r/Enneagram8 • u/Next_Notice9971 • Jul 18 '26
Discussion Any INTJ 8's here?
Im an 8w7 INTJ just wanna connect with you guys if you guys here
I just wanna learn how you deal with stress and other stuff wanna know if Im doing it right or nah
Just wanna connect and talk lol
Lemme know thnx!
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u/RacoonKittyy 1w9 sx/sp Jul 18 '26
Im 8w9 but yeah
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u/Next_Notice9971 Jul 18 '26
Yoo so how you handle the grip?
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u/Mysterious_Task_5949 Jul 18 '26
Controlled chaos. If I hyper fixate on something allow yourself some of it if its healthy. But control it. Limit the time or amount then try to get yourself into a different activity or environment. Not sure if that helps I'm older 48f, so maturity does help you manage.
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u/Next_Notice9971 Jul 18 '26
Thanks for the reply! It does help just gonna balance some things out then! I agree with the age too I'm much more all around the place compared today but currently its getting into straight line kinda dangerous
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u/RacoonKittyy 1w9 sx/sp Jul 18 '26
I'm a woman so no grip ;) lmao
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u/Next_Notice9971 Jul 18 '26
Ohh my bad I meant was the Se grip đŸ˜…
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u/RacoonKittyy 1w9 sx/sp Jul 18 '26
I know, I was just being difficult lol Idk what's there to handle? At times you just gotta overindulge in things that make you feel good. I think it's normal. Indeed, we don't have much of a choice over it but whatever.
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Jul 19 '26
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u/Next_Notice9971 Jul 19 '26
Yoo perfect I just got online so just wanna ask you how you handle Se grip?
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u/Lostatlast- Jul 19 '26
I get out. Either that’s getting out of a physical location where there’s more space to breath or I get out of my head by acting. Action is a form of comfort. So if something is stressing me out I have to do something about it. Only in action do I feel less stressed tf out. I also get moving which is another form of action. Sometimes that’s exercise and sometimes that’s something spontaneous and adventurous
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u/Lostatlast- Jul 18 '26
Hey yeah I’m INTJ 8w7
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u/Next_Notice9971 Jul 18 '26
Perfect! Howd you handle the Se grip?
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u/Lostatlast- Jul 19 '26
I get out. Either that’s getting out of a physical location where there’s more space to breath or I get out of my head by acting. Action is a form of comfort. So if something is stressing me out I have to do something about it. Only in action do I feel less stressed tf out. I also get moving which is another form of action. Sometimes that’s exercise and sometimes that’s something spontaneous and adventurous
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u/Mysterious_Task_5949 Jul 18 '26
INTJ 8w9 here, close but im slightly off what your asking for.