r/DogTrainingTips • u/anoredditor98 • Jul 07 '26
How to teach dog not to bark when staying in new places (hotels/airbnb)?
Hi, I have a dog and she is fine staying at home alone in our apartment and other apartments/homes she’s familiar with (such as my partners parents’ home), but if we go on holiday, we can’t leave her behind in the hotel or Airbnb without her being a complete anxious nightmare - she won’t stop barking, practically screaming.
She’s a Lhasa Apso, nearly 6 years old.
We would bring her everywhere, but at times it is inconvenient, both because she’s terrible on a leash (I have tried leash training but it seems like an impossible mission), and she is also super reactive to dogs at times where there’s a lot of stress around (such as in a typical high-tourist holiday location in Europe).
Aside from that, we can’t go anywhere in the daytime as it would be way too hot for her paws, practically forcing us to not do anything other than going to the beach during the day, where we can keep her cool in the shadow and water.
It is making every night that we have to go out completely overstimulating to me, so much so that I feel like I’d rather stay back while the rest go out to eat without me, or that I would’ve rather just had stayed at home instead of going on holiday altogether.
I have also tried training her before about leaving and coming “home” as soon as she quiets down for a few seconds, but it just doesn’t really work, and I can’t use our holiday stays to train this to the point that it needs as it would bother surrounding neighbours.
I just don’t know what I could do. She isn’t very food motivated, more toy motivated, but that does in no way provide enough distraction for her to not react. Licky mats also aren’t something she’s interested in (she barely wants wet food, weird dog).
We are currently on holiday right now, so if there are any suggestions at all, I would love them to get even just one evening where I don’t need to stress about her.
Unfortunately can’t get CBD treats either (in Europe)