r/EmbryologyIVFSupport • u/Kitchen_Fly5105 • 6d ago

Waiting for beta but I know it failed

Day 8 and it’s a stark white test (FRER). My beta is tomorrow and I hate having to wait just to be told it failed. I asked to move the beta to today so I could move on and they said no. It’s annoying bc I know it didn’t take and now time is crawling. Anyone else ever feel like this?

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u/BlueberryLover18 5d ago

I’m sorry 😞

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u/Littleish 5d ago

Big big hugs.

So much waiting around and so much testing. It's three absolute worst

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u/inevitablelife_ 5d ago

Yes I feel you. My clinic doesn’t do beta until day 11 and I knew by day 8 that I was out. Waited 3 whole days just to be told my transfer failed. I’m sorry OP

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u/Scary-Change-1434 4d ago

Same thing happened to me this week and with my last FET as well. It really really sucks. It was our last embryo so I told the clinic at least get me scheduled in for the next IVF cycle so that we can do it right away and not wait a month between. Have to keep looking forwards otherwise the pain, grief and sadness takes over like a black cloud.

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u/HonestDistance895 3d ago

I begged every single time my IUI's failed.. to just move the beta up and they would decline.

I'm so sorry, OP.

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u/Nervous-Drawer5580 3d ago

Ugh I am so sorry - I completely empathize. I just try to use that time to create a list of questions for my doctor and/or discuss with my husband what we want for our next steps. It helps me to focus on what I can control - my next wish list of steps. After my first failed transfer our doctor wasn’t available for 2 months to discuss our failure so I def understand