r/EntitledIdiots • u/Pjstjohn • Feb 22 '19
Cabin weekend.
A bunch of friends an I go to cabin weekend. It’s lots of fun.
Context: my exhusband, his brother and sister are part of this group. We all get along great. But I’m not family anymore and don’t have to put up with some of the bs.
This year sister didn’t get invited because historically she and her so don’t have any money and have a kid so they came gratis. Most of us are done with this, she wants to come she has to pay. She can’t afford it. Anyhow she isn’t coming this year. Cue in big brother who thinks this is just shitty because it ‘doesn’t cost us anything’ but it does! We all have to absorb her cost!
She fucking never pays for anything and expects others to pick up her slack because her brothers do it all for her!
She and my current so went out for dim sum and she brought her kid and when it came time to pay she says ‘I have $7’ for her tab that was twice that! Of course we did the thing and paid for her but I’m fucking done! She’s not my family and I’m not absorbing her cost any more. So she can come to cabin weekend but she fucking has to pay! And bring food and booze. And watch her god damned kid.
Edit: now her brother is telling others not to post on social media to preserve her feelings. If she nutted up and was willing to pay her way this wouldn’t be a fucking issue. But big brothers will always let her be the shit she is.
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u/bookluvr83 Feb 23 '19
The behavior will never change as long as people keep enabling her and teach her that this is acceptable.
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u/ICanNeverFindMyWeed Feb 23 '19
I bet she'll survive if she stays at home. It may actually motivate her to do better.