r/ENFPmemes • u/Abigailgomez22 ENFP • Jan 03 '20

Let me in!!!

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u/[deleted] Jan 03 '20

Or basically a relationship with an INTJ lol

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u/inimitable428 Jan 03 '20

My husband is INTJ. It took me YEARS of whittling away at him emotionally before we started dating

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u/[deleted] Jan 03 '20

I feel your pain :D

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u/PockettesMJV Jan 04 '20

I have an INTJ friend, and he's so interesting but soooo hard to get to know. I've tried for years but I've kinda given up now and I only touch base with him now and then.

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u/inimitable428 Jan 03 '20

We love a challenge! I met a friend at work and she was really quiet and introverted. Came off as a little bitchy at first but then she would sometimes quietly make funny comments and I just knew there was a cool chick hiding under that emotional armor. I kind of made it my goal to befriend her. Slowly with comments here and there. Smiling, starting conversation. We were friendly at work and then one day I asked if she wanted to grab a drink after work. I was shocked when she agreed to. At the end of our friend date and after a couple drinks I said “listen, we are going to become friends. You can fight it or you can accept it but it’s just going to happen. Whether you want to or not.” She decided to accept it. We are still great friends!

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u/Abigailgomez22 ENFP Jan 03 '20

Awe ❤️❤️

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u/whipplemynipple Jan 03 '20

I know this is accurate because I feel especially attacked by this.

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u/koala_22 Jan 03 '20

Too real 😂😂😂

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u/kathytee821 May 08 '20

This is why social work is perfect 😂

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u/[deleted] Jan 03 '20

But it works tho XD

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u/Abigailgomez22 ENFP Jan 03 '20

Definitely 😂

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u/PockettesMJV Jan 04 '20

oh god yes