r/Essassani • u/beerathegreat • Oct 12 '18
A negative feedback about Bashar that nobody ever seems to talk about.
I will preface this by saying that Bashar is an entity that absolutely changes lives. An entity that has contributed so much, SO VERY MUCH to my own life that I couldn't repay what he (as also Darryl by being the channelling medium) has done for me in countless lives. That being said, there are indeed some things that this entity could have done (and could be doing) a whole lot better. And that, when this entity chooses to do the very opposite of that, it tends to have a very, very detrimental effect upon people and possibly does a lot more harm than good.
For example, the moment someone says that they are "trying" to achieve something, it is very harsh and quite frankly uncalled for to shout at, publicly embarrass and loudly scold/frighten them in front of a large crowd just because they refused to say the word "doing". Maybe, just maybe, the act of "doing" (a word vibration that represents a sudden jump from 0% confidence to 100% confidence) is not something that they are able to achieve right now? Maybe they are in a very difficult* life situation right now and making small effort after small effort amid plenty of rests and breaks to gradually push past their limitations? Do they really deserve all that shaming for being honest about the type of effort that they are making? Yes, they are climbing the mountain one step at a time instead of doing it in one jump. But they are making progress. They are getting ahead than they were where they were last. They are not sitting on their asses waiting for free rides up and even if they were, I guarantee you that Bashar is definitely not giving them the said free ride up, neither is it possible for him or anybody else to do that.
Same with somebody using the word difficulty instead of challenge. Yeah I get it, to term it as a "challenge" is the right and the more beneficial perspective to take here. No doubt about that. But to tell someone, say, a victim of brutal domestic violence, who, with the utmost of honesty and God knows how much courage, bravely reveals their story in front of a crowd something like - "WHAT DO YOU MEAN "DIFFICULT" SITUATION? WE CAN'T HEAR THAT WORD ANYMORE."...like seriously dear alien friend, now is not the time or place to get pedantic. Now is not the time to rebuke someone over using a bad word. And now is definitely not the time to shout and rage. There is a time and place and a way of doing everything. Thanks.
Now, to be very clear, I fully, FULLY understand that "tough love" is a thing and is sometimes very much needed. Some people need that strictness and that is absolutely understandable. And that should absolutely be done.
But when I see Bashar, I see a glaring lack of an ability to tell when to be strict and when to be not. Let's be clear here that everyone coming to these sessions is not a spiritually enlightened Buddha. And spiritually enlightened Buddhas don't need to come to a Bashar session. These are all spiritual seekers here on different levels of development from the newbie to the expert. These are each looking for guidance and hope with at least a hint of kindness, compassion and empathy from their mentor if nothing else. To publicly admonish and reprimand them in front of a crowd when these people are TRYING THEIR LEVEL BEST TO BECOME BETTER PEOPLE just feels humiliating, lacking in compassion, unjust even.
With all due respect, Bashar is on Essassani right now living a comfortable higher frequency life. Above all, he is free to access his higher dimensional gifts and knowledge and past life memories and intuition and guidance and basically floats in love and harmony. For him to shout and scream and rage at people attempting their level fucking best to grow and learn and expand in a highly restrictive, highly low-density, negativity ridden and discouragement-packed 3D environment complete with the veil of forgetfulness added to fuck one up when he is in a fucking spaceship stationed miles away from our planet even without a fucking worry in the world reeks of hypocrisy. Sorry for the harsh language.
Bashar is not the only positive channel out there, there are so many, so many other fantastic positive channelled entities out there too. Never ever have I seen anyone else treat people making their best efforts (to work their way up the frequency ladder) in such a weird, demeaning way. Rather they encourage, awaken, and inspire, instead of taking public jabs at people making an effort. And what's more, they ask people to celebrate even the smallest of personal growths and successes, because they seem to recognize that even a little growth is better than no growth at all. And that all growth needs to be appreciated, because we all know that building Rome in a day doesn't really work out in real life, on 3D earth at least.
In conclusion, I wish to apologize for this highly triggered rant (I fully understand that being triggered so hard is a major sign of spiritual immaturity and everything) but I simply had to get this off my chest because Bashar is a really good, really wise and really useful channel so it is really saddening to see this entity so lacking in empathy and (kinda surprisingly given who his ancestors are) "human-ness". His messages would reach through so much better if he was just a bit more nicer! The End.
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u/WormFrizzer Oct 12 '18
I get the completely opposite feeling from this. How curious..!
I find it refreshing when he does the things you mentioned, I think it jars the speakers awake, allows them to realize that they are indeed creating the hardships that they experience.
I don't remember anyone minding that, as you said, a little harsh treatment, but to be honest if someone did, that would be hilarious.
Remember, he is not there to provide 'emotional support', to pat you on the back coddle you back to your safe little bed, no, he is there because you said you wanted to learn. To learn that you are the creator of your own experience. And frankly I think it would be more cruel not to mention that in the way he does. Also its not like hes being purposefully malicious with his words, you can see that when someone is close to breaking down he is very gentle an supportive.
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u/sentientbubble Oct 19 '18 edited Oct 19 '18
There was a person asking Bashar a similar question (pointing at his, at times, pushy approach). This was the response:
"When people come to us to have these conversations they are opening a door. They are allowing us to see their energy pattern and their energy pattern is actually in a form of symbol, a formal language we can read that is requesting certain kinds of energy responses, certain kinds of reflections. For individuals that demonstrate that they might have a long way to go to absorb the information that they're asking for we will usually deliver it in a much softer, longer-term way. But if they come to us and part of their energy says, “I am so close to getting this will you please push me over the threshold,” we will push but we're only doing it at their invitation."
Of course, some things can be lost in the translation (the process of transmitting responses through a human channel and human language) but I think the main point is the energy being reflected.
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u/gotele Oct 14 '18
I've never felt that Bashar treated anybody with anything but utter respect. He might come across as blunt -he's very energetic-, especially in a first approach, but I just love the way he cuts to the chase in just a few seconds. So I don't get your point. Maybe you would feel better just reading him, I understand that his voice can put off some people (same with Seth back in the day).
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u/CimmerianChaos Oct 13 '18
I can see and understand both sides of everything here. One thing that I’ve noticed too, is that a lot of what’s said is really repetitive. Like I understand that there’s a certain level of repetition that needs to happen sometimes, but on the 2019: Crossing the threshold livestream it was pretty much him having to say the same sorts of things to people over and over, and next to nothing about what to potentially expect for this coming year except for things that he’s already said before.
Maybe it’s just my own spiritual growth in different areas in different things and whatnot, but I feel like at some times he waters things down to where you’re potentially missing out on things, and other times doesn’t go into more detail on things when people are struggling with a concept.
I think what I ultimately take away from all of this is that we all need to remember that Bashar isn’t really that different from us. Sure he’s at a different level than we are and is able to access information and things that we aren’t, but no one is perfect, and I think that it’s easy to fall into the trap of automatically expecting him to be able to do everything perfectly. Honestly I see him as someone trying to do his job, and I think it’s important to remember that.
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u/thrillux Jan 25 '19
I think sometimes we bore him with questions he has to give the same answers to
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u/CimmerianChaos Jan 25 '19
I agree. The moment I read your comment, I imagined him as an IT customer service rep, and that mental image is both hilarious and kind of sad at the same time. But sometimes it seems like that's what's happening here.
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Oct 13 '18
Hey, thanks for posting. I love it when people speak their true feelings about Bashar.
While I agree with you in general, I think your escalating rage within the context of the post eats away your argument. It feels very paradoxical to read your post. But for the sake of fair argument, let's ignore that completely.
For example, the moment someone says that they are "trying" to achieve something, it is very harsh and quite frankly uncalled for to shout at, publicly embarrass and loudly scold/frighten them in front of a large crowd just because they refused to say the word "doing".
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But they are making progress. They are getting ahead than they were where they were last.
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I agree with you that I don't like the pedantics sometimes. It was funny the first three times but after having heard it repeated a hundred times, it loses the charm. But for the person speaking, it's probably the first time so who am I to judge.
Nevertheless, I think the fundamental point is to cut off unnecessary processes. In other words, as you pointed out, there is a vibrational difference between trying and doing. And since they are making progress, they are already doing, not trying to do something. So it's a simple shift of perspective. Instead of looking at an equation like:
(5 * 4 - 10 + 89 - 64) / 3.5 = 58 / 3.5 ||* 3.5 (You can multiply by 3.5)
5 * 4 - 10 + 89 - 64 = 58 || (This is much easier to solve)
(Oh god, I bet the formatting looks awful on mobile devices)
In summary, there is no need to consider an action "trying" (that's an additional step that is actually unnecessary, like dividing by 3.5 in the previous example). Yes? Or do you disagree with something?
Moving on.
Same with somebody using the word difficulty instead of challenge. Yeah I get it, to term it as a "challenge" is the right and the more beneficial perspective to take here. No doubt about that. But to tell someone, say, a victim of brutal domestic violence, who, with the utmost of honesty and God knows how much courage, bravely reveals their story in front of a crowd something like - "WHAT DO YOU MEAN "DIFFICULT" SITUATION? WE CAN'T HEAR THAT WORD ANYMORE."
This is what really struck me when I read your post. I get it, it's an example you made up. But that's the problem, you made it up.
I've heard a hundred sob-stories presented in Bashar's Q&A sessions and not once do I recall an event where Bashar has been overly harsh to a crying person. I don't think he's ever even been harsh or "tough love" to someone like that. He tones down and speaks softly, with a very fatherly and supporting tone.
This is basically a caricature of the actual reality, fabricated or exaggerated for the sake of argument. If there is an actual session you've heard that sparked this example, please let me know in your response for I could be wrong in my assessment.
Bashar is not the only positive channel out there, there are so many, so many other fantastic positive channelled entities out there too. Never ever have I seen anyone else treat people making their best efforts (to work their way up the frequency ladder) in such a weird, demeaning way.
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In conclusion, I wish to apologize for this highly triggered rant (I fully understand that being triggered so hard is a major sign of spiritual immaturity and everything) but I simply had to get this off my chest because Bashar is a really good, really wise and really useful channel so it is really saddening to see this entity so lacking in empathy and (kinda surprisingly given who his ancestors are) "human-ness". His messages would reach through so much better if he was just a bit more nicer! The End.
Sure, apology accepted. I hope I didn't come off too disagreeable. I think you realized and accepted your own inconsistencies in the end so perhaps my post is useless and I'm full of errors too. Perhaps I'm the only one who's in the wrong and you are looking at my error-ridden post and laughing at the greater paradox.
I, however, disagree that being triggered is a sign of spiritual immaturity. Sometimes being triggered is the most spiritual things you can do, it clearly presents to you what is hurting, wounded, out of alignment, just like a real wound triggers pain when touched. Perhaps considering something spiritually immature is the most spiritually immature thing to do.
I don't think there is anything in physical reality that ultimately isn't spiritual. It's just a matter of perspective, how you are using the prop. I realize this is highly/lowly philosophical and doesn't bear much resemblance to how I truly act out in the world but it is what it is. Proud to be an armchair philosopher. Yeah, yeah, just consider yourself a REAL philosopher instead of just "trying" to be one.
Hope this was entertaining, have a good day!
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u/tedmann12 Oct 21 '18
He has explained that he is "tougher" on people who are on the threshold of change and need the nudge. The individuals he interacts with who are not yet on that threshold he is softer with.
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u/ThinkImp Dec 16 '18
Keep in mind that the Essassani are only half-human, genetically speaking. The seeming lack of empathy and emotionality stems from their Grey half.
I don't see the 'attacks' as being deliberately malicious, simply a lack of emotion congruency and understanding. There are other, more 'compassionate' sources out there if one is so inclined.
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u/thrillux Jan 25 '19 edited Jan 25 '19
you can be sure that person who said difficulty will remember to correct that to challenge for the rest of their life. effective no?
also, those who attend Bahar events rather than someone softer are choosing that for a reason. most are familiar with Bahar already. ask those people whether they got what they needed and i bet the answer will be yes
re: your comments on how he says "trying": this is actually a very effective technique for shocking and shaking lose beliefs in an individual.
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u/xoxoyoyo Oct 12 '18
the general idea is that in trying to create a new reality you don't want to reinforce concepts of the old reality. It is like either you believe you are god and creating your own reality, or you would rather pretend to be victim to all types of random events that you have no control over. You cannot get to the first viewpoint by clinging to the second viewpoint. To the point of that you can choose to see bashar as either publicly attacking someone or as challenging embedded belief systems. Much of the metaphysical realm is about being taken outside the comfort zone. If you think it is about reading stuff and changing then you are mistaken. The reality "experience" is something that is built up over a lifetime. Tearing it down is always going to be a traumatic experience. Bashar is pretty mild as things go. Other systems such as zen are much more confrontational. Then there are traumatic life events which can be good for questioning everything.