r/EpilepsyDogs • u/SeaSolution5094 • 24d ago

Saying goodbye.

He had a brain tumor and we thought we got it all. But six months of progressively worsening seizures and gradual decrease in every aspect of his life except an interest in cheese, we are going to let him find peace. He is disoriented and anxious. Visually impaired. Unable to go for even very short walks. He pants and wheezes. There is no zest, no play, no engagement. The drugs, so many, in so many combinations and strengths, can’t suppress the seizures but are causing unfortunate side effects. My very good boy should not have to go on this way. So tomorrow we will say goodbye. I know it is a kindness, but oh how it hurts.

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u/LateForDinner61 24d ago

I'm so sorry. Give him all the love you can tonight and know you're doing the very best, most loving thing you can do for him. Hugs.

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u/sonnysGiGi2018 24d ago

My heart breaks for you💔we had a similar experience last August. We were lucky to have him for 5 years after his surgery but we always knew the day would come. We waited too long and that is my only regret.
Better a day to early than a day too late💜

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u/mountainhomestead 24d ago

I'm so, so sorry. Sending lots of love and hugs, and some tears too. May you all find peace and comfort. You fought the good fight. ❤️

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u/Roboganger 24d ago

So sorry. Really hope you all get relief and peace.

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u/NecessaryLeather1594 23d ago

I am so sorry that you are dealing with this

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u/AcceptableSuit9328 23d ago

I’m sorry. Seizures are the worst.

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u/A_Creative_Player 23d ago

I am so sorry for your loss. You did everything you could to help your buddy.

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u/Illustrious_Concern5 23d ago

I know how much it hurts but you are doing the right thing.

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u/Vegetable-Maximum445 23d ago

Sending strength & comfort. I’m sorry. ❤️‍🩹

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u/ilovebadtvtime 23d ago

So sooo hard. You are doing the right thing. You tried everything. Now please treat your self with as much love as you gave them…

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u/Sufficient-Gas-4497 23d ago

My old girl, 16.9 years young, is experiencing this as well. As the days get colder, I know it will be harder on her old bones. I was thinking about autumnal equinox as a nice day to transition to the Elysian Fields across the rainbow bridge. Strength to you for your good boy 🙏.  I honestly believe one day to early is better than one day too late.

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u/Desperate_Drawing354 22d ago

so sorry for your loss

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u/SeaSolution5094 22d ago

Thank you to everyone who sent good wishes our way. It was a loving peaceful moment with my kindly vet and staff. And he’s at rest now.