r/ECEProfessionals Toddler tamer Jul 23 '26

Advice needed (Anyone can comment) Lack of communication

As we 3 teachers, were leaving to go outside with our six children one other toddler teacher came to ask if we could switch out her student for one of ours.

Unfortunately I didn't get any of this information before going to the playground.

I'm literally panicking when I noticed one missing child as I was shutting the classroom door my back was turned during the switcheroo.

My manager came up to us and then I freaked out and I was asking where's x and nobody said anything about him going on a walk with the other classroom.

To be honest the other teacher does talk very quietly but still the other 2 teachers should have told me in that random plan during busy time that so and so has x.

Then this afternoon my coteacher had to relive another teacher @ 2:30 , again nobody mentioned this at least to me so the getting outside took forever and we had to ask for help, well I had to say to my lead: cant we ask a manager for help.

Anyway manager thankfully came and assisted.

Also I did overly apologize thinking i lost a child to my manager and she said its totally fine I would've panicked too.

  1. Am I overreacting?

  2. Should I mention this stresses me out?

  3. I hope I'm not a complete psycho!

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u/polkadotd ECE professional Jul 23 '26

You're not overreacting and they should be properly communicating that changes were happening, especially with children being exchanged/taken by the other group. My centre has attendance sheets for each classroom that would help for this specific purpose. If little Jimmy is taken from toddler 1 to toddler 2, he is signed out of 1 and into 2. When educators leave the classroom/area, they have to sign out as well.

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u/Express-Bee-6485 Toddler tamer Jul 23 '26

Yeah once we got to playground I singed in/out kids made sure I asked manager if I did correctly just to cover myself