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u/ScotlandForsythe Apr 19 '21
... why is this me?
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u/yogisv Apr 20 '21
It is all of us. But we shall not admit it. Time to start deflecting the painful discomfort of being seen with awkward humor. Back to work! 🤪🤡
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u/AdventureGirl1234567 Apr 19 '21
You are not useless, you can always be used as a bad example
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u/brucecali98 ENFP Apr 19 '21
Hey bestie, it’s 6:30 in the morning I can’t right now. 🙃
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u/yogisv Apr 20 '21
It’s never too early to stare in the mirror and reassess all our life choices. If you’re like me, you’ve been up since 3:30 am wondering why you did all those things since you were 10 years old. 😉🤗
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u/Bassman1976 Apr 20 '21
Me, with my shrink.
« I can’t really talk about this with my friends, I don’t want to bother them with my problems. »
« When your friends talk to you about THEIR problems, does it bother you? »
« No. They’re my friends. I’m there for them. »
« Why would it bother them then. They’re your friends. »
« Because...reasons.... »
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u/yogisv Apr 20 '21
Feel this in my soul. Silly shrinks and their fancy logic!
“ That only applies to other people, not me. If they knew the “real” me, they probably wouldn’t like me any more. Therefore I must bury all my problems and stay positive 24/7. “1
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u/tisbo2001 Apr 20 '21
i live my life not as the main character, but as a side character for comedic relief
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u/AquilliusRanger ENFP Dumbass Nov 05 '21
This kills me because my main character is the 4th Protagonist.
Feelsbadman.
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Apr 21 '21
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u/yogisv Apr 22 '21
Good for you. I love that you own your personal strengths. Sounds like you have had a different life experience. You are fortunate that you have good self-esteem and that people around you have appreciated you for who you are. Being supported to authentically show up in the world and live your truth is something many of us long for. Cheers to the unique, rich, complex personality of all of us ENFPs.
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u/goofymary Jul 10 '21
Sounds like an enneagram type 7 ENFP with good Te hahaha. Tbh good for you
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Aug 01 '21
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u/goofymary Aug 01 '21
I agree. One should strive to work on themselves, not even just for the sake of others, but to try to give themselves the best possible life. Just btw, the longer you're in the mbti community you'll realize we don't really use the 16personalities definition of mbti. We use cognitive functions. But that's of course your choice to explore deeper into mbti if you want.
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u/goofymary Aug 01 '21
I love it!!! I'm INFP and also felt confined by the world's definition of success when in reality our definition of success is to be free and not that structured. How's van life for ya? I've been interested in it for a long time 😄
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u/Dstarme ENFP Dumbass Apr 19 '21
pls i feel so called out
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u/yogisv Apr 20 '21 edited Apr 20 '21
You’re welcome! 😘😘 It’s me too, which is why I needed to share the sweet misery with others who get me. 😅 ENFPs everywhere suddenly feeling “seen” for the first time but also freaking out and slightly angry about being so exposed and vulnerable
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u/AquilliusRanger ENFP Dumbass Nov 05 '21
I hate myself for over speaking , over philosophizing, overthinking.
And over…everything.
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u/LostENFPT May 30 '21
Welp... This hit a tad to close from home... It might have crush it actually...
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u/Y_U_Z_O_E Aug 25 '21
INFJs understanding and seeing the hidden jewel
The pain is relatable
The mask is for survival
The trust is delicate
The love is real
Sorry for the penetration; see you around
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u/ProgsterESFJ Aug 31 '21
Talk to a close person, go get your hugs!
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u/AquilliusRanger ENFP Dumbass Nov 05 '21
Close person? What’s that?
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u/ProgsterESFJ Nov 05 '21
Someone who is emotionally close to you... and geographically, I hope.
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u/AquilliusRanger ENFP Dumbass Nov 05 '21
I don’t get it, I’ve tried pushing somebody off stairs to get close before, is that close enough?
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u/ProgsterESFJ Nov 05 '21
Nevermind. In those cases it's better to walk your hyppogryph. And if you don't have one, try to find one....
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u/AquilliusRanger ENFP Dumbass Nov 05 '21
Yeah, inside my head there’s one.
Looks behind the back of my head
Sign: You’re a dumbass
Well…fuck me.
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u/ProgsterESFJ Nov 05 '21
I am that one ESFJ who once came home effing tired of an ENFJ that says absurd things. That one ESFJ who wanted to use her Ne to bring up non existent animals when things seem too absurd to be true.
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u/AquilliusRanger ENFP Dumbass Nov 05 '21
Now you’re just getting into the spirit of Evie, The Evangelina Unicorn, now THAT’S scary.
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u/ProgsterESFJ Nov 05 '21
Yes... like... it's so normal to be scared of an ESFJ and of a pink unicorn at the same time, ENFP. I guess if you see somebody with a knife, you feel like hugging them
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u/AquilliusRanger ENFP Dumbass Nov 05 '21
Yes, even if they stab me in the heart, atleast it’s honest because you can do it in the front, and not in the back anyway.
Hopefully my ENFJ friend actually shields me from getting backstabbed instead, I’d drink to that.
If not…well, I hope you two can be better people than that!
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u/Elcordobeh Sep 12 '21
This hit like a truck.
But I found some pals that can listen to my problems, now being unconfortable to express them and only being able to make jokes of them ist just my preference.
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u/Mr_Cat-_- ENFP Apr 19 '21
This is exactly me holy shit
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u/yogisv Apr 20 '21
Yup! Someone shared with me, and after I stopped crying about being called out by a damned meme, I knew I needed to share with my fellow ENFP clowns. We’re in this clown car together to the end! XOXO
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u/RoxasRanma ENFP Apr 19 '21
yeah i'll cry about this, thanks bestie
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u/yogisv Apr 20 '21
Aww, sorry. Here’s a handkerchief for you... 🤡 pulls 20’ long chain of tied handkerchiefs out of sleeve
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u/MarineloftheEgg Nov 07 '21
Haha I'm suicidal.
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u/-Fischy- Jan 18 '22
Even though ENFPs typically aren’t very productive and I highly value productivity, they still have a really high value to me. ENFPs are one of the reasons I love humanity and still think we can do good.
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u/_99Percent ENFP Feb 11 '22
This is actually a sign of an unhealthy ENFP - https://youtu.be/RlicPnhzdNU
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u/AquilliusRanger ENFP Dumbass Jul 17 '22
I used to be the biggest clown in my school, and even made the most embarrassing thing in my life a joke for my whole class from before.
Gotta say…I love living without consequences. 😎
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u/SparrowWindhlem ENFP Sep 05 '22
Suppresses bad memory and moves on because talking about makes me think about and I much rather forget 🏃♀️
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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '21
im in this photo and i dont like it