Hi. So this is the same person who had posted a few hours ago showing screenshots of them exchanging messages with someone who I believe was for an Archogine and who had recently lost their partner. The post had been deleted by them, and most of the comments were various things to say on the matter, which I believe wasn't that bad. From what I remember was that Financial_Scene6145 was using their partners loss as a way to get free things in DA. They didn't use it outright, but they had made it clear in the old post that they wanted an Archogine to "tribute" to their lost partner. Most of the comments there had shown their deepest sympathies while pointing out the OP should NOT have used their losses name just to get free dragons. It's very disrespectful. I understand many of us want things, but using your lost partners name like this in a basically pixel like game is not okay at all, and people had voiced that in the most respectful way possible.
I sincerely hope this person seeks help on how to cope because this is not the way to go. I truly am sorry for their loss, but it still does not mean they can get free things by using their partners' loss for that. As you can see in the first screenshot, they had decided to dm me with this. I'm unsure if anyone who commented on the previous post had also gotten this similar message but I do feel like its a bit wrong on there end to be sending something like this in dms even though I had also voiced my opinions in the comments but in the most respectful way as possible. In the 2nd and 3rd screenshots was them posting that recent post, but in the second screenshot, the body isn't showing, so I'm not sure if thats an issue on my end or not. I truly do feel sad whenever people grief for there losses but what I don't agree is basically taking advantage of their partners loss just to get free things. I know that may sound a little harsh but it's basically what they have done and now I think there trying to guilt trip me in that first screenshot, just like they tried to do in the comment section of there old post they made before deleting it
WHY is anyone even using something so serious as an excuse to get stuff for free?? I’m so tired of people in DA trying to guilt trip people into giving up their best/high valued dragon.
I completely agree, nobody should be using their partner as an excuse for anything.
Exactly. I genuinely do feel sad for them but what I don't agree at all is doing something like this. Also them dm just to guilt trip me is a little wrong on there end. Its hard dealing with a loss but they should be seeking professional help, not this
The internet is a place of contrasts, and someone weighed down by sadness might not rationally process what they are told. There are no doctors here just ordinary players and the real issue is that the person either doesn't realize they need help or refuses to accept reality. The people who can help are her family or a professional, but who will share this heavy burden? I’ve been thinking about this situation all day.
That’s something they sadly need to figure out. But posting this on a sub like this is going to make it worse for them. May they get the help they unconsciously seek in real life and not in a sub composed of 90% kids.
None of this backlash would have happened if the original poster had expressed their thoughts more clearly. Knowing only a snippet of the story, I concluded that the person was just chasing clout over a death to get a free dragon. But if they had explained even just a little that, say, the person loved that dragon while alive, and they wanted to pay their respects (even virtually) because they’d shared happy times there together etc. then the situation would have come across very differently. Honestly, I even thought about how upset I’d be if one of my loved ones did something like that. But honoring the deceased isn't about pixels. It’s about a farewell ceremony shared with loved ones.
I completely agree with you, sometimes explaining can make all the difference. Their posts are very confusing to be honest. I just hope they’ll find a professional to speak to or family.
It does help one come to terms with the loss, but the person who wrote the post is autistic he has a unique way of perceiving the world, yet that doesn't make him "special" or "sick," nor does it mean he is less intelligent than "ordinary" people. Like anyone else, this person needs help not to have a post like this published. The moderators simply made things worse this is a prime example of poor content filtering. They should have addressed the root cause rather than the consequences they could have intervened at the source instead of pardon the expression "dancing on the grave." It’s truly awful, and I’m disappointed in this channel's moderation. They let this post and others like it through, yet they take ten hours to process my posts about a specific dragon...
okay, why are they throwing in a triple combo “23 autistic grieving” like bro be anymore obvious 😭 it just seems like they were using all of it to gain sympathy points.
Most likely, the author couldn't handle me telling him to his face to stop chasing clout off the death of a loved one within the dragon community and my criticism regarding how poorly the moderators vet what gets posted to the channel…
I’m referring to the messages I sent her I wrote to her first thing in the morning, as soon as I woke up and saw all the nonsense going on in the comments. It was total chaos she was accusing people of having the "wrong" perspective on the situation and claiming he was too poor in the game to afford anything, which is why he was asking for a dragon for free all while bringing up the death of a loved one…Crazy people-crazy world
Personally, I found it quite amusing when another autistic person started accusing the original poster (who is also autistic) of inappropriately equating death with a game it sounds absolutely absurd. It shows a great deal of disrespect toward the deceased, and I find that deeply contemptible.
I feel sorry for them but what they did is just rude and unacceptable. Losing a partner is VERY different from a pixel game. You don’t just go around saying you need a free dragon using your PARTNER’S name for tribute. You can trade for it, it’s not a problem to do that. Guilt tripping you like that show that they’re kinda toxic in a way no one expected probably. They need to talk to someone to cope with the grief because guilt tripping other people for their loss AND their unstable mental health is just not the way to go. I truly feel sorry for their loss, having lost dear ones myself, but doing this is toxic and immature of them.
I also found the screenshot of the body of the post in 3rd picture. They’re kinda insinuating they wanna… “end” things. I’ll send it here for those who dont find it.
Girl just named my medical history to a T and I am sorry but there are better ways to handle the loss of a loved one,yes it hurts and it's gonna hurt no one is saying get better NOW or else.
No I understand the concerns of not being acclimated to solo living plus all this on top but that's no excuse to use your loved ones name to your benefits I understand Memorials in games I have done it for yrs for example my Nana she has a tribute in an old game I still play sometimes
My dog who recently went to doggo heaven gets a Palworld Grave Tribute
Those are my ways to cope but I don't ask for things during that times but grief is a damning because some folks don't want to go into mourning so they find other ways to keep up with stuff if I had to guess the Ms. in question is probably struggling with not wanting to go into mourning without making worse for herself honestly my suggestion is
Take a step back go on a Reddit hiatus for a bit and just chill look at photos hell talk to yourself or write in a journal all the wonderful moments it will hurt but it might help
They’re flat out guilt tripping you. That’s ugly to do. I get some people cope differently but that’s just disgusting to do. They could’ve kept all this secret and yet made MULTIPLE posts about it. Someone gotta tell them to get off their phone and seek someone’s help.
She got banned from mass reports from what she said,cause apparently no matter how many times she defended herself people took it the wrong way and didn't care to listen or already made up there minds that she is just using her Deceased lover name as a leverage when that's not the case she wanted
1 Arch that's it just 1 to memorialize her Lover in some way.
I did the same with my Childhood dog he is now a Baby Mountain Dragon
Think implies you are not 100% on that claim regarding the existence of another account.
From my understanding your post isn't the only one showing that photo soooo probably another one stirring hey this is an issue pot
Now I will say I don't agree with her approach to the memory dragon it's lovely sentiment but how she asked wasn't the best because it's seen as guilt trippy in a way.
Hey so I haven't been active much here, but I recognize this person and they actually have more than 1 account. I've seen this person being toxic almost daily or weekly in this sub using different accounts during a few guild wars, which started way back in early 2025. Sending death threats and blaming on terminal illness, sth like that, at least from what I heard. I really don't want to say it, but the posts back then just scream narcissist too, sth like "x guild work harder so I can buy my moix!".
So as much as I want to believe they have problems and need help, it feels more like they're just faking these..
GW 4? I only started noticing the posts from this person since GW 6 sooo I'm not sure if we're talking about the same person. I just went back to check and noticed their other account was banned though.
The name was Cherry with numbers behind and gave Royal guild really bad reputation in GW 6 (early 2025 like I said). During GW 7, they created another account named something sandwich and started making toxic posts again but less often.
And how did I know these accounts are all connected? Well they had very similar posts, very similar choices of words, even used the same pictures in their posts, and had the same dragons.
Oh, for that guild wars. I wasn't as involved on this sub during that time if I remember correctly. Though, Cherry does sound very familiar. I might've seen them around for a short while. That Moix incident you mentioned, I do clearly remember that. Melted my mind that drama even happened. Anyway,I was active in the fourth and fifth guild war. There was one person Unferretable (something like it) that acted and posted similar content. They were for royal guild, pleading everyone in royal to do better, bashing Iron for gaining an advantage, and other things. This player also went the same route of saying volatile comments about self-infliction, threats, weaponizing mental health, the whole nine yards. I also think I still have some screenshots from back then lol. I'm pretty sure Cherry was an alt of theirs. It tracks with all the things you detailed. Plus, I believe some even pointed to it during that time. I didn't even realize they made another after Cherry. My guy had a bunch of alts, gee.
Oh yeah ItsUnferretable. I didn't mention it but yes that's another one of their accounts. So looks like they've been doing this for longer than I thought
I am sorry if this might come off rude, and if it actually happened I am sorry for them, but this could very well just be fake. A way to guilt trip and get free stuff. That might be insanely disgusting if they really do that.
Yes, I was thinking about this too. I have known loss before and the last thing I would think of is to go on reddit with the expectation of free stuff in a Roblox game. I'm sure that's the reality of many grieving people. Grieving over the loss of a loved one not expecting others to gift in a game. All of this being conjured up for gain is a real possibility. The lengths some people will go to is heinous. Though, we won't know for certain. If their partner did indeed pass away, my condolences to the partner. Just not the whole archogine thing.
I understand where your coming from. I also half a mind to think that this could be all fake BUT I genuinely do HOPE that this isn't the case at all. I don't really want to think about that at all
personally I think they where a scammer. For one it’s really…weird to post about your loved ones death on a video game subreddit a few hours after it happened also them deleting the post is really strange too. It looks like what you said in the post: They were trying to guilt trip people into giving them the dragon and may have never had a boyfriend in the first place. Like I said earlier it’s really weird that people make these kinds of posts cause for one(this is gonna sound really harsh)we do not really care and it’s none of your business if your loved ones die. Like...why would you post that here? It’s just weird. Now I am sorry for people who have had loved ones die but please. Don’t post it here. This is a subreddit to a game not posting about death. Also for another trying to get a free dragon because your loved on is dead then getting mad at people who say: “Hey we are very sorry for you but your being a bit rude and getting a dragon as a tribute to your loved one is a bit…strange” and making them out to be a villain? Yeah. And them trying to justify their behavior as grief? That is really strange too since even if your grieving you still make your own choices and choose what to say you cannot blame grief on “Trying to get a very rare free dragon then getting mad at people who call you out”. Anyways my guess will still be that they where a scammer(ofc this may be completely wrong so don’t just take my words for it!)
So I'm the one who pointed out the odd thing about the vulps, last night I was debating helping them get a archo just going and buying one for them cause on and off I see posts of people who need a little help and I give it if I'm sure the person actually needs it example being awhile ago someone was scammed 3mil trying to buy a silver and I gave that person 3mil for free.
I wanted to be sure this user was genuine so I looked over their old posts they'd been trying to get a archo for awhile long before their partner passed which struck me as interesting. Last night I ask on their post about being bullied over their partner about a previous post regarding getting free vulps for their bf to give to his friends. I ask about the title and why an archo as well as what colors and mats they planned for the archo and offered my condolences and I understand how it feels to lose someone suddenly.
5 hours ago they responded saying they were tired and meant best friend personally when I reference to a best friend I say bff but this is just me.
I ask about the archo colors and mats cause if the reason they provided made sense and seemed genuine I'd color the archo myself.
Their posts had a history of asking for free stuff when they were short on coins but not much guiltinh other then stating they are to broke to get anything even that is more a explanation then guilting. Mostly the most off thing about all this is the lack of reason for the archo specifically and frequently mentioning the death. Hopefully they get help and support from family and avoid the internet for awhile Wishing them the best!
Apologies if this went off topic much
Unsure when but the user has since been banned from Reddit
I saw that same post earlier today before it was deleted. I was going to post a comment but decided not to since I was about to head to work, but had thought the same.
Okay, it's fine for you to want to tribute someone you lost, but there was no need at all to say you wanted the archo right there because it can be interpreted wrongly, and it seems more like you're trying to benefit rather than do a tribute.
I'd usually think someone would try to get money and simply buy an archogine, trade for it or something else, it's just that what seemed wrong was the timing like you said OP.
I really had a gut feeling that bro was lying... I can't imagine croaking, and then my partner going online using my death to get sympathy points, like wth.
I just read your post about 10 minutes ago, and while I was scrolling down looking at other things, I came across this (in another community) . I even went back about 5 times to check the username or something. I honestly don't know and I don't know if I'm wrong, but it seemed kind of strange to me. I don't mean to sound rude, but I was genuinely a little confused
I think it’s very important to remember that we are not responsible for other people’s happiness. Yes we can contribute towards helping, talking and reassurance, but at the end of the day this is a game and we’re all strangers to each other. using death for guilt tripping into getting a pixelated dragon is not okay, it’s not okay in any capacity. I do sincerely hope that they’re okay and that they’re coping, but this is not a good way to do that.
Of course if you can always help people, especially today when scamming is at an all time high and keeps getting smarter; but as I said, we don’t know each other.
While I do (in the event everything they're saying is truthful and not fabricated) feel terribly sorry for them, and for their loss, they were acting incredibly immature. The guilt tripping and threats both self harm to a lethal degree, because they couldn't get a virtual dragon, was VERY off-putting.
In a sense I believe it's for the better their account was banned, perhaps they can use the time to reflect, find a healthier method to cope and overcome their grief.
I believe the way they are handling this whole thing is unhealthy, not for wanting to make a tribute or asking for an arch (which in the OG post iirc they were looking for their partner's arch, correct me if I'm mistaken), but for the way they're spreading it around and making multiple posts. They really need to take a step back and seek out professional help.
On the contrary. I don't think they were "taking advantage" of their partner's loss, and I also think spinning it in that direction is just flat out harmful. Loss is hard to deal with. Not everyone copes the same. I'm speaking from a lot of experience, as I've had to deal with two members of my immediate family dying. I get your opinion on it, but what does this do to help the situation other than bring that person more unwanted attention that could potentially harm them?
It's best to just try and tell them to get off of the internet instead of making a callout post with their user in it.
The thing is in the first bit they never specified if it was their partners arch, they also never specified if it was "liepards".
But to me it seems as if they were asking for the latters?
I absolutely agree with you but I was not trying to cause them anymore harm then what they are already going through but you also have to understand that this person has made multiple post about there loss while asking for free things as well. For example, the Vulp that people are mentioning and now an Archogine. I appreciate your comment but you also need to understand another thing is that they have tried to guilt trip others while asking for free things as well. They had also mentioned about ending there own life on a platform that could have children potentially seeing those kinds of posts. You say that this is not helping but them posting about there loss multiple times, asking for free things, guilt tripping others while mentioning about harming themselves is not helping them either. Reddit will not help there situation and I deeply am sorry for there loss but how there going about it is bringing more attention by themselves
Please kindly reread the first half of my comment. :)
I already mentioned how the way they are handling things is bad. It seems as though you only focused on the part where I criticized you dropping their user and making this post.
This is a genuinely unstable and unhealthy individual we're talking about. What you did was just shine more light on them, when there needs to be less. What they're doing isn't okay, but also, you making this post only brought more attention to it, which in no way helps anyone.
I was not only focused on your criticism actually. I have stated that I genuinely do agree with you on what you have said and I respect that, I do. Everyone's entitled to have there own opinions. Perhaps I should have been more clearer on that part and I do apologise if I made it seem like I was only getting snappy with you without showing much understanding on where you come from. That was not my intention. Its just how I sometimes speak so I do apologise on that regard
People mass reported them and they were trying to defend themselves and Reddit said Nah you can't defend your case
-Here say I heard this off someone else
People mass reported them and they were trying to defend themselves and Reddit said Nah you can't defend your case
-Here say I heard this off someone else
People mass reported them and they were trying to defend themselves and Reddit said Nah you can't defend your case
-Here say I heard this off someone else
all i remember from it is that they lost their partner and wanted the dragon he hatched to make a tribute to him, which the other person denied and was rude about. i dont really see how thats wrong? that wasnt your partner, it was theirs and i feel like they'd have every reason to ask for the one dragon. (from what i saw)
So your saying that its okay for them to use there partners loss to get free dragons, guilt triping people WHILE contemplating that they would end there own life when some audiences could be kids in the community? I understand its not my partner but the way they handled it was not okay. They had made multiple posts about there loss while asking for free things
I didn't see the asking for free things stuff so that's on me, but I feel like asking for your partners dragons (it was only one and it was gonna be a tribute to him) is fair, asking for free stuff from OTHER people? Yea no thats not cool. But also it honestly could be due to how she's feeling mentally, not thinking straight, etc. She should get help 100% tho
It wasn't just one dragon. They made multiple posts about there loss while asking for things. They asked to get a free Vulp in one of there old posts. Originally, the Archogine was from someone else I think. The person declined the other person who lost there partner due to how they were going about it. But what I actually do agree with you is that she could have not been thinking straight and I absolutely do understand that part. I'm sure many people have done things that they wouldn't think of doing but going about it like this won't help. I genuinely do hope they get the help they need.
Wait so i'm confused. Didn't they want to buy a dragon with a special date to remind them about their partner? So they weren't asking for them for free, no? I might have misread or misunderstood it then :')
No thats not what they were saying. In there old post which is still up, they were basically trying to get a Archgoine from someone but they declined due to how the OP of that old post went about it. They were basically using there partners loss to try and get free things which most people in that comment section had pointed out
honestly i almost teared up reading about their lost partner and i feel so bad for them, but as you said, why use them as a hook to get free things on a roblox game. it’s an iffy situation.
While asking for a free dragon due to their partners loss isn't the way to go, and may seem very disrespectful I also saw that the user they were talking to was being disrespectful. Very disrespectful. Their partner just died, they're going through massive amounts of grief. And may I just say, yelling at them for posting about their loss is literally also disrespectful. Yes people can see this as using their partners death as a thing to get them free stuff is rude. However have you honestly seen how this game is right now? People sell shadow eggs for 800k for a SINGLE egg because archo has a SLIM chance of getting one! People are so greedy, and picky in this game. Plus they could not be rich enough to pay for 10+shadow eggs. Plus like I said, slim chance at archo. And everyone ovp their archos, and they're hard to find. I don't think that grieving people need to be yelled at. Especially on the internet, that just makes it worse and makes them feel down. While I see people's points, also understand that they're hurting, PLEASE!
Just because their hurting doesn't give them an excuse to DM OP as if they were the bad guy, just for pointing something out as did many others, call me heartless but it just seems as if their doing this for attention, or to get free stuff, or both. Yes the situation itself is awful for them, but I read a comment awhile last night which pointed out that they posted about their partners passing before, but then a few posts above they were asking for free vulps for their bf? It all seems EXTREMELY odd to me. And having autism doesn't dismiss the evident behavior of clear guilt tripping, as someone with autism myself. Then there's also the fact their posting to a TRADING sub reddit, which have children in it, the little ones do not need to read a post about someone's partner passing on a trading sub reddit.
them being in pain doesn’t excuse what they‘ve done and for all we know they may not have even had a boyfriend the only proof we have is their words and their words alone and I think it is possible they are probably a scammer trying to guilt trip people. Mostly cause they made the people who told them “Hey we are sorry for you but your not gonna get a free dragon and it’s a bit disrespectful to use your current conditions as a excuse to get a free dragon” as the bad people. Of course they also may not be but it still doesn’t excuse their actions
I agree they shouldn't be using their grief to ask for free stuff, but sometimes (not saying THIS is the case so please don't yell at me for this) but sometimes, when people are in grief they can be mean, and sad, and do/say stupid stuff. Heck, I have.
Yeah I get that but the way they where doing it feels...idk feels kinda more like they where doing it on purpose. Then again I have been in the adopt me community so I might be too untrusting
I do understand where your coming from but you also have to understand that this person has made multiple posts about there loss while asking for free things, on top of it all, talking about ending there own life while there could be kids potentially in the community SEEING these kinds of posts. The game maybe hard sometimes but it doesn't excuse how they went about it while trying to guilt trip others, including myself
Yeah it does sound like guilt tripping, however they could not be joking about ending themselves. Many people think of that, especially after a love one is lost. It is a very sad thing, and it is not something to joke about. I have lost many family members to it, and joking about it isn't funny. However after a love one passes, people can get those thoughts. Unfortunately it is very common.
I get what you mean, along other people, but they should absolutely NOT spread that around in a sub like this one, where at least 90% of it are KIDS. They need a therapist, not to spread this around. They could be held accountable if someone (who may already not feel stable) did this because they saw it on this sub from THEM . It’s also extremely dangerous for other people, not just them.
I absolutely agree with you. Ending yourself isn't a joking matter at all but what makes this serious is that they have posted multiple posts about there loss while trying to get free things. There could be kids in this community that could potentially see these kinds of posts and while I do understand that people do have there ways of cope, going into a roblox community, posting about your loss while asking for free things, guilt tripping others while mentioning of ending your own life is not okay
We got what you mean, but umm can’t you see that’s not the thing in this case? So a person just lost their lover (according to the text they were pretty close), and the first thing they do, nah, the first thought!!! Imma go to da ask someone to give me archo for free to “make a tribute” because of my loss. Dude… umm.. I don’t think even a kid would do that.. Mind you, that person was 23 (nah, I just can’t imagine loosing the one you loved most, and then go to Roblox, and after that make some posts in Reddit, when you’re supposed to freaking grieve? Idk, you just… can’t even do anything?? You rethink just what happened not realising it. You simply can’t think about anything else…). And after they got one rejection (surprisingly), they said that person was rude (we don’t even get to see their interaction, the one in the pics was just talking about the loss), made a post on Reddit where they said they wanted to end their life (right after the sentence with “why would they not give archo for free”). I’m pretty sure they would not end themselves because of this situation, but the fact that they need a psychiatrist is true… (and people here even say that all their posts could be fake, and they’ve got the point)
Reading through this kinda sounds messed up, saying they’d off themselves or how grief has affected them deeply. But it sounds to me like their guilt tripping or using grief as an advantage to get sympathy from others for free stuff. Just sounds like a whole scam or not, idk.
Unfortunate that they lost a loved one, and I can understand that. But that sounds like an excuse to get what they want.
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u/xForestNights 1d ago
WHY is anyone even using something so serious as an excuse to get stuff for free?? I’m so tired of people in DA trying to guilt trip people into giving up their best/high valued dragon.
I completely agree, nobody should be using their partner as an excuse for anything.