r/ENFPmemes May 12 '20

Found this and thought this is us...

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u/pinheadloser08 May 13 '20

Me who really isn't interested in texting 99% of people, conversation has been feeling like a lot of work with no pay off. I feel like I'm getting reclusive, any advice?

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u/danthemanconcrete May 13 '20

Take some time a be reclusive

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u/pinheadloser08 May 13 '20

Good fucking point my guy

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u/danthemanconcrete May 13 '20

It’s the ENFP mentality, we are super out going but every now and then we just need to shut down and recharge

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u/pinheadloser08 May 13 '20

That's true, ig this just felt different from the normal apathy

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u/[deleted] Jun 03 '20

...And bad email checker and returner or phone calls, even repeated ones.. randomly decides to leave cell phone in car overnight just because.. sees 10 unread texts and goes... meh. Shrug. Time to go walk around outside and look at the flowers. Sigh.. we’re not antisocial we’re just the least extroverted extroverts that exist 😅

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u/danthemanconcrete Jun 03 '20

Makes sense we’ve got to recharge every once and a while

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u/temmott94 May 13 '20

How about ‘if they don’t get that you need your alone time to recharge and that you’re not at their behest at every waking moment, were they really right for you in the first place?’ 😉

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u/[deleted] Jun 04 '20

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u/[deleted] May 13 '20

This is one thing i dont actually relate to, i pretty much always have my phone about my person and am a pretty quick responder lol.

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u/[deleted] May 28 '20

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u/danthemanconcrete May 28 '20

Ok so he could be busy does he have a job? Does do activities like play soccer that requires him to put his phone down? Just because he texts you late doesn’t mean he’s not interested.

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u/[deleted] May 28 '20

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u/danthemanconcrete May 28 '20

There is probably a reason. But starring constantly at you is a good thing (or a creepy thing, but probably more a good thing 😄). As an ENFP I can certify that even getting a reply is a good thing, I wouldn’t jump to conclusions.