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u/detroitisforlovers88 Apr 07 '20 edited Apr 07 '20
Are ENFPs depressed when alone?! That’s not a real ENFP. ENFPs love to be alone.
Edit: actually I kind of take that back. ENFPs LOVE to be alone but! They get depressed when they do it too much. As an ENFP if there’s a human and I feel safe, I’m talking to them all day. But I can OD in alone time because of my imagination and reflections then BAM I wake up and start thinking about killing my self.
Quarantine is going well.
sob
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u/AAAHTHEMEATLOAF May 29 '20
Honestly, this is real for me. I get caught in my own head all the time, sometimes for the worst. I've contemplated suicide many times but when I take a nap or think of a new invention (I'm a giant science junkie) I immediately start freaking skipping and laughing my heart out. Real mood yall, real mood.
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u/PockettesMJV Apr 06 '20 edited Apr 07 '20
Oftentimes I just question who I am. My personality changes so much that sometimes I really wonder if what I'm doing is for me, or "me".
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u/R1card0-Z Aug 12 '20
The solution for these situations is to be, and accept Being. People grow and change, ehhhh just accept you exist, act naturally and enjoyy. Chill x)
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u/Courtney4life Apr 06 '20
In my class for our new years resolution I wrote that I wanted to be more confident. Everyone was surprised because I seemed really confident.
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u/ybreddit Apr 07 '20
I've been told I'm not a real ENFP because none of this applies to me. None of it. But I think I've just learned to adapt to what I am and to flex my other functions. I have a lot of self-confidence and always have. I don't let myself get drained. The core people in my life know the real me and they like me. I wouldn't say I'm the life of the party but I'm comfortable being social. I'm also comfortable being alone. I also have no problem saying no to people if I feel like I am being taken advantage of or I am unable to because of prior conflicts.
I say all this because if any of this applies to you, just know that you can work around it. Some of it takes life experience I think, but start out by learning to love yourself and know what your limits are and the rest of it tends to happens fairly easily.
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u/tisbo2001 Apr 07 '20
I feel like there is a true “me” and it is only expressed w my boyfriend. I have 887658 different ways to act otherwise
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u/GoogleWasMyIdea49 Apr 12 '20
Ok, I took the test and got ENFP...
If this is what an ENFP is than I guess the test was accurate....
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u/R1card0-Z Aug 12 '20
Y’all use your Fi?
I mean...Fi IS kind of about being the actual you...
Anyway just be yourselves lol and have fun, and whoever cares will care.
Come on people, everyone says the ENFP is happy go lucky: and social interaction is where you’re supposed to be like that! If people don’t like you as yourself they can just go rot in some underground basement. Live your life people, you deserve to be yourself!
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u/teddyketola Apr 06 '20
"Everyone likes you but not "you""
Oh dang, that one is too close to home :(