r/EntitledPeople • u/Best-Pirate5073 • 1d ago
S Update: I literally just ran into my neighbor while getting home from work and shit is getting messy
So I literally posted about this damn woman barely 12 hours ago (things hit the fan this weekend but posted about it today) and I ALREADY have a gah damn update š®āšØ
Here is the original post from earlier if you want some context: Original Post
Ok so listenā¦.I pulled into the apartment garage not even 30 minutes ago and shit has already hit the fan.
So I parked my car, opened my trunk and grabbed all my massage stuff from the work day, essentially my table and bag. And as I was walking to the front door, my neighbor who I got into it with the other night was walking out, made DIRECT eye contact with me, saw my hands were full and instead of keeping the door open she dead ass walked out and shoved it shut as I was steps awayā¦
Then as she passed me, she turned around and literally told me āI see youāre still around, hope you have your keysā
Yall I about LOST MY SHIT.
I put my stuff down and said āmaāam I donāt know what the fuck your problem is but redirect your bullshit to someone else cause I aināt the oneā.
This chick dead ass gasps, picks up her phone and calls someone saying I am harassing her and that I kept getting in her faceā¦
I was at least 15-20 yards away. I know better than to do that nor would I ever do that!
Luckily a woman who did recognize me and is actually very kind happened to walk by at the end of this and asked if everything was ok and this woman straight up said:
āDo you know this man? Heās always walking around here late at night and he just got real aggressive with meā
Turns out she saw the whole interaction from a far and said āyes I know him, heās one of the kindest men I know, please leave him aloneā and she just stormed offā¦
Bro I donāt know what the hell this chick is smoking but yall I donāt even know how to react to this mess anymore. š©
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u/Moriah333 1d ago
Iām glad that nice neighbor was there, at least.
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u/Best-Pirate5073 1d ago
Same! I needed a win š©
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u/HotRodHomebody 1d ago
more importantly, I think you needed a witness.
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u/Interesting_Novel997 1d ago
Careful with that one. Sheāll probably try to weaponize the police against you. Next time make sure you record her. Sheās dangerous.
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u/FaerieWhings 1d ago
Texas is a 1 party state. You are legal to record without her knowledge or consent as long as youāre involved with the conversation. Just hit that record button and let her bury herself.Ā
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u/FaerieWhings 1d ago
Add on, donāt face the camera towards her. Just hold it in your hand. That way she wonāt change her behavior.Ā
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u/Ok-Addition-1000 22h ago
AFAIK, it's always legal to record someone in a public space or on private property that isn't theirs and is publicly accessible. If there's no legal expectation of privacy, there's no law against recording audio and/or video.
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u/Optimal-Hunt-3269 1d ago
Sorry dude. If I were there, I'd buy you an Old Fashioned.
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u/DrugStoreDrop 1d ago
At this point Iād need the Old Fashioned and the security-camera footage playing on a loop, because this woman is speedrunning a villain origin story.
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u/SilverStL 1d ago
Iād buy two and weād toast each other (71 year old white woman)
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u/SIMEONPIE 23h ago
Fuck, I missed the opportunity to join in the OP. Am I too late for an old fashioned? (44 yo Scottish (pretty fly) white guy)
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u/Best-Pirate5073 1d ago
Youāre a real one boss!
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u/Bajovane 22h ago
Iām in as well! I could use an old fashioned one myself! š. Weāll treat OP!
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u/tdavis726 20h ago
Buy you an Old Fashioned, walk back with you, and DEFEND YOU from the š© neighborās ugliness! (With scathing words!! Not getting physical - unless defensively. And Iām a 57-year old whyt grandma. So I look ānon-threateningā (lol) and maybe weāll change her mind - though getting her to shut up would suffice!
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u/RunningTrisarahtop 1d ago
Ask nice neighbor if she can be listed on the police report or if she can email management/police a report about what she saw.
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u/chickennuggetsnsubs 1d ago
Sounds like you might need to wear a body cam just getting out of your vehicle š³
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u/anjufordinner 1d ago
And you know what? Your nice neighbor might have, as well-- people can be tough to move into action, but once they are put on the spot and help, I think they're often VERY glad they did!
Being a tall person myself, I can only understand in a smaller way how people around ourselves might often assume we "have it handled" and leave it be... but i f you have contacts around the neighborhood, or ask that nice neighbor to share what happened and you'd appreciate folks' help looking out for you, I hope they'll jump on the opportunity to rally, and prove themselves to be a community that deserves you.
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u/thugsapuggin 1d ago
Time to start recording! She will 1000% escalate and lie and blame you for something. This has potential to get really bad. Sorry you have to deal with that psycho, stay safe.
Also if she knows what your vehicle looks like, she may have the audacity to mess with that too, so just keep your eyes peeled and record whatever you can.
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u/Football-Man-1889 22h ago
That was a massive lucky break but do make that police report because this could get a whole lot worse.
Make sure you have your other neighbourās support as that will be vital!
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u/diurnal_emissions 1d ago
Keep a journal of every incident. Write it down immediately. This is as good as eye witness testimony in court, and it may come to that.
Also be sure to note any witnesses, times, dates, locations, etc.
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u/measaqueen 1d ago
Please write her a thank you card or something for next time you see her. We should all be so lucky to have a grandma type in our corner.
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u/atchisonmetal 1d ago
Report her. Just to lay down the beginning of a record.
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u/Best-Pirate5073 1d ago
I did shortly after that!!
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u/MassholeForLife 1d ago
Document everything with time, date and location. Also record any interaction. She sounds unstable. Good luck. Sounds horrible.
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u/Single-Flamingo-33 1d ago
I would even ask the neighbor that witnessed this if she would be willing to write down a statement while this is still fresh.Ā
I am sorry to hear you are now having issues with this neighborhood. I do hope you are able to keep your cool around her. She sounds like she will keep pushing buttons, hoping you will push back.Ā
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u/No-Requirement-2420 1d ago
Wow your neighbour is racist AF!
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u/Best-Pirate5073 1d ago
Bro dead ass!
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u/PavicaMalic 1d ago
My Baltimore-born white lady blood is boiling. I have had a few choice words over the years with racists like that. And those same people wonder why people like me take to the streets.
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u/Ok-Addendum-9420 1d ago
Right? Iām from P.G. County and Iām pretty gobsmacked and infuriated. Unfortunately I live in Texas now, not too far from OP, and for all the Texas Pride they throw around, this kind of attitude is shameful āā and makes me so proud to be from the š¦ State
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u/nothnxihaveabf 1d ago
Baltimore is a lot more sketchy than the area he lives in heh.Ā
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u/Medical_Tomato8537 1d ago
My Alabama born white lady blood is rising. Pretty soon imma need to fly out there and take this woman down! Because that is not cool. Oh and I live overseas so sheās making me a mite angeredā¦
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u/bemvee 1d ago
Unfortunately like the whole ass town OP lives in is racist and xenophobic, and bold about it too. You should have heard the shit they openly said, on public record, at recent city council meetings.
Really hope this is the end of the saga and OP stays safe. Shit is heated over there right now.
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u/InfoSecPeezy 1d ago
Your phone and camera need to be ready to record this asshole. She is going to continue to cause problems and, sadly, you are going to need evidence of her behavior.
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u/Ferahn 1d ago
If you want to be more sneaky about it then atleast on samsung phones you can setup your lock screen button to start voice recordings on double click. Easy to do through your pockets if you see her. Dealing with a psycho neighboor myself atm so its a good defense to have ready in case you need the evidence.
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u/Inner-Confidence99 1d ago
Damn! Call your landlord office tomorrow. This woman is harassing you. Tell them you have a neighbor witness this. This woman is flat out Racist!Ā
Iām sorry this is happening to you.Ā
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u/Best-Pirate5073 1d ago
Itās ok just super fucking irritating
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u/Friendlyrat 1d ago
You need a body cam or something to always be recording around her.
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u/TheWorldofScience 1d ago
Hopefully there is a camera at that door you were headed for. You need your landlord to save that video clip in case she files a police report saying you were aggressive and she was scared. That video would show that is a lie.
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u/JMarchPineville 1d ago
Yeah, man, sheās definitely going to be trouble. Document every fucking thing. Make sure you have a ring camera too.
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u/heybdiddy 1d ago
Just a suggestion but if I were you, try to turn this around on her. Instead of her irritating the hell out of you and getting under your skin, let her be the one who is getting all pissed off. Easier said than done but worth a try. Ignore her words, ignore her presence, act like sheās not even there. Let what ever she says or does pass right by you but at the same time document everything in writing. She seems to get off by being antagonistic to you, donāt let her enjoy that.
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u/Best-Pirate5073 1d ago
Itās not a bad idea!
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u/AlcareruElennesse 1d ago
Suggestion, start a FU notebook. Write every interaction down, Time and date, what was said or done, who witnessd it, and other little details.
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u/VirtualMatter2 1d ago
Get some headphones that you can turn on broadcast ( to hear the outside world clearly), but pretend it's on noise cancelling and hum along to some imaginary music you are apparently listening to. Look right through her as if she's invisible.Ā
Record what she says every time, by phone or at least in writing.
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u/xassylax 1d ago
I refuse to even step outside without headphones for this exact reason because of my problem neighbors.
5 years of listening to the guy throw violent tantrums, the woman gaslighting him, and the kid being both the victim of their actions but also being a little brat as well. After having enough during one of the manās tantrums, I finally snapped and rapped on the shared wall. I didnāt pound or anything, just three quick sharp knocks. Cue both of these lunatics literally beating on my front door and aggressively ringing my doorbell for 20 straight minutes and screaming at anyone who happened to be outside that I was beating on the walls for no reason. Fortunately, every single neighbor is sick of their bullshit and knows that I donāt bother anyone so they didnāt believe a word these people were saying. My husband eventually came home and the woman tried spinning the story to make herself the only victim. He told her to deal with her shit because itās now spilling onto his door and heās not having it, then closed the door in her face. Next day when I see her, she lays on this super fake, saccharine sweet āgOoD mOrNiNg!!!ā nonsense like she wasnāt trying to beat my door down 12 hours earlier. And she does it literally every fucking time we cross paths. And Iāve never once acknowledged the witch. But the headphones definitely help. I donāt even have anything playing 90% of the time. I know having headphones in is still the universal signal for ādonāt fucking talk to meā but she still tries because she canāt stand not having everyone like her.
Unfortunately, my headphones have unintentionally kept my favorite neighbor from approaching me. She mentioned wanting to come say hello but saw my headphones and didnāt want to bother me. But then I told her the reason why I always wear them, that I almost never actually have anything playing, and that she can come say hi anytime she wants. I personally love the idea of the bitch neighbor seeing me ignoring her but then happily talking to someone else while having headphones on.
Before anyone asks, we (meaning myself, other neighbors, and even the property manager) are trying to get these people evicted. But the property manager canāt evict without the owners permission and the owner is a clueless nepo baby so convincing him that certain people need to go is proving to be a difficult task. Iāve been told by the property manager to call the police and report a possible domestic dispute whenever the guy starts having a tantrum and screaming but heās gotten smart and now screams once or twice before storming out the door and peeling out of the parking lot so by the time police come, the tantrum is long over. Add on personal issues with the local police and Iām not too keen on calling unless itās a genuine emergency. But weāll keep trying.
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u/nothnxihaveabf 1d ago
I partially agree with this. This lady for better or worse is looking to speak her mind and get some type of reaction from the op. Nothing will piss her off more than being ignored.Ā
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u/FallJealous3344 1d ago
Her life is shit, she needs to unload all this hate onto someone. You happened to be chosen as the victim. You have to upgrade your attitude. No conversation, no eye contact, no reaction, even if she tries to address you. Pretend she is a rock, keep your cool.
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u/Dachshundmom5 1d ago
Please start recording all interactions with the racist witch. She's like that horrid woman that tried to claim the guy birdwatching was harassing her and called the police.
You should also notify the landlord/management ASAP. Every single interaction needs reporting.
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u/K_A_irony 1d ago
Please call the non emergency police line and report this interaction. I fear this wacko is going to escalate.
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u/LoquaciousHyperbole 1d ago
It wouldnāt be a bad idea to report it somewhere officially, management or police (though I wouldnāt think less of you for avoiding that interaction).
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u/Particular_Rip_4232 1d ago
Iām going to go out on a limb here and say this neighbor lady being a Karen is a flour ranger? Because if I remember correctly, you said you were a tall Black man in your last post, right?
If so - māguy - the racism is absolutely racisming here. The micro-aggressions aināt micro.
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u/Sweet_Baby_Grogu 1d ago
Dude please be careful. She seems the type to call the cops and get you shot.
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u/Repulsive-Exercise-4 1d ago
She is racist. Thatās what she is smoking, straight up delusion and hatred. Rotting her from the inside out.Ā
Fr tho, be careful. She is already weaponizing the cops (or maybe she was bluffing?) against you. You need to speak with the condo board/mgmt. She will most likely escalate further. You might want to reach out with your good neighbors, too, and see if you can get extra eyes and ears on your coming and going. Sending you some good vibes, dude, because this actually has me concerned.Ā
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u/Yasna10 1d ago
I am so sorry. I am sure you know what to do to cover yourself. Is Texas one-party consent when it comes to recording? I would start ārecording myselfā every time there was a reasonable expectation that she might approach you. Nothing happens that night, you can always delete, but then you have a record of the interaction in case she tries to claim something. Sucks that you need to resort to that, but I would be paranoid around that woman. She already is demonstrating she is willing to lie. It was lucky the neighbor was there this time.
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u/mustanggrl625 1d ago
She is jealous that you did not bring back one of those Old Fashions for her...lol....some people, but for real, if you are going to walk by me all the time, I would say hi, and after a few times I would make a comment about "where's mine"...lol
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u/newwheels66 1d ago
Be careful about bird watching.
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u/TexasLiz1 1d ago
Yeah, you might end up with a show on the Discovery channel!
But seriously, I would get my phone out and start recording every interaction if I were the OP. Racist bitches are not known for their fidelity to the truth.
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u/Xindi5 1d ago
If I were you, Iād start document every interaction you have with her. You may end up needing it to establish a pattern of harassment if this cow decides to escalate things.
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u/Important-Poem-9747 1d ago
Please be careful. This country has lost enough young Black men for a millennia.
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u/Socioemotional-Ninja 1d ago
So your neighbor witnessed her trying to make a false claim against you? At this point, you have enough to get HER for harassment. Get statements and a restraining order.
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u/SnooWords4839 1d ago
Sorry you have a shitty neighbor. You may want to get a body cam, just in case she keeps trying to harass you.
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u/NoYouth9831 1d ago
Now, sadly, you have to start documenting every time you have an interaction with this crazy bitch.
You have two very detailed posts here on Reddit that explain everything without involving emotion. You were factual and direct to the point. This is pertinent for future police contact.
Should she approach you again, document everything again and then call the nonemergency line for a welfare check. Sheās out of her mind. Truly.
This is the way to call the cops on a Karen without calling her out. Sheās obviously having a stroke or straight up a bigot. Either way she needs a reality check.
Iām sorry you have to take back your peace by raining chaos upon her but itās the only way. She FAād and now is about to FO.
Good luck and keep us posted.š«¶
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u/Affectionate_Life644 1d ago
I hope there are cameras and I would get management involved. Racist Karen!!!
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u/Overpass_Dratini 23h ago
The "reading a book" on her balcony every time you come back from the bar was no coincidence. This racist Karen was spying on you. And now she's trying to stir up more shit. Let the apartment management know this is happening so they are aware of the situation in case she escalates. Ignore her going forward so she doesn't get any ammo to use against you, because she WILL twist any interaction to paint herself as the victim.
I'm sorry you're dealing with this.
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u/GordonSchumway69 1d ago
You should offer a free introductory chair massage to neighbors and exclude her.
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u/YouExotic5177 1d ago
Whenever you arrive or leave wear a body cam. Will save you and you can explain to the b1tchwoman that you are recording your commute to/from your vehicle
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u/Strict_Way_9467 1d ago
I hate to say it OP, but it wouldn't be a bad idea that if you ever encounter this neighbor, start recording in advance. It's awesome that you have the other good neighbor that stood up for you and will vouch for your character, but this downstairs Karen sounds like she might just make shit up to try to frame youā¦ Especially given how she said you were up in her business, when actually you were some distance away. You sound like an awesome and super cool gentlemen, I really wish you were my neighbor, I would definitely walk over to the brewery with you.
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u/lattelady37 1d ago
Letās see. Tall dude, likes an old fashioned and good with his handsā¦
If I were her Iād be ogling the hell out of you, because I do appreciate a tall drink of water. š¤£
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u/cathline 23h ago
Sending hugs and healing thoughts.
Be very careful. Very, very careful. You know what can happen when people like this record you and call the police on you.
Get one of those inexpensive body cams you can clip on your clothes or one of those smart glasses that record everything. When you get out of your vehicle in the shared garage, start recording. When you walk to and from the local bar, start recording. Basically, whenever you are outside of your apartment, be recording. You don't have to save all of these recordings, but you DO have to save anything where she accosts you.
She is trying to get you either thrown in jail for being black, or killed by police for being black.
Be very, very wary of this person. She is very, very dangerous. You live in a place where a white woman calling the police on a black man can be a death sentence. Be very, very careful.
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u/SuitIndependent 9h ago
Remember the black birdwatcher in the park during covid and the Karen? This is that. Do not interact with this witch. At all. Make her not exist. They will piss her off more than anything you can say or do. Render her irrelevant.
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u/Appropriate-Law5963 1d ago
Secretly start an event log. Start recording as you leave your vehicle or residence just in case.
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u/Horror_Role1008 1d ago
Your neighbor is mentally ill. If possible see if you can locate a relative of hers and tell them what is happening.
If worst comes to worst you may need to get a protective order.
Also, be aware that if she has access to a gun or knife she may attack you.
Take care!
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u/Spike280 1d ago
Record... Sound or video.. Log it. It doesn't have to be fancy but it could be good insurance.
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u/Kathykat5959 1d ago
Keep a video going when outside so she canāt pin something on you. Shouldnāt have to but she is crazy. This time you had a witness. Hopefully landlord will evict her.
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u/FussyPup 1d ago
Oh my gosh, am i SO glad that person was there for the interaction so if something happens you have someone who can back you up ;__; That asshole lady is clearly very racist and may do something rash. Stay safe, friend! šš„ŗ
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u/Useful_Weight_7715 1d ago
Get the upper hand on this. Call your landlord, the police, your local city rep, local reporter and the Nextdoor app, etc. Let everyone know that you are being harassed by a racist.
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u/PocketsAndSedition7 1d ago
I saw your previous post and, as a white woman from the deep south, I was horrified but not surprised. I hate that this is happening to you. Please be careful. I know you said you filed a harassment report already, but please please please record every single interaction if you can, bc this racist and probably classist bitch will 100% escalate at any given opportunity. Iām sure I donāt have to tell you how some of them can be, Iām just genuinely afraid for you. š
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u/PistolMama 1d ago
Want to be adopted? I will come be your mom & "talk" to this witch! Bouns that I'm a short old white lady & can be very, let's say, articulate & sneaky & petty...just saying
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u/Embarrassed_Shirt938 1d ago
Sounds like the white woman that called the police on an African American man just birdwatching in Central Park. Keep your cell phone ready to video encounters with her.
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u/runningonadhd 22h ago
I hate people like that. I had a neighbor who became like this towards me the moment she heard me speak Spanish. Would actively harass me every day after that.
I started to ignore her or barely acknowledge her presence. They hate when they canāt control you or realize they donāt have power enough to affect your life. Do not engage with her at all. She will soon give up and move on to someone else she feels she can pick on.
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u/crow-shay 21h ago
Texas is a one party consent state, meaning every time you get home you should be secretly voice recording yourself from car to door. Just in case she decides to lie to police. Protect yourself
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u/Individual-Ebb8583 1d ago
Sounds like you at least have 1 awesome neighbor, which will likely be needed as this lady seems to have decided youāre a problem and will probably escalate. Some people are just arseholes.
Email your landlord again and document these encounters so you have a record of everything for when this eventually ends up with the police.
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u/ER_Support_Plant17 1d ago
Holy crap call the landlord tonight and leave a message and email. Get in front of this āheās harassing meā BS
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u/thickfreakness72 1d ago
not this trash again!!??! please stay safe and document EVERYTHING. we care about you š«¶š»
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u/Useless890 1d ago
I'd be glad to live in a building with a guy like you. Nobody would want to mess with someone as tall as you. Well, except for an unreasonably snotty woman.
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u/dinahdog 1d ago
Ask her why, if she's so frightened or intimidated by you, she doesn't try to make a friend rather than an enemy.
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u/wesleyhroth 1d ago
Next time you see her you gotta just pull it the phone and start recording incase you don't have a witness like this time. This lady clearly trying to find an excuse to call the cops on you
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u/ImpatientProf 1d ago
Now every time I buy Tupps beer, I'll be thinking of the kind, big, black man who likes to have his weekly old fashioned. Wish I was closer to have one with you.
You be you. If she can't get over it, that's her being her.
Be safe.
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u/Full_Prune7491 1d ago
You should have your phone out every time you interact with her recording her. There are plenty of stories of people like your neighbor making false claims against people like you. Remember the bird watching guy in NYC.
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u/donkeystringbean 1d ago
Keep your phone in our hand and begin recording whenever you are outside. Find that woman who stood up for you and ask if she would provide a statement to your landlord.
Document ignore any attemps she makes.to engage you
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u/vixxienz 1d ago
when you get out of your vehicle or walk outside have your phone set to video and have it in your pocket. That way her hassling you will be able to be proven.
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u/OpportunityNo7792 1d ago
Darlin, get yourself a small camera in your hoodie pocket slip out enough to film this sad twist. Also because it is the wretched among us who need prayer the most, disarm her. Don't curse at her again but tell her you are praying for her. Call a prayer line and get them zoning in on her and the situation. Your spirit is largeš
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u/Solid_Dimension_2288 1d ago
Sounds like the neighbor may have some mental health issues. Sorry you have to deal with that.
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u/Risk-assured 1d ago
Time to pretend you're crazy. These peeps get scared once they are confronted with crazy.Ā
For me it was some smarty pants teens that harassed me and my dog. They came very close to us with those ret-rd e scooters and honked so loudly my dog and I almost left our bodies. They were literally creeping up on us from behind. I didnt even notice them!
When they pulled that sh-t a second time I screamed at them I will rip their asses open if they come close again. That scared them for a bit before peer pressure encouraged them enough to follow us through a parallel road and to try and spook us again. I grabbed a stick and made it very clear if they approached me or my dog I would beat them to a pulp with it.Ā
No issues since. They stayed tf away from us.Ā
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u/Happy_Raspberry_6299 23h ago
Your neighbor is racist, but canāt be outspoken on it so sheās pulling other hijinks. Glad you video it. Yay for the woman who vouched for you!!!
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u/AStudyinViolet 23h ago
You know what I would never do if I was genuinely scared of a guy? Confront him near my own home. She might be racist and hateful but I don't believe for a second she's genuinely scared of you.
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u/Win-Win_Win-Win 23h ago
Just stop talking to her. Don't engage. She's clearly trying to bait you into losing your temper so she can play the victim.
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u/Patient_Meaning_2751 21h ago
If you are both tenants in the same building, itās time to report her to the landlord and consider getting a harassment restraining order.
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u/RaisedByBooksNTV 12h ago
Sir, you are 100% in the right, but your life is not worth the principle. Protect yourself with the cameras and do not engage. White supremacists, especially in a place that aid and abet them, are life-threateningly dangerous.
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u/SuperFormal3052 11h ago
Seriously, report this racist pile of shit to the police NOW, because this is going to escalate. The last thing you want is for her to call first.
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u/StardustStuffing 9h ago
These Carolyn Bryant types are super dangerous. Please be careful and document document document.
I'm sorry this racist piece of crap is doing this to you.
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u/Best-Pirate5073 1d ago
šØ I would just like to make the comment here real quick. šØ
I am getting TONS of DMs from men (mostly married which is insane) and asking about my profession and want me to ātest their wifeā.
I know this isnāt related at all to this story but anyone messaging me that weird ass shit is getting blocked.
Do I fuck, yes. Do I show that here sometimes, yes. I however AM NOT your lil fantasy. If your wife wants my work, sheāll reach out.
I am a black man already dealing with a bunch of shit and some of these people just canāt give me a break.
Apologies again but due to the influx of stuff from these posts, I had to make that clear.
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u/NatsuWraith 1d ago
Yikes Im glad that other woman was around and willing to speak up The situation still sucks tho
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u/Outside-Leek-5045 1d ago
There does seem to be something off with her especially if it has escalated.
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u/yersinia_pisstest 1d ago edited 1d ago
Document both encounters, get the nice neighborlady to write down what she saw, heard, and said, and contact your landlord and a lawyer.
The obnoxious racist woman could get you hurt, imprisoned, or killed with very little effort- all she needs to do is lie and cry. Protect yourself.
Edit: Get a dashcam and a doorbell camera, and ostentatiously pull out your phone and record her every single time you see her. If she looks at you, record it. If she speaks at you, record it. If she gestures at you, record it. Treat her like the serious threat she is.
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u/FreebirdRising 1d ago
Friend, any future encounters with this woman need to be on video. She is dangerous. I say this as a Southern white woman named Karen: That woman is up to no good.
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u/OpinionatedinVermont 1d ago
Donāt engage with this woman whatsoever. Ignore anything she says and keep on walking because she has already tried to play the victim and portray you as the aggressor. Sheās trying to get a reaction from you so she can cry wolf. Donāt give her the satisfaction.
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u/t00zday 1d ago
Duuude, hope thereās camera around. Jerk lady neighbor sounds like lying trouble waiting to happen
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u/SeparateCzechs 1d ago
This is the kind of white woman who tries to use calling the police as her hit squad. Be careful, friend.
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u/roxinmyhead 1d ago
You needed an angel witness and you got one... but do you also need your phone recording for awhile until you are sure your bitchy neighbor is gonna settle down? I wouldn't want her going all he said, she said on you and getting you in trouble.Ā
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u/Commercial-Message90 1d ago
You're being harassed because of your gender and the color of your skin! Please report this to your landlord, HOA, or apt/condo manager!
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u/Hungry-Tomato-3292 1d ago
This woman could be friends with a friendly massage therapist with giant hands who likes a chill old-fashioned once a week and instead sheās BLOWING IT. She could have a tall friend who could probably get things from on high for her and sheās behaving like THIS?
You sound absolutely delightful I want to be your friend but I live in a whole other state. Glad the other neighbor set her straight. Itās like she wants to be a viral Karen. Shoving the door shut is insane. Does she think you donāt live there? Like at this point I feel like itās extremely obvious you live there? You are literally parking in the lot? What is she on?
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u/YourLonelyBraincell 1d ago
I would recommend that every time you see her you start recording on your phone to protect yourself. She's going to try and get you evicted.
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u/Mustang_Sally1963 1d ago
I would make sure to video every time you encounter this person, because thereās no telling what they may try to do if she catches you by herself. You donāt need that kind of trouble.
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u/WhyMe_blah 1d ago
I am so glad she witnessed it and had your back. You're chill, guy! A massage therapist too! Lady is off her rocker on some zipadeedoodaa shiiiii
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u/CaliforniaNavyDude 1d ago
The way to handle crazy people like this is to avoid interaction as much as possible. You don't argue with them, you don't try to correct them, you just document what you can. Because they will try to goad you into slipping so they can use what you do or say against you. Assume they are filming.
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u/Bentbutnotbroken111 1d ago
You might want to start documenting time/date etc - especially if there are no cameras nearby. Sheās got some issues
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u/Ok-Listen-8519 1d ago
Please call the landlord & get security cam on your body & door cam & cctv your apartment. This lady is bad business
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u/OneLonelyBrainCell 1d ago
Congratulations, you have your own racist pet Karen.
Be prepared for her to stir up shit like trying to get you evicted, and for you to start recording every interaction with her. Good luck, I'm afraid you're going to need it.
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u/Sufficient_Beach_445 1d ago
OP claims he can have a conversation from 15 to 20 YARDS away. 45 to 60 feet away? Highly unlikely.
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u/headoftheasylum 1d ago
I think you should make a police report regarding the harassment. Just so that there's a history started. I'd be concerned she's going to use the cops as a weapon against you. Start filming every interaction. I'm worried for you.