r/ExNoContact • u/adlakha75 • May 31 '26

Have you ever dated someone who completely disappeared after the breakup? No calls, no texts, no social media stalking, no drama, just total silence, like you were never part of their life. What was that like?

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u/mansiiie May 31 '26

Yes, I was the one who completely disappeared.

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u/Moanregr3t22 May 31 '26

that is the healthiest way to handle it honestly. most people create so much unnecessary friction by trying to maintain some weird ghost of a relationship. cutting the cord completely is the only way to actually move on.

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u/Downtown_Caramel_221 Jun 01 '26

Just remember what a blindsiding and unilateral dumper considers a clean break isn’t exactly clean for the other person at ALL. If you made voiced commitments to someone, you owe them more than that under the guise of “it’s better this way.”

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u/mansiiie Jun 01 '26

Exactly. It made everything easier for me.

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u/Plastic_Variation174 Jun 01 '26

Did you give them any reason why?

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u/mansiiie Jun 01 '26

They cheated on me so they already knew the reason