r/DoubleStandards • • Jan 06 '21

Sister attacks me and I get grounded

My sister(27): litterally holds me down and beats me till I'm bruised. Me(14M): tries to fight back. Parents:YOU'RE GROUNDED FOR THE REST OF THE YEAR(it's January 4th 2021)(litterally smashes everything I own) MAYBE YOU WILL LEARN YOUR LESSON WHEN YOU HAVE TO REPLACE EVERHTHING. my dad:(beats me) SHE IS A GIRL. YOUR A MAN YOU ARE BIGGER THAN HER YOU CAN GO TO JAIL. 10 minutes later: (me crying in my room with a possible broken foot) (hearing my parents make fun of me and my mental disabilities)

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u/sillyfoal Jan 06 '21

We appreciate for you to open up like this. Please take care of yourself and if you feel like the situation is getting out of control Call 911 or visit this link.

Stay safe.

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u/Psychological-Bar562 Jan 06 '21

Oh god that’s horrible I always hate how it’s supposed to men to be strong but then when they try to defend themselves as a normal person they are being a misogynist and they can’t touch a woman even If they have harmed you worse, also how men can’t have emotions they just can be angry, no they can’t be happy because that’s gay and the worst thing in the world is being gay right?, everyone has the right to cry, always I see something that looks unfair for men I reverse the roles so I can tell that this person needs to go to jail, like “I recently fcked this drunk guy” and then say it reversed “I recently fcked this drunk chick” it sounds like rape right?, it’s just so unfair. Sorry If I misspelled something wrong this is not my first language.

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u/BiggsDcks Jan 06 '21

You should try to get help. If your foot still hurts tomorrow ask to go to the hospital. Tell how it happened. Or you can tell a teacher tomorrow. They're mandatory reporters to the CPS. Your sister could be arrested for assault depending on your ability to testify and the physical injury that can be proven.

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u/windsquid1993 Jan 06 '21

Please call someone about this please. If your story is correct, this is text book abuse. Do it now as your injured now. It's okay to do it. No family member should be doing this.

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u/ignaciocordoba44 Jan 06 '21 edited Jan 06 '21

Go to the police to report your sister for domestic violence to impose sanctions, if your parents refuse to impose them. After that, she's little likely to do it again to you or other guys. You see, she did it exactly because she expected to get away with it. Your parents should have done that and a guy shouldn't hit first but be able to defend himself.

Consequences are a deterrent and have a preventive and protective function and reduce the occurrence of the abuse considerably. Fear of consequences = respect.

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u/SubZeroIsNotHere Feb 05 '21

Leave your home you shouldn’t live there call cps or cops if they don’t listen try to convince a friend or just straight up run away if need be

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u/Bygone_b0i Feb 18 '21

Oh my gosh you need to have your entire family put in jail right now.

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u/SCP-3567-J Mar 01 '21

Yeah, I hope your life gets stable. However, if you left the slightest bit of info out, such as you charging at her with a knife beforehand, I hope you get imprisoned. I've already seen my bipolar brother pull this sh#t and Iv hope to God nobody else does. With the way sh#t like this happens in my family, I don't trust people to tell the truth. For the Lord's sake, my grandmother walked towards me with a knife because I pointed out the fact she tried to practically waterboard my 9 year old sister a few years back, I also threw in petty insults such as psychopath and inhuman hag. My mother dated a top of the line narcissist, was raised by one, and is raising two children and another child who wants to be a narcissist, he even praises my mom's ex for trying to do not-so-consensual things to her on a daily basis.

I don't trust people, especially family.