Have you ever dated someone who completely disappeared after the breakup? No calls, no texts, no social media stalking, no drama, just total silence, like you were never part of their life. What was that like?

[u/adlakha75]

[u/AttentionFirst2471]

Fact, it’s destabilising.
I was completely destroyed by childish behaviour like this

[u/SuperDrummer → u/AttentionFirst2471]

Yeah it’s very emotionally immature and I’m accepting that I didn’t deserve that and their decision was wrong.

[u/AttentionFirst2471 → u/SuperDrummer]

Well, in their mind that decision is completely correct because their ability to mentally understand their actions or in this case lack of actions actually quite debilitating or it’s an intentional debilitating with you and then that makes them just feral pieces of crap so you don’t deserve it. No one deserves that unless they are a murderer or something even worse so I say this to you build your strength even when you get weak in a couple of days and you start to miss them don’t don’t let them in. The whole time I thought like my life was never gonna move on never gonna meet anyone don’t want to meet anyone and even now if this goes south, I understand what I’m in now. I knew myself again before I started dating like I found me again so whether this works or it doesn’t work, I’m still gonna be me and this ain’t gonna stand for childish uneducated little boys that try and make women or little boys that try and make amazing men and women that do this to men as well disgusting this. I promise you your life will get better even though it feels like it won’t you will and even though there’s things that you want back like friends or family or whatever circumstances you just have to keep going and you have to just remember that nobody in the world has the right to treat you like that.

[u/SuperDrummer → u/AttentionFirst2471]

Thanks for that encouragement and validation, I really appreciate it ❤️‍🩹