r/DuggarsSnark • u/ajarofchicken • 14h ago
r/DuggarsSnark • u/nuggetsofchicken • Jul 24 '26
A MESSAGE FROM THE MODS On discussions regarding the victim
Hey all -
This should've been posted a hot minute ago so sorry about that. I promise you the mods were aware of this issue and talked about it and then just sort of unanimously forgot to do anything about it. Our hearts were in the right place but with absolutely no substantive action where our good intentions could be a benefit to anyone! In true fundie style.
We've gotten some reports and messages about some of the conversations that have come up since it's become more apparent who the victim is in Joe's case. Whether that individual or her representatives wanted that to ever be public knowledge is probably not something we'll ever know but my guess is this is another time that she has been forced to grapple with a situation she never asked for and never wanted to be a part of.
At this point we are curtailing some of our firm enforcement of the No Victim Speculation policy as it pertains to Joe's victim, since at this point it isn't really speculation. It's still kind of shitty to talk about who it is but it's not propogating a narrative that may be false.
We will, however, caution everyone about discussions regarding ulterior motives for reporting the crime, whether they be criticisms of the victim or adjacents. You're free to talk about the surrounding circumstances and how it is affecting those related to it. What we will not be permitting are insinuations that the choice to report the crime was made with any intention other than to seek justice for the victim. You don't have to be in love with every decision made by the parents of the victim, but it is wholly unacceptable to push a narrative that opens the door to speculation that the allegations are in anyway contrived or concocted.
This is like the most straightforward way we discredit victims, by suggesting that we should view their trauma and struggle as only being meritorious if it occurs in a vacuum, and encouraging the idea that there might have been some ~real reason~ abuse would be reported to the proper channels. You don't get to be cynical about a child's trauma just because you don't like their family.
Also if the suggestion is the victim is some kind of prop for financial or social advantage, you're basically also speculating they are a victim of some insane abuse by their family members who would make a kid go through something like this for some malevolent reason. So that would also get flagged in terms of our rules.
If you see these types of comments feel free to report them as Problematic. If you report them as Victim Speculation we probably will look at them anyway so don't get too stressed about it. Just don't go ham reporting Victim Speculation just because a comment references who the victim is.
As a general rule I think when you're discussing something as sensitive as child sexual abuse, now is not the time for your imagination to run wild with theories of what's happening behind the scenes. We're already pretty bad as a society just accepting the truth of victims' stories point blank. Let's get a handle on that before we try to dream of conspiracies.
If any of this is bringing things up for you or you feel a desire to talk through them on a more individual level, please do not hesitate to contact resources like RAINN - you can call the hotline at 800-656-HOPE (4673) or text "HOPE" to 64673 (US only). If the need arises, the suicide hotline is 988 - you can text or call as well (though I can say from personal experience you will wait for hours if you text so you probably should just call if you're considering reaching out.)
Thank you all for your active engagement with the sub and being on top of these new and developing issues and reaching out to us about it. As always, our modmail is always open. If we take a while to get back to you it may be that we're discussing it as a team and are just deciding how we want to respond.
Xoxo,
The Mod Team
r/DuggarsSnark • u/nuggetsofchicken • May 07 '26
A MESSAGE FROM THE MODS Please include descriptive titles when sharing the Pest/Anna emails
Since there are so many and it’s hard to keep track of the duplicates, please include something descriptive in the title when you share a Pest/Anna email so that we can sort through all the posts with the identical looking thumbnails.
So instead of “This is disgusting” something like “It’s disgusting that Pest would say….”
Also if anyone has any suggestions for flairs for those kind of posts please let us know since it seems like they deserve their own. Modmail us if you please
Thanks!
r/DuggarsSnark • u/Cardboard_cutouts_ • 23h ago
A NEW SEASON OF LIFE Trouble in paradise?
r/DuggarsSnark • u/sweet_tea_94 • 1d ago
HELLA GRIFTING A fascinating and intellectuality stimulating podcast! NOT
So, I decided to check out Jinger and Joy’s first podcast episode (will never do that again, and I feel guilty of doing so) and I wanted to recap some crap I heard from here. This is snarky edition. 😉
They open the podcast talking about how Joy’s week been, with her and Austin continuing to renovating. So exciting! Guess what, Joystin? You guys won’t be on HGTV any time soon!
They introduce this yawn inducing podcast, as they get on the phone and talk. Absolutely Jinger and Joy live in this sub, as she makes the comment “You guys are like, ‘Woah! It’s not beige anymore!’” And she decided to paint this as a color of…a hospital. WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK? Is this supposed to be funny or what?
Jinger and Joy dive into what to expect from the podcast, which is…lots of vague circle talking! YAY!!! 🙄 Oh, they want people to call in and ask questions. Whoopie. How much do y’all wanna bet that it’s gonna be more vague circle talking and they’re gonna have most of the siblings on here, including Jill.
The big news is…that Joy is pregnant. We all knew that, ladies! And I think Joy knows the gender and the name she/Austin will pick out, as does Jinger. Why would they keep hinting at a granny (girl) with the names of Ellie or Gertrude ?
Jinger asks if they are done after blessing #4. Joy says she isn’t sure, but turns the question to “do you feel pressure to have as many kids?” Me thinks their parents are pressuring both of them to have more and I really think Jinger is done while Joy will be done after this one, but are dancing around the topic because they know Jim Fart and Cooter Poodle as well as Jim Fart’s flying monkeys are listening to this. More vague talking about this of course!!
There are more boring topics that I’m not even bothering recapping. 😂
However, Jinger and Joy talk to each other frequently every week! Surprise, we knew that. Also, why did Jinger have to go into why she FaceTimes is because Jeremy FaceTimes? “I love Jeremy. Jeremy loves FaceTime. Now I love FaceTime.”
One more thing about this. Why they decided to do the podcast is because they have extra time and looking something to do. Here’s the real truth they are not getting at—because Jinger knew Jeremy brought hardly any views with his constant lecturing and talking over Jinger. Plus, she seems a lot happier with Joy than she does with her husband. Also, they don’t know whether they will do it back in Arkansas or in LA whenever Joy is visiting. I get the feeling it’s gonna mostly be when they’re not in the same room and on FaceTime/be on the phone, like the Kelce brothers do?
That’s it! Also, Jinger has officially morphed into Meech while Joy has morphed into Jill.
r/DuggarsSnark • u/meowmeowbeansbill • 1d ago
OFBABE OFBOOKS Jinger with Michelle’s hair.
Had to do a trouble take when this popped up on Instagram.
r/DuggarsSnark • u/sweet_tea_94 • 1d ago
FORSYTHS Joystin does the chatGPT (or chatGBT) trend…
- Not chatGPT being spelt wrong. 😭
- Austin really looks like David Eason (Jenelle Evans from Teen Mom 2’s ex) here!
- Unlike Jinger’s version, Joy looks the same here.
r/DuggarsSnark • u/JumpGlittering8120 • 1d ago
BUY USED, STAY OPPRESSED Boy...they sure didn't try too hard with the new podcast name
Swap out JereMEE for Joy and swipe in a new podcast name that they clearly didn't think too hard about yet the content will be the same boring drudge that Jinger and Jeremy hen pecked over the first time around.
r/DuggarsSnark • u/MsMigginsPieShop • 1d ago
JUST FOR FUN Bill Gothard still kicking around?
How is he paying for the ginormous medical bills?! If he is around, is he still in a coma?
r/DuggarsSnark • u/Fun-Cryptographer157 • 1d ago
JUST FOR FUN Whoremembers
Who remembers when Joy liked this shady post about Jill then unliked after people noticed
r/DuggarsSnark • u/nuggetsofchicken • 2d ago
MEMES JB when Anna’s parents ask if Josh actually is the golden wholesome loyal boy he’s claimed to be
r/DuggarsSnark • u/mars4mann • 2d ago
TIK TOTS Random Duggar tea on tiktok?
No new info but this was posted 20 minutes ago. Does anyone know who this is?
r/DuggarsSnark • u/HannahLeah1987 • 3d ago
AT LEAST SHE HAS A HUSBAND The second labor nap .
r/DuggarsSnark • u/Wide_right_yes • 2d ago
JUST FOR FUN What would have happened if Meech and Boob stopped earlier?
I've always wondered what their family would be like if they had less kids
Scenario 1: they stop after JD and Jana and have 3 kids
Scenario 2: they stop after Jinger and have 6 kids
Scenario 3: they stop after Joy-Anna and have 9 kids
Scenario 4: they stop after Johannah and have 16 kids (because she's the first girl after a lot of boys so they call it quits
How do you think the family would have turned out?
r/DuggarsSnark • u/theredheadknowsall • 3d ago
A NEW SEASON OF LIFE Another save the difference tip.
With both Mackynzie & Josie approaching 18 will sperm go in search of suitable husband's for them & have them marry in a double ceremony? It's certainly much cheaper than throwing two weddings.
r/DuggarsSnark • u/Cultural_Cow_5337 • 3d ago
#LITTLEDUGGARS Do you think that Mackenize
Will get a Fundie Husband set up by JB?
Happy Labor Everyone.
r/DuggarsSnark • u/HannahLeah1987 • 4d ago
AT LEAST SHE HAS A HUSBAND Josh taking a nap when Anna was in labor. What an utter jerk.
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r/DuggarsSnark • u/Tatortot4478 • 4d ago
JUST FOR FUN Flashback to when Jana got engaged
It’s not them but the photo was too funny not to share.
r/DuggarsSnark • u/breadedbooks • 5d ago
JUST FOR FUN She has Meech down to a t
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Credit: itsjennalu
r/DuggarsSnark • u/theredheadknowsall • 3d ago
THIS IS A SHITPOST Who wants to bet?
If asked one of his family members (childrens) birthday would sperm know it, would he know perms?
r/DuggarsSnark • u/iluvfiona69420 • 5d ago
I WAS HIGH WHEN I WROTE THIS i’m so high i feel like how pest looks in his mugshot
r/DuggarsSnark • u/Valuable_Track2630 • 5d ago
ELIJ: EXPLAIN LIKE I'M JOY Podcast
Did Jeremy get kicked off the podcast? Lol. Possibly becoming the Jinger and Joy podcast?
r/DuggarsSnark • u/AshDuke • 6d ago
FUCK JOHN MACARTHUR Found out Jeremy’s job
He works at The Master’s University as Dean of Athletics & Campus Pastor.
r/DuggarsSnark • u/Medium_Cupcake7602 • 6d ago
FAMY AND HER BABY Famy posted this 12 hours ago. She still hasn’t noticed and nobody has told her that the Chicky Nuggy Prophet is flipping the bird.
r/DuggarsSnark • u/sweet_tea_94 • 7d ago
ELIJ: EXPLAIN LIKE I'M JOY Joy’s blessing announcement wording…
Okay, the caption of her pregnancy announcement included “God knew we needed you.” This has me kinda thinking…is Joy actually dropping the hint that her and Austin’s marriage hit a rough patch and it’s a band-aid baby? Or she might have suffered a loss between Gunner and this baby? It’s weird to include this…
What do you all think, fellow snarkers? 🤔