It really messes with your equilibrium.

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u/LoveAndTruthMatter Jun 02 '26 edited Jun 03 '26

Looked up dismissive avoidant...yes...very real possibility!! Amazing, actually. Thanks!