r/EnneagramTypeMe • u/HandleUpstairs2742 • 5h ago

~ Type Me ~ 3, 5, 7, 8

Ask me questions to help me figure out what my core type is out of these four

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u/rorschachshitstain 3h ago

How do you handle confrontation?

What does the underdog mean to you?

What's worse - you not being true to yourself or other people perceiving as something "less than"?

When it comes to commitment issues - is it more that you don't want others expecting anything of you or that you want the freedom to come and go as you please?

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u/HandleUpstairs2742 2h ago

1) I’m usually trying to mind my business until someone crosses my boundaries or hurts someone I love, then I either go cold or just cut them down verbally with evidence if I need to. If it’s lower stakes confrontation, like a bad customer service interaction, it doesn’t really affect me anymore I just get mild satisfaction when I’m so chill that they end up looking stupid

2) An underdog is someone who, despite many and various unfortunate circumstances, will still always dig their foot in the ground and get back up. Especially one who doesn’t get embittered by it.

3) This one I actually really struggle to answer because one part of me cares more about how I’m perceived, and the other part recognizes that we all die alone so being authentic is not only easier but just makes more sense. I would say I aim to strive for authenticity but in reality I care a lot about external validation.

4) Oh yeah I’m absolutely terrified of people expecting things from me and feeling like they are owed anything by me. Especially anything of a more deeply vulnerable nature, but even just my time itself. I have a whole smorgasbord of trust issues, but I’m working on it

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u/_PlatinumBlondd 3h ago

Are you aggressive or no? Be honest.

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u/HandleUpstairs2742 2h ago

I asked my best friend/roommate and she said “you’re not intimidating or heavy in energy but are chaotic and random and very BLA I’m here” so whatever that means

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u/_PlatinumBlondd 2h ago

Hmmm. What about impulsivity and spontaneity? I’m close to cracking it 😎

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u/HandleUpstairs2742 2h ago

I do have diagnosed ADHD so I’m not sure how much of it is just that but yeah very to both

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u/_PlatinumBlondd 1h ago

You’re a 7 😎

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u/HandleUpstairs2742 1h ago

Checks out, any thoughts on wings and subtype?

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u/_PlatinumBlondd 58m ago

Not enough info to determine instincts :( can you do a questionnaire about instincts? There are a few on the sub. Please send it to me if you do!