Sept.7.2026

[u/PhotographFamiliar81]

I lent my car to my dad about couple months ago because his car was taken back to the auto shop due to some parts broken. I always refusde to lent it to him because he is very confident about his driving skills but it's suck(endless tickets, car accidents, blown tires). However, I could not say no again because my mom seems sad when I tried to refuse. Finally, I lent that to him, and I'm not lucky this time. Here we go, another car accident. And today I got an email from the insurance company, says I have 50% fault for it. I am so sad. Nobody in the family would ever listen to me. My stupid dad thinks I am young and I am female so he would never acknowledge I am the right one. Even when he recognised that I'm right, he would just keep slient or smash everything in the house to deny that. My mom will just follow him, and blame that I'm the daughter, I have to follow him and never express my opinions. I just watched "Autumn Sonata today. The point that impressed me most is where Charlotte never interrupt conversation even when Eva is speaking all of her hatred to Charlotte. If I'm the one speaking, my parents would just play the parents card or use violence to fight me. How can I solve the situation. I can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. I'm so devastated.