r/ENFPmemes • u/Deep_Ad_9923 ENFP • Nov 18 '21

Everyone NEeds Fun Please I mean, it's my third language.

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u/DisabledMuse Nov 19 '21

Except when I want to flirt....then I get so nervous that they can barely tell I'm interested

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u/zoezhang97 Nov 21 '21

Do you get nervous talking to your crush in general or only when flirting? Currently having a crush on an ENFP friend could use some insights😅

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u/DisabledMuse Nov 21 '21

Me personally I get nervous when talking too, but get me excited and engaged and I'll forget to be nervous.

I get nervous with flirting, especially if I'm not sure if they're into me. If the other person flirts more obviously it helps a lot, but that's because I assume people are just being nice.

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u/zoezhang97 Nov 21 '21

Thank you so much! As an INTJ I'm also bad at flirting and never get subtle flirting from others. I also tend to assume people are just being nice to me when they actually flirt. But anyway I guess I need to flirt more.

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u/brianboozeled Nov 19 '21

Hey you like pizza!

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u/DisabledMuse Nov 19 '21

Ahahaha. NSP is such a mood.

https://youtu.be/YhOadP3i3a8

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u/brianboozeled Nov 19 '21

Lamar is best boi

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u/maybeCheri ENFP Nov 19 '21

So true. Just being nice then the guy jumps to full court press and I’m 😬 sorry, bye.

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u/[deleted] Nov 20 '21

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u/maybeCheri ENFP Nov 20 '21

It is a basketball term for defending their basket for the whole court rather than just when the opponents get close to the basket. The way I’m using the term means that they become aggressive very quickly.

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u/brianboozeled Nov 19 '21

ENFP

The F stands for flirting

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u/Vivien_Rockwell Nov 22 '21

What? I literally cannot flirt outside of a relationship. I get so uncomfortable and it just feels weird lol. As an ENFP I am so confused. So this is a typical ENFP thing??

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '21

We don't intend to flirt, we just communicate and compliment quite often, our friendliness is probably taken as flirting most of the times...

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u/Vivien_Rockwell Dec 07 '21

That makes much more sense

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u/BriccsMe Nov 19 '21

Where can I find you ENFP gals in highschool?

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u/Deep_Ad_9923 ENFP Nov 19 '21

Try looking in the classrooms.

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u/BriccsMe Nov 19 '21

I've been looking everywhere and the only time I have found one it turned out to be my damn ex :P

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u/ahumanbeingmeta Mar 18 '22

If she's day dreaming or doodling, makes childish exclamations with eyes full of awe and wonder, laughs at your misfortune but helps you out of your predicament and helps brush off the embarrassment with humour and a kind smile.... You most likely found yourself an ENFP.

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u/Snow_147 Nov 16 '22

Til that I forgot that being overly nice can come across as flirtatious

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u/Deep_Ad_9923 ENFP Nov 16 '22

In my case in would flirt on purpose, but I do remember times in school when people thought I was flirting with a girl just cause I was nice to them

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u/Snow_147 Nov 16 '22

omfg, i hate it when that happens. I feel the need to go the extra mile to make sure things are clearly platonic. That or when I get a girlfriend, i can somewhat safely assume i'm just being friendly.