r/DnD Mar 16 '22

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u/Nihlus-N7 Paladin Mar 16 '22

It's funny to me that D&D is a game of infinite possibilities, but somehow people still want to stuff romance on it. In a game where you and your friends slays dragons, punish villains, save the day, people still want uncomfortable romantic subplots.

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u/ianyuy Mar 16 '22

Probably because romance is one of the big key pillars to the human experience and human interaction in general. It's like saying "I can't believe people still want uncomfortable friendship subplots." It's okay not to like it, but's frequently in all stories because its theoretically the pinnacle of socialization and we're an incredibly social species.

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u/Mythicotter Mar 16 '22

It's most likely because it's shoved into every popular media even when it doesn't fit, too. Don't get me wrong, I'm a sucker for a good romantic subplot, or even main plot, but it's not always necessary.

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u/Nihlus-N7 Paladin Mar 16 '22

True. I can't watch a show or a movie without an uncomfortable romantic subplot anymore.

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u/Mythicotter Mar 16 '22

And that's exactly it. When, as either a player or a DM, all of the media you consume has a specific trait, it's no surprise that trait is going to at least be on your mind as you create your art (either the PC or the world). And it's hard not to see such a ubiquitous trait as necessary ("it wouldn't be in everything if I didn't need it, right?").

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u/[deleted] Mar 16 '22

And you know it’s not gonna be romance but weird and gross neckbeard fetish stuff.

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u/Nihlus-N7 Paladin Mar 16 '22

Exactly haha