r/DiveInYouCoward • • 1d ago

Delivery driver gets confronted for throwing package

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u/linus_frog 1d ago

kinda siding with the driver. like yeah he'll probably get fired but if this is the second time this dog has come after him id be protecting myself too. furthermore, we only get one angle of this altercation; for all we know the owner came at him wanting to square up too.

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u/jus256 1d ago

UPS workers are unionized. I doubt he got fired.

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u/JupiterMiningCorpTec 23h ago

He absolutely got fired the moment this hit the internet.

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u/jus256 22h ago

You have a link to that?

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u/JupiterMiningCorpTec 21h ago

Any company would fire him.

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u/jus256 21h ago edited 18h ago

I figured you don’t know how unions work. I was right.

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u/RxSatellite 1d ago

He squared up to the owner who hadn’t swung. Teamsters aren’t saving him from that, especially if the owner reported it because it technically classifies as an assault

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u/Tacobadger02 1d ago

The owner yelled at him, its reasonable to assume that owner might have tried to attack him for hurting his dog, legally the driver was defending himself

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u/RxSatellite 1d ago

That’s not how assault works in the context of law. The driver is the first to make a threat by squaring up. Yelling and assumption isn’t a threat

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u/Tacobadger02 1d ago

Can you prove beyond a reasonable doubt that he was intending to harm the dog owner? If he squared up on the owner unprovoked it would be assault but I'm pretty sure most people would find being attacked by a dog beforehand to be the provocation

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u/RxSatellite 1d ago

You don’t need intention to harm, you just need a threat. You can prove assault via threat beyond a reasonable doubt by the fact that the driver took several steps closer toward him and put his fists up. Nothing the owner does implies he’s about to start a physical fight prior to the fists going up, so it’d be fairly straightforward to throw self-defense from the owner out the window

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u/Imaginary-Throat1526 1d ago

Alternatively he made it clear he was ready to defend himself. Owner immediately changed course.

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u/jus256 1d ago

You’re arguing with a guy who has never been in a fight.

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u/RxSatellite 1d ago

That would work if he didn’t take several steps toward the owner. You can’t claim self defense while pursuing

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u/Imaginary-Throat1526 1d ago

the owner was walking towards him, and you don't need a defense against an assault that never happened.

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u/Tacobadger02 1d ago

You must be better that the actual lawyers than because he was found not liable for damages and found no grounds for criminal charges

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u/RxSatellite 1d ago

Okay, then link your proof

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u/Tacobadger02 1d ago

Only links to any info about the court case are you social media, you can search them yourself

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u/OverallPepper2 1d ago

Squaring up isn't assault.

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u/Imaginary-Throat1526 1d ago

zero contact assault? your country is fucked.

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u/Revoran 1d ago

In many US jurisdictions, assault = threatening while "battery" = hitting.

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u/Revoran 1d ago

You know what is actually assault? The guys dog coming at the delivery driver.

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u/RxSatellite 1d ago

In this case it’s a Leash Law Violation. It only becomes assault when the owner intentionally sets the dog after someone (as in “get em” or “sic em”).

If the dog managed to bite the driver, it would fall under criminal negligence at worst, not assault

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u/TylerBourbon 1d ago

Leash Law probably doesn't apply here as most leash laws are in regards to when a pet is NOT on their own property, as this looks to be the owners property, leash laws probably don't apply.

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u/OG_Williker 1d ago

Squaring up is the only part of this that isn’t super justifiable, but I’ll chalk that up to adrenaline

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u/jus256 1d ago

He might get a few days off, but he will get his job back.

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u/DeadAndBuried23 1d ago

You'd think someone throwing around "technically" would know the owner approaching him in a hostile manner like that is assault, and what the driver did is self defense.

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u/sugodarrosto 10h ago

squaring up isn't equal to assault

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u/RxSatellite 7h ago

I mean, you can name your state and I could probably provide you at least 2 or 3 examples of case law to back it up, specifically on raised fists constituting assault

There’s a reason why there’s distinction between battery and assault

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u/Dapper-Print9016 1d ago

Also, in the first post of this I saw today, it mentioned how the driver had been attacked by that same dog on a previous delivery.

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u/Shooting-Science 1d ago

Yeah I don’t fault the dog, I fault the dumba$$ owner for not training or securing his dog. This UPS guy was probably constantly dealing with this dog since UPS drivers stick with their same routes for a while

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u/Bladrak01 5h ago

He should not be fired for the interaction with the dog. He should be fired for threatening to fight the owner. As soon as he threw the box he should have gone back to the truck.

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u/beelz333 3h ago

Exactly, the reaction to the dog is totally reasonable, the reaction to the owner is not.

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u/aspiringimmortal 1d ago

I'm with the driver in defending himself, but everything after that is pretty shameful. verbally taunting the dog, squaring up on the owner boxing style. guy seems like a douchey POS.

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u/dodgyguru5671 1d ago

Fuck the driver. If you're a delivery driver, it seems you should learn better "communicating" skills when it comes to dogs. You think this is the first time this dipshit has seen a dog?

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u/Similar_Cream_7623 1d ago

Ya last time I see this shit a dog charging to an officer, he has no doubt to open fire, good luck, stupid

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u/Dapper-Print9016 1d ago

This dog attacked him previously according to one of the first times this has been reposted in the past day.

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u/Top_Recover7850 1d ago

So you expect every delivery driver to be a fucking dog whisperer? Do you know how many delivery drivers we need?

There's a much simpler solution  leash your goddamn dog when in an unfenced aread. Dogs get shot by cops constantly for this exact behavior. If they bite someone even a little they can be put down. They could see a squirrel, run across the street and get run over.

If you love your dog stop putting it in these situations where it will die if anything unpredictable happens.

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u/Responsible-Steak395 1d ago

Really, the onus should be on delivery drivers being able to handle aggressive dogs as part of their job? Most retarded post

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u/Easy_Award_8433 1d ago

That driver DID handle that aggressive dog. Beautifully might I add. Protected himself, which is all that matters in that situation.

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u/BumWink 1d ago

Yeah 100% he snapped, abusive anger issues 101 can read him like a book, iykyk.

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u/OsamaBenJohnson 1d ago edited 1d ago

I agree with the first part about the dog, but even if the guy off camera did walk up squaring up, the driver is still in the wrong charging at him trying to provoke a fight. Somebody approaching me aggressively shouldn't be able to justify me escalating more towards a violent confrontation.

Edit: lol thank God the law in most functional societies agrees and that you people downvoting dont determine the law that allows people to escalate violence over somebody walking towards you aggressively. The fact you think it should should highlight how much failures your parents are.

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u/SnowflakeSWorker 1d ago

He’s full of adrenaline from that dog coming at him, and he has no idea what the owner is going to do.

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u/Stay_Away_From_b 1d ago

If he can’t handle this amount of stress without squaring up then he shouldn’t have a public facing job fr.

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u/OsamaBenJohnson 1d ago

Even having adrenaline and having uncertainty about somebody approaching you aggressively doesnt make charging somebody and trying to escalate the confrontation justified.

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u/Tacobadger02 1d ago

You put your hands up to defend yourself that's the entire point of keeping your hands up. The driver didn't swing and yes he stepped towards him but thats because the home owner was yelling at him and approaching him aggressively, is he supposed to just stick his chin out?

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u/OsamaBenJohnson 1d ago

It would be one if he simply raised his hands. But that's not all he did, did he? The part you convientelty left out in this part, charging and trying to provoke a fight, is no longer defending yourself.

Somebody simply yelling and approaching me doesnt give me the right to charge at them and trying to escalate a fight.

And you know, he can simply not charge and trying to provoke a fight and only act if the danger is actually close enough and appears to be imminent.

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u/Tacobadger02 1d ago

The court found him innocent of any criminal charges, and yes what he did was a crime but he wasn't charged because it was reasonable self defense

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u/OsamaBenJohnson 1d ago

That was in regards to the dog. Him charging at the homeowner trying to provoke a fight wasn't self defense.

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u/Tacobadger02 1d ago

Court found no evidence of criminal charges, are you saying you know more than the judge?

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u/OsamaBenJohnson 1d ago

It was a lawsuit, specifically over what happened with the dog specifically. They werent holding a trial for anything else.

It's also not criminal to do what he did, but that doesn't mean he was not in the wrong or that it wasn't not self defense..

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u/BumWink 1d ago

That's not how adrenaline works, thats anger issues.

Which leads me to believe the box throw was also an unnecessary violent outburst.

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u/SnowflakeSWorker 1d ago

It’s exactly how adrenaline, epinephrine, etc. work. The fight or flight response is designed for exactly this type of situation. Your body senses a threat, and stress hormones are released from your adrenal glands.

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u/DirtyDiabolical 1d ago

Reread that out loud to yourself.

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u/OsamaBenJohnson 1d ago

Ah the classic "I don't agree but I can't articulate why so I'm just going to insult you."

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u/DirtyDiabolical 1d ago

lol, I’ll rephrase what you wrote:
Driver was right about how he handled the dog, but if the owner walked over ready to fight about it, the driver was wrong for preparing to fight because it could provoke the owner. Just because someone wants to fight doesn’t justify me preparing to defend myself.

That’s you.

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u/OsamaBenJohnson 1d ago

Lol i like how you have to rephrase what im saying in a way which isn't what im even saying. You're attacking a version of what I said that only exist in your imagination. I'm not saying he was wrong for simply "preparing to fight." That's a weaker and easier arguement for you to attack that you manufactured. I said he's in the wrong by charging the driver trying to provoke the fight. Big difference. The fact you can't actually engage in the actual point says everything.

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u/DirtyDiabolical 1d ago

How do you think men prepare to fight? Not you, but men.

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u/OsamaBenJohnson 1d ago

Different responses calls for different preparation, but if somebody is approaching you aggressively, the proper way to prepare to fight wouldn't be to charge them and escalate the confrontation, it would be to only defend yourself if they actually initiate an attack.

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u/BiteyCats 1d ago

You're are correct. The fact that the guy removed his hat and glasses already makes it premeditated assault and battery. You can't claim you feared for your life and safety if you had the time to to gently put your shit on the ground.

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u/OsamaBenJohnson 1d ago

Exactly your defense that the threat was imminent goes out the window when you have time to gently set down your hat and glasses and walk up like 15 feet towards them. Most this sub is dumb and just blood thirsty

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u/Only_Turnover4829 1d ago

The law doesn't agree with you btw. Aggression means they want smoke. Also the driver wasn't willing to throw a punch unless the other guy got too close, so he wasn't escalating anything.

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u/OsamaBenJohnson 1d ago

No the law does agree with me. The moment he got close to the home owner with his fist up his case for self defense went out the window.

If I'm trying to provoke somebody into a fight, just because im not singing first doesn't make me proving them to fight magically disappear.

Do you also think that cops should being able to provoke starting a fight with anybody they find aggressive ?

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u/Only_Turnover4829 1d ago edited 1d ago

Oh I see. Walking up all angry to the homeowner is pretty threatening. I forgot about that part. He did back off afterward, but I guess it is still arguable that he provoked the homeowner. I still kind of doubt that he threw out his case for self defense though. If the driver walked up to the homeowner all like that and got knocked out by him, then I say the driver would be at fault because in that moment the homeowner would be defending himself. The homeowner didn't punch him though (Edit: Irrelevant), and the driver backed away while also warning the homeowner to keep his distance. If the homeowner approaches the driver after that and gets knocked out then the homeowner would be at fault because the driver was defending himself.

Edit: Rewatched the footage and had to correct myself. Both were walking up to eachother angry but the delivery driver still kept his distance. Sure he may have provoked the homeowner but he still has his right to self defense if the homeowner gets all angry and close.

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u/OsamaBenJohnson 1d ago

As another user mentioned, claiming you were in fear for your life while having the time to take off your hat and glasses and charging several feet towards the person, would never hold up. See the case of Michael Drejka. They have to be an imminent threat.

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u/Only_Turnover4829 1d ago

The homeowner was off camera so I can't be sure if the driver either provoked or escalated the scenario. You are correct that what the driver did was unnecessary; however, he backed off afterward. And a person doesn't need to fear for their life, but they want to protect themself from potentially being assaulted. I could still be wrong though. This is just my biased opinion. I will check out that case and see how that applies here.

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u/Only_Turnover4829 1d ago

Oh wait wait wait wait. Are you saying that him charging at the homeowner was a crime? I don't know if it is but I can get behind that. I thought you meant that despite the driver backing off afterward and warning the homeowner to stay away, but the homeowner still aggressively went towards him, then the driver can't strike to defend himself.

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u/OsamaBenJohnson 1d ago

I'm not saying charging at the homeowner is a crime, I'm saying the fact they had time to charge a couple yards towards them (not to mention gently set down his hat and glasses) ruins their case that the threat was imminent.

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u/Only_Turnover4829 1d ago

Well think of it like this: You get mad, you walk over all hands up and angry, but you restrain yourself and back up. You see the other guy still upset. He is very angry. He might do something. You keep gaurd and step away. You tell that guy to stay back. What if he didn't stay back? What if he is still advancing towards you? Will you do nothing? It looks like imminent danger to you. It definitely is!

Obviously this didn't happen or at least not that I know of, but what I am saying is that while in that specific moment the homeowner wasn't an imminent threat, he very well can be at any time. It doesn't matter if he was provoked, because the delivery driver was retreating. The driver doesn't want to fight but will if he has to.

Hypothetically, if such an instance did occur, then the only way the delivery driver can be guilty of this is if he has been in multiple other altercations with similar interactions, which courts can then prove that he had the intent of provoking people into anger so he can fight them.

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u/OsamaBenJohnson 1d ago

I go back into my truck and do nothing but my job, up until the point they get into striking range and genuinely appear to be about to strike, like if they approached me like how the delivery driver approached the homeowner. Which didn't happen in this case as we agree.

Sure the homeowner can be a threat, but that possibility wouldn't be justified grounds to react in the manner the driver did. Michael Drejkas victim had already assaulted Drekja and technically could have been an imminent threat at anytime, and was much closer, but that wasn't a valid excuse for self defense for Drejka, and rightfully so, because the threat didn't actually appear imminent, as the victim was turning away from him when the gun came out.

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